Lady A’s Specialty of the Day – Spell to Gain Control Over A Situation

8 thoughts on “Lady A’s Specialty of the Day – Spell to Gain Control Over A Situation”

1. I’m sorry I must be annoying lol, I don’t know the full names of the people that are involved or their birthdays. So would just the little information that I have of them, would it be best to visualize those people while I do the spell?

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   1. Sorry about the delay in answering you but the power went out again and the internet is just now coming back up. We are located in the sticks. So if a bird tinkles on the lines, out everything goes! You are not annoying. You are suppose to ask questions how else are you going to learn? Visualizing them and saying the name you know them by should work just fine. There is a much simpler way to get this done. First you need to get a black candle, paper and pen(a black ink one). Next put all your items in your sacred space. You are going to have to make it comfortable because you are going to do some writing. After you have cast your circle, tear the paper into shreds(in the number of people you are trying to get rid of), five people, five strips of paper. Next, take one strip at a time and write their names on the strip. As you do this visualize what they have done and why you want them gone. After you have wrote all their names on the paper, light your candle. Put both your hands on the candle and put your intentions into it. Next, pick up the first name and put it to the fire. As the paper starts to burn, make up a little chant about why this person should go. I forgot to mention you need a fire-proof dish. When you are through making your case to the Universe, put the paper in the dish and let it burn to ashes. Repeat with the others’ names. After you have finished lift your circle and take the ashes outside. Let the ashes blow to the wind. As they blow visualize your problems and these people are now leaving you forever. I have talked to you enough I feel like I can tell you anything. I believe this applies to banishing people as well as doing hexes and curses. Most of the time when I do a curse it is because I am very angry or upset with that person. I take it that these people you want gone, you feel the same way about. So take all that anger, resentment and ill will and turn it and use it in your spell. Build up that energy, direct it at the candle when you are putting your intent into it, direct it at the name on the paper while you write them and then burn them. Build as much power as you can and use it. When you take the ashes outside, let that resentment, anger or energy slowly fade from you as the ashes blow. Then come back in, ground yourself because you will have more built up energy than you know. Then forget about the spell. Do not even think about it for one moment. That is where most people screw up, they dwell on the spell. Don’t, forget it! You will see the results of your handy work shortly. I use the ash method for the curses, hexes and banishing spells. Sometimes I have even taken the ashes to the person’s property and buried them on the property. But I wouldn’t recommend you going to those extremes. I hope I have helped you some, at least you have an alternative to the other spell now. And Selly, don’t say you are annoying. You aren’t, I enjoy helping other witches. So if you need anything else just holler.
      Luv & Hugs,
      Lady A

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2. How brief should the summary of the situation be? The situation I want to have control over is a long one and I don’t want to leave any important information out. Do I also included what I want the outcome of the situation to be?

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   1. There are guidelines and outlines all over the web how a spell should be done and how it shouldn’t be done. Read over them, get ideas and then do what feels right for you. You ask how long or short the summary should be, consider yourself talking to an old or dear friend. Talk to the Divine the way you would with that friend. She already knows what’s in your heart all you need to do is get it off your chest and tell Her. Tell the Divine what you feel you need to tell. Don’t put a time limit on a spell. That will make you feel rushed and the spell might fail. Take your time and explain the whole situation, if you feel the need too. But never put a time limit on a spell, by telling what is in your heart and on your mind, you will feel much better about yourself and the spell.
      Good luck with the spell,
      Lady A

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      1. Thank you. Another question. There are people involved, do I need to use their full name? As in first, middle, and last for the spell to work?

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      2. You need to supply all the information you know about them. When I cast a hex or a curse (and you didn’t hear me say that, lol!), I use their full name, birth date, if you have the time they were born that is helpful, their age, anything you know about them. It is also a good idea to focus on each person as you tell their details. I always visualize the person, name them, give the date of birth, their age and if I really want to go in depth, I use their addresses. I like to visualize the person because you are assured that you are targeting the right person. There are people in this world with the same name, I would hate to put all my time and energy into a spell and then end up getting the wrong person. I hope I have answered your question, if you have anymore just holler.
         Lady A

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3. Is the fireproof dish the same as the candle holder? I don’t know if we have those here in the Middle East

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   1. There are several things you can use around the house. A candle holder would work fine, just as long as it don’t catch on fire. You can use an ashtray, a kitchen saucer, a tuna can, etc., anything that won’t catch fire.

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