Tips for Successful Romantic Magick

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Tips for Successful Romantic Magick

Timing:
Friday coinciding with a New Moon is considered the most auspicious time to perform love spells.
Friday’s in general are the best days for love spells.

The day is names in honor of Freya, Northern Lady of Love. It is also the day associated with other powerful spirits of love – Aphrodite and Oshun.

Colors for Love Magick:
Yellow Orange Pink Red

Numbers:
Two: the standard number – for the obvious reason Five: if you’d like to invoke the power of Oshun, Orisha of Love Six: if you’d like to invoke the power of Aphrodite, Lady of Love Eight: if you’d like to invoke the power of Inanna-Ishtar, Queen of Heaven. Eight is also the number of infinity and eternity.
Bathe your hands in rose water prior to mixing up any love potions or powders to intensify their effects.

If you find that your love spells are consistently not working place a strand of your target’s hair under a continuously dripping faucet to magickally wear away resistance (remember too that we are to always allow others to have free will, and wish for what is the best for us and the other person when we cast our spells).

A Lover’s Blessing (New Moon Spell)

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A Lover’s Blessing

Moon phase:  New moon

Materials:

  • altar candles (gold and silver for deities)
  • quarter candles and sigils
  • statues representing the three phases of the Triple Goddess
  • statue representing the Horned Consort (Pan)
  • bell
  • incense of musk
  • a vial of Sandalwood oil (to be charged in ritual)
  • a mirror
  • a pink candle (for young love)
  • two white candles
  • Athame
  • chalice of wine

During this ritual, the only two present are the lovers; both are skyclad (nude).  As this was performed at my own residence, a place where many rituals have been performed, I deemed it unnecessary for any cleansing of the location and of ourselves (both already bathed prior).INVOCATIONS OF THE QUARTERS

O mighty Sylves, guardians of the East and powers of Air, in the name of the old ones do I call forth your presence and your guidance.  The gate of the East is open.  I bid you hail and welcome!

O mighty Salamanders, guardians of the South and powers of Fire, in the name of the old ones do I call forth your presence and your guidance.  The gate of the South is open.  I bid you hail and welcome!

O mighty Undines, guardians of the West and powers of Water, in the name of the old ones do I call forth your presence and your guidance.  The gate of the West is open.  I bid you hail and welcome!

O mighty Gnomes, guardians of the North and powers of Earth, in the name of the old ones do I call forth your presence and your guidance.  The gate of the North is open.  I bid you hail and welcome!

The circle is complete…we are in a time that is not a time and a place that is not a place.  Blessed be!

INVOCATIONS OF THE LADY IN HER THREE FOLD ASPECT

She who is the maiden, the girl on the brink of womanhood, I call you Bridget.  I ask for your presence as Maid on this new beginning.
*ring bell*

She who is the mother of us all, the giver of life, I call you Aradia.  I ask for your presence as Mother to guide my steps.
*ring bell*

She who is the crone, the woman of wisdom, I call you Hecate.  I ask for your presence as Crone to give me the knowledge for all that I do.
*ring bell*

Hail and Welcome!

INVOCATION TO THE LORD

He who is the Lord of the Forest, the Consort of the Lady, the Sacrifice, the son, I call you Pan and ask for your presence and guidance.
*ring bell*

Hail and Welcome!

STATEMENT OF INTENT

On this night I will be offering several gifts to my lover – as a sign of my love.  May the Lord and Lady guide my secret works this evening.

…My first gift to you is to have you seen as I see you.

A REFLECTION OF YOU

As one of the gifts that I offer to you – I would like you to look into this mirror, and tell me what you see, then tell me what you think I see in you.  This is a gift I offer, for I think each of us has a harsh image of themselves.  When I say “You are beautiful”, I want you to know what that means, and why I say it.  I don’t want the words to make you frown in disagreement over the complexes you may have of yourself and for myself as well.

When I hold up the mirror to you, I want you to tell me what you see and how you see yourself in your own eyes – and then from my eyes.

When done – I will do the same.

    Each person will then say what they see, good or bad without feeling like what they say is wrong or untrue.  Let them say exactly what they feel.
 

…My second gift is my blessing of you in the form of anointing you with oil.

CHARGING OF THE OIL.

On the altar, I have a vial of Sandalwood oil that I will charge.  This will be done with “Om-ing” and a release of the energy into the vial.

ANOINTING OF YOUR LOVER

Have your lover stand before you
(skyclad is preferred since it is the body and soul that you are anointing with oil as a sign of your love.)

As you say each line – anoint the area with oil from your fingertips.
 

