Month: November 2011

NASA Image of the Day for November 25th

A New Map of the Moon

 

A New Map of the Moon

NASA’s Lunar Reconnaissance Orbiter science team released the highest resolution near-global topographic map of the moon ever created. This new topographic map shows the surface shape and features over nearly the entire moon with a pixel scale close to 328 feet.

Although the moon is Earth’s closest neighbor, knowledge of its morphology is still limited. Due to the limitations of previous missions, a global map of the moon’s topography at high resolution has not existed until now. With LRO’s Wide Angle Camera and the Lunar Orbiter Laser Altimeter instrument, scientists can now accurately portray the shape of the entire moon at high resolution.

Astronomy Picture of the Day for November 25th

Astronomy Picture of the Day

Discover the cosmos!Each day a different image or photograph of our fascinating universe is featured, along with a brief explanation written by a professional astronomer.

2011 November 25
See Explanation. Clicking on the picture will download the highest resolution version available.

A Glimpse of CLIMSO
Image Credit & Copyright: Alain Sallez (picdumidi.org)  

 

Explanation: A tantalizing glimpse inside this dome was captured after sunset at the mountain top Pic Du Midi Observatory in the French Pyrenees. But while most are just beginning their work at sunset, this observatory’s day was done. The instrument looming within is CLIMSO (for Christian Latouche IMageur Solaire), dedicated to exploring dynamic phenomena across the surface and atmosphere of the Sun. To image the solar atmosphere or corona, CLIMSO uses coronagraphs. Developed by French astronomer Bernard Lyot in the 1930s, coronagraphs block light from the center of the telescope beam to create an artificial solar eclipse and allow a continuous view of the solar corona. In this surreal twilight scene above a sea of clouds, the dome’s interior was revealed by the single, long exposure as the open slit rotated across the field of view.

Feng Shui Tip of the Day for November 25th

Oh, what to do? One calendar invests today’s energies in ‘Black Friday’ pre-holiday sales, but other calendars call today ‘Buy Nothing Day.’ So you can clearly see my confusion. Maybe we should spend our time learning about what Feng Shui says about the color black in the hopes of making it work for you! As far as ‘Black Friday’ is concerned, retailers use this term to suggest that today you can take advantage of low prices to stay in the black by spending less green. But black has its own identity when it comes to how color affects the psyche and the subconscious. Black is the Feng Shui color of mystery and magic that also holds the ability to provide protection and power. The color of night as well as the universal void, Feng Shui suggests using black when you want to add depth, strength or definition to any space. Just remember that a little goes a long way, and never use it in a child’s room. But do use it when you want to ground energies. Black is often employed when attempting to activate the energies associated with career, self-esteem and destiny! Putting an image of a waterfall inside a black frame and hanging it in either your front hallway or your ‘Career’ area will bring a wave of job opportunities that will not only put you in the flow but also keep you in the black!

By Ellen Whitehurst for Astrology.com

Your Daily Number for November 25th: 4

You’re capable, realistic, and especially good at planning today. An important opportunity may present itself; however, it’s best to exercise skepticism. Review all facts attached to an offer or proposal. It’s quite possible that someone may be exaggerating or lying. If this is indeed the case, avoid emotional confrontations.

Fast Facts

About the Number 4

Theme: Form, Work, Order, Practicality, Discipline
Astro Association: Aries
Tarot Association: Emperor

Today’s I Ching Hexagram for November 25th is 10: Treading Carefully

10: Treading Carefully

Hexagram 10

General Meaning: People of ability find their way and make progress even in difficult circumstances. Consider your steps carefully when you are surrounded by changing forces. Weak and strong forces (or people) can co-exist when the weaker element does not impose upon the stronger, when the weaker maintains good humor and avoids taking bold action. When treading among sleeping tigers — or slippery stones — step gingerly and don’t stumble.

In the company of strong, brash people, rushing wildly ahead brings misfortune. Now is not a good time for taking the initiative; rather, try getting by with a little grace and good humor. In the court of a powerful king, the jester often has more power than the prince.