  I bless your mind, for your thoughts of love
    I bless your eyes for seeing me as I am
    I bless your lips for your words of love and the softness of your kiss
    I bless your shoulders for bearing the weight of love
    I bless your heart for feeling love for me
    I bless your breasts for the comfort they offer to me
    I bless your arms for holding me in love
    I bless your hands for the pleasure and comfort they give to me
    I bless your womb and yoni (penis for male) for the secrets of pleasure
    & wonder they contain
    I bless your legs for the weight and responsibilities of love
    I bless your feet for bringing you on the path to me.

…My third gift to my lover, a single flame to signify our union in love.

LIGHTING OF OUR UNION

From the flames of the altar candles, signifying the Lord and Lady – we each light a single white candle of our own and from our two flames we lit a single pink candle together as a sign of our young love – newly begun.
 

A TOAST TO OUR UNION

We then drank from the chalice of wine each holding the chalice together and drinking  from the same spot on the chalice.  So our lips drank as one.  We drank to new beginnings.

THANKS AND FAREWELL TO THE LADY

Bridget, Aradia, Hecate – Goddess in her triple form – each their own and each one, We thank you for your presence, guidance and blessing on our promise made here this evening.  Go if you must …stay if you will, we bid you Hail and Farewell!

THANKS AND FAREWELL TO THE LORD

Pan, Lord of the Forest, lover to the Goddess,  We thank you for your presence, guidance and blessing on our promise made here this evening.  Go if you must…stay if you will, we bid you Hail and Farewell!

CLOSING OF THE QUARTERS

O mighty Sylves, Guardians of the East and powers of Air.
I thank you for your presence and magic this evening,
Go if you must … stay if you will,
The gate of the East is closed…I bid you Hail and Farewell

O mighty Salamanders, Guardians of the South and powers of Fire
I thank you for your presence and magic this evening,
Go if you must…stay if you will,
The gate of the South is closed…I bid you Hail and Farewell

O mighty Undines, Guardians of the West and powers of Water
I thank you for your presence and magic this evening,
Go if you must…stay if you will,
The gate of the West is closed…I bid you Hail and Farewell

O mighty Gnomes, Guardians of the North and powers of Earth
I thank you for your presence and magic this evening,
Go if you must…stay if you will,
The gate of the North is closed…I bid you Hail and Farewell
 

THE CIRCLE IS OPEN BUT UNBROKEN
MERRY MEET, MERRY PART, AND MERRY MEET AGAIN.

Please note that this ritual was reformatted, there is an option to consummate your union with your lover in sacred space.

~ ritual created by Chrionna Paistin Ni Graham

The Perfect Bath Recipe for Fridays – Love Bath to Attract Suitors

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The Perfect Bath Recipe for Fridays

Love Bath to Attract Suitors

This is a type of love bath, but it is not the only bath that you can use for this. It is not as potent as satchels, but it will help you to attract more positive potential significant others. It allows you to clear your own energies as well as to attract another person to you.

Ingredients:

1. 4-5 Drops Jasmine Essential Oil

2. ½ Cup Lavender Flowers, Dried

3. ¼ Cup Sea Salt

4. 3 Tablespoons Chamomile Flowers

Directions:

1. Use the herbs as you normally would to make an herbal bath, and add the jasmine essential oil right before you get in. make sure to stir the water three times.

2. Repeat this mantra three times when you get in the bath and three times before you get out. “I will attract someone to love. I will be attractive to someone who will love me. Love is in my grasp.”

3. Soak for the desired amount of time but for no less than twenty minutes. It’s important that you are not using artificial light during this bath.

links

 Wicca Herbal Magic: The Ultimate Beginners Guide to Wiccan Herbal Magic

(with Magical Oils, Baths, Teas and Spells)

Sophia Silvervine

The Perfect Oil for Friday- An Oil for Love

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The Perfect Oil for Friday- An Oil for Love

You’ll want this oil for its aromatherapy, as well as the magical properties of the herbs used themselves. All herbs that are listed in oil are associated with love. You’ll still need a carrier oil to use this oil blend, but you’ll want to wear this oil directly. If you are not satisfied with the scent of this oil, add more rose essential oil before placing it in a cool, dark place. The scent is important to the magical properties of this blended oil.

Ingredients:

1. 15-20 Drops Rose Essential Oil

2. 1 Tablespoon Chamomile Flowers, dried

3. 2 Teaspoons Cinnamon, Ground

4. 1 Tablespoon Lavender, Dried

5. ½ Cup Almond Oil

Directions:

1. You’ll want to mix all of these herbs together in a bowl before placing them in a jar.

2. Pour the almond oil over them, and then add your essential oil.

3. Take the jar in your hands and think about attracting love. Think about the type of person you want to attract to you, and shake the jar gently until everything is distributed evenly throughout.

4. Place in a cool, dark place and wait five to six days before straining. Each day you’ll want to shake the jar and visualize.

links

Wicca Herbal Magic: The Ultimate Beginners Guide to Wiccan Herbal Magic

(with Magical Oils, Baths, Teas and Spells)

Sophia Silvervine