Today’s Runes for November 25th is Eoh

Today’s Runes

Gold Runes are most commonly used for questions about business, career, and property. Eoh refers to the Yew tree. The Yew does not go dormant and therefore represents endurance. Even the wood of the tree is strong, resilient, and pliable – the Yew bends, but does not break. The evergreen nature of the Yew is present even in the rune itself, as it cannot be changed even by reversal. This rune is historically symbolic of death, but, as in the Tarot and as suggested by the nature of the Yew tree itself, death is seen only as a transmutation of something eternal and unchanging – the spirit.

Today’s Tarot Card for November 25th is Strength

Strength

This Tarot Deck: Goddess

General Meaning: What has traditionally been known as the Strength card represents Nature which, however wild in its primal form, is tamed by our subtler, finer (feminine, interior) self. The will and passion of our instinctive nature does not need to be broken, but refined and brought to consciousness — so that all levels of Creation, inner and outer, may come into harmony.

The feminine soul-force contains a persuasive power that can nurture and induce cooperation from others, stilling disruptive energies by harmonizing differences in the spirit of collective good will.

Your Daily Horoscopes for Friday, November 25th

The desire for freedom is palpable today as the Sagittarius Solar Eclipse at 1:09 am EST motivates us to act on our beliefs. This special New Moon elicits quick reactions as it harmonizes with electric Uranus, but our responses may be overstated with a quincunx to opinionated Jupiter. Nevertheless, we’re eager to consider alternative solutions that we might otherwise reject, since we are ready to take a risk to break out of a boring rut.

 

Aries Horoscope
Aries Horoscope (Mar 21 – Apr 19)

You are impatient to begin a new project today, but complications may arise before you even take your first step. Today’s Sagittarius Solar Eclipse in your 9th House of Big Ideas gives you the nod to go ahead, but demands on your time may prohibit you from actually proceeding. Don’t read the signals wrong; a blinking yellow light is very different from a red light. Look in all directions and if it’s safe, keep on going.

Taurus Horoscope
Taurus Horoscope (Apr 20 – May 20)

The philosophical Sagittarius Solar Eclipse encourages you to consider issues that don’t normally concern you. You’re excited about exploring exotic places and investigating new ideas now, and less concerned about being practical. However, you won’t have to travel far away to satisfy these desires. Learning about a different culture or studying a foreign language enables you to journey to amazing places within your mind.

Gemini Horoscope
Gemini Horoscope (May 21 – Jun 20)

Today’s Sagittarius Solar Eclipse falls in your 7th House of Partners, indicating your desire to improve a significant relationship by taking it in a new direction. No one is perfect, yet your current willingness to learn how to become a better version of yourself initiates real personal growth as you delve deeper into your own emotions. Rather than scattering your energy now, concentrate your attention on what matters most.

Cancer Horoscope
Cancer Horoscope (June 21 – Jul 22)

Today’s Sagittarius New Moon Eclipse emphasizes your 6th House of Health, reminding you that your wellness begins with simple lifestyle decisions. You can improve your diet by eliminating things that are not nourishing or just cutting back on unnecessarily rich foods. For now, it is smarter to make a small adjustment that lasts for a long time, rather than shaking up everything for a few days, only to settle back into an old, familiar habit.

Leo Horoscope
Leo Horoscope (Jul 23 – Aug 22)

You can take the edge off your anxiety by engaging in competitive sports, either as a spectator or as a participant. You could even temporarily forget about your worries while you’re totally absorbed in the game of your choice now that today’s Sagittarius Solar Eclipse activates your 5th House of Fun and Games. Although strenuous physical activity will have more immediate positive results, nearly anything that allows you to be spontaneous is healthy.

Virgo Horoscope
Virgo Horoscope (Aug 23 – Sep 22)

The open-minded Sagittarius New Moon Eclipse illuminates your 4th House of Roots today. You may feel a strong yearning to sink into your past and attempt to recover a memory that has particular relevance now. But your thoughts might be so vague that you end up feeling frustrated rather than comforted. Focusing your intentions on the possibilities of the future is ultimately more constructive than nostalgically dreaming about the past.

Libra Horoscope
Libra Horoscope (Sep 23 – Oct 22)

Meandering philosophical conversations with close friends or siblings takes your mind off more serious problems today with an inspiring Sagittarius Solar Eclipse stimulating your 3rd House of Communication. However, these spirited conversations won’t necessarily lead to anything productive. However, verbal banter with a trusted friend can enrich your life now, giving you the impetus to establish goals and try to achieve them. Just remember, you will still have to put in the hard work to reach your destination.

Scorpio Horoscope
Scorpio Horoscope (Oct 23 – Nov 21)

You may question your own abilities as the optimistic Sagittarius Solar Eclipse flip-flops the energy of your 2nd House of Self-Esteem. You might feel overconfident one moment and reach out too far, throwing you off balance. Establishing sensible goals is a healthy strategy to lift your spirits and motivate you to stretch yourself. But it’s smarter to take small successful steps rather than attempting giant ones that invite failure.

Sagittarius Horoscope
Sagittarius Horoscope (Nov 22 – Dec 21)

Today’s New Moon Solar Eclipse in your outgoing sign sets an upbeat tone to the day. You’re enthused about doing something exciting, but it may be easier to conjure up a great idea than to turn it into something tangible today. Fortunately, you should be able to get what you need if you don’t assume that you deserve whatever you want. Practicing humility and exercising self-control can bring your goals within reach.

Capricorn Horoscope
Capricorn Horoscope (Dec 22 – Jan 19)

Although today’s Sagittarius New Moon Eclipse falls in your 12th House of Endings, what happens next is more important than what already occurred. But don’t go rushing blindly into a new project yet; it’s crucial to have a sensible plan first. You don’t have to make life-altering changes; in fact, slowing down your progress gives you time to consider various alternatives before taking your next step.

Aquarius Horoscope
Aquarius Horoscope (Jan 20 – Feb 18)

You’re excited about your plans for the weeks ahead as the highly inspirational Sagittarius Solar Eclipse activates your 11th House of Groups. The idea of having fun with friends and family inspires you to engage in more social activities, but you could become so busy that you end up exhausted by the good times. If you find that you have overcommitted yourself, don’t blame your bad decisions on anyone else. Just cut back on your social schedule before it’s too late.

Pisces Horoscope
Pisces Horoscope (Feb 19 – Mar 20)

You might be unable to let go of your thoughts about getting ahead today, even if you’re distracted by social or family events. The aspiring Sagittarius Solar Eclipse shakes up your 10th House of Career, revealing new ways to get what you want, even if you feel blocked in your professional development. But don’t mistake a new course of action for a shortcut. Even if the future looks bright, it’s still going to require hard work and determination to get there.

Cosmic Calendar for Friday, November 25th

If you feel you made it through the mine field of mental, emotional and physical stress during the last 72-hours with enormous courage and accomplishments, give yourself several rows of psychic gold and silver stars. Believe it or not, the universe is almost depleted of attack weaponry for the time being and leaves you with a lot of free time and space to sort out your next steps on terra firma. The Moon in Sagittarius is definitely courting you by dangling carrots in the form of fun, games, sports and outdoor adventures. Because the New Moon is behind you, there is an urge to push forward across the board despite the fact that Mercury is retrograde. Keep in mind that this doesn’t mean Mercury is bad or negative. It simply means that Mercury is moving in counterpoint to the Sun’s direct motion. As such, Mercury is encouraging you to review what has happened – particularly in your business affairs, travels and correspondence – during the last few months, and come up with fixes, changes and improvements. If there is one last battle ground occurring today, it is likely to happen around the time that Mars parallels Jupiter (8:42PM PST). Both celestial bodies are at 10+ degrees north of the Celestial Equator and this can function like a zodiacal union where your optimistic mind-set (Jupiter) is energized (Mars) to full capacity. On the other hand, if anger and volatility (Mars) are floating around in your neck of the woods, instead of being successful (Jupiter) in your key fields of expertise, you could suffer a breakdown where pride and arrogance (negative side of Mars and Jupiter combined) force you to cry uncle and ask for forgiveness or a helping hand from dear ones.

Weekend Lunar Love Horoscope for Nov. 25th – 27th

Weekend Love: Lunar Love

by Jeff Jawer

Rollercoaster Romance

November 25 – 27

Get ready for a wild weekend that’s filled with adventure and excitement. Plans can change in an instant and emotions may ride a seesaw of attraction and repulsion that makes it hard to know where things stand. The Moon in enthusiastic Sagittarius joins the outgoing Sun very late on Thursday night. This New Moon is also a Solar Eclipse, provoking powerful feelings and sometimes fears of loss or abandonment. But this is no time to sentimentally hold on to old patterns or expectations. The decks are clear so that relationships can be viewed from a fresh perspective. Of course, sunny Sagittarius sometimes raises hopes so high that it’s very hard to live up to them, so avoid making (or believing in) promises that are unlikely to be kept.

Messages are very mixed on Saturday as the love planet Venus enters reliable and committed Capricorn, where well-thought-out plans are essential ingredients to romance. But Venus’ stressful square with unpredictable Uranus produces sudden shifts of mood. Being open to new experiences is a good way to use this experimental energy since traditional activities are likely to seem boring. Be careful; hasty decisions might shake up current partnerships more than you want or encourage leaping into the arms of a new lover too soon.

the daily humorscopes for friday, november 25th

the daily humorscope 

Friday, November 25, 2011

 
Aries (March 21 – April 19)
Go find something flat, and scribble on it. People have been doing that for tens of thousands of years, and it’s mostly been ok.
Taurus (April 20 – May 20)
Good day to skip. In fact, skipping is good exercise, and I’m certain that if you just get a few friends to go along with you, you can start a cultural movement of just as much importance as running and walking. The main problem, of course, is to figure out what sort of “skipping” shoe Nike is going to come out with.
Gemini (May 21 – June 20)
Good day to buy chocolate for someone you love.
Cancer (June 21 – July 22)
You will think of something hysterically funny, but not have anyone to tell it to.
Leo (July 23 – August 22)
Good time to go into business making measuring spoons. Good ones to start with would be a “smidgeon” and a “pinch.”
Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
You’ll become best pals with a large invisible rabbit, today. Well, actually he’s a “puka”, which is a type of Celtic spirit, but he’ll look like a large invisible rabbit.
Libra (September 23 – October 22)
While looking through comparative salary figures, who will discover that the job of “Village Idiot”, in many metropolitan areas, pays better than that of the mayor. Don’t even consider a career change, though — it’s a lot harder that it sounds.
Scorpio (October 23 – November 21)
You will find yourself in a huge handbasket, before the end of the day, and it will be getting much warmer than you like.
Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21)
You will independently re-discover an old Celtic trick, which will help considerably with an upcoming math test. In particular, you’ll find that painting yourself blue may do little for your own mathematical abilities, but it will be a significant distraction for everyone else.
Capricorn (December 22 – January 20)
Excellent time to show the world that plaid and stripes do too mix. (Tip #12 of Arnold Pinknobble’s “How To Get Noticed”.)
Aquarius (January 21 – February 18)
This week, try to live your life based on the ad copy of a men’s cologne. For example: “The mood of the sea, and the spirit of the wind” (Cool Water, by Davidoff) Or perhaps: “Disturb the equilibrium” (Catalyst for Men, by Halston)
Pisces (February 19 – March 20)
It’s time to get a new perspective on your job. Try to think of work as a great big funhouse. Just without the fun.

Happy Friday to you all, dear friends!

Days Of The Week Comments

Couldn’t resist! I should say the above graphic only implies if you are shopping on this “Black” Friday, lmao! I don’t mind crowds but the crowds on this Friday are too much for me. I avoid all major shopping centers like the plague. But to all you hearty-die hard shoppers, good luck and I hope you get what you are shopping for. Now behave yourself and no tug-of-wars for that last fabulous buy!

 

Friday Is Ruled By Venus

 On Friday anything related to love and relationships will have good results when done this day, which is derived from the Goddess Frigg, the Norse patroness of fertility. Other correspondences for Friday are: 

Ruling Planet: Venus 

Rituals: Love, Attraction. 

Element: Water 

Colour: Green 

Number: 7 

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New Moon Report for Nov. 24 – New Moon Solar Eclipse in Sagittarius

New Moon Solar Eclipse in Sagittarius

Thursday, November 24, 10:10 pm PST, Friday, November 25, 1:10 am EST

New Moons are usually characterized by a sense of freshness and initiative, but this one is a solar eclipse that puts a backward spin on the lunation cycle. Even though it’s in forward-thinking Sagittarius, the Moon’s shadow crossing the Sun is a reminder to take a step back and rethink our beliefs and re-examine our ideas about the future. Letting go of outdated expectations and rigid moral judgments is necessary before progress can be made. Inventive Uranus in Aries’ favorable trine to this Sun-Moon conjunction opens channels of innovation, but a tense square from energetic Mars in efficient Virgo demands a high degree of attention to current tasks.

The New Moon in visionary Sagittarius casts eyes toward distant horizons of unexplored possibilities. However, this lunation is a solar eclipse that will punish runaway egos and irresponsible behavior. The success of great journeys is built on carefully planned steps that may seem trivial or tedious at the time, yet can take us as far as our imaginations can go.

Your Cosmic Calendar for Turkey Day

Know where you are going and what you are doing. The cosmos has been super-active during the last 48 hours and this next 24-hour drama is another potential blockbuster. The recent solar entry into Sagittarius and last night’s Mercury reversal are sending out conflicting signals – the solar one suggests moving forward while the mercurial one suggests reviewing and re-evaluating recent experiences. Before tonight’s New Moon (10:11PM PST at 3 degrees of Sagittarius) and Partial Solar Eclipse (10:22PM PST) take place, you need to hang on to this celestial carnival ride as Mercury forms a supportive, 60-degree link to Vesta (5:01AM PST), the Sun makes an off-kilter, 150-degree tie to giant Jupiter (7:44AM PST), Mercury parallels Venus (2:26PM PST), the Moon in Scorpio squares Neptune in Aquarius (3:05PM PST and starting a void lunar cycle lasting until 5:58PM PST when Sagittarius Moon begins), Chiron forms a subtle and yet still important, 30-degree tie to Uranus (4:00PM PST), and Venus makes a supportive, 60-degree connection to Neptune (5:53PM PST). Wow! That’s quite a ride and if it weren’t for the Sun-Jupiter 150-degree encounter, much of this day might be filled with numerous treasures. However, when the two largest celestial bodies are out of joint, it demands a lot of energy to stay on track with your primary needs, tasks, and plans. This day is also strange because the so-called dark-of-the-moon vibes are at white-hot intensity until the New Moon and Partial Solar Eclipse happen. And therefore most of this day falls into a category where you need to finish as many old projects as you can on a high note, and leave bold, new undertakings for after the Partial Solar Eclipse happens (10:22PM PST). Even then, you need to be careful about what enterprises you want to launch since Mercury has just begun its three-week reversal. Get set for more cosmic shenanigans tomorrow.

the daily humorscopes for thursday, november 24

the daily humorscope

 

Thursday, November 24, 2011

 
 
Aries (March 21 – April 19)
Today you will lose your marbles. Fortunately, someone will find them and return them to you.
Taurus (April 20 – May 20)
Nobody knows the trouble you’ve seen. Let’s just hope you can somehow keep it that way!
Gemini (May 21 – June 20)
You will find that it is true – everything is better with the addition of either chocolate or garlic (but not both). Well, except for running shoes, that is.
Cancer (June 21 – July 22)
Would you just Stop? Nobody else feels the need to dance around like that…
Leo (July 23 – August 22)
While attending a sance “just for fun”, you will be possessed by the spirit of Rasputin. Surprisingly, it will be a good career move.
Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
You will discover the secret to becoming a great artist! You can stick anything you want on the wall, the trick is to make people think deep thought went into it. For example, spray-paint a bathroom plunger gold, and stick little angel wings on it. Call it “Life In The Details”.
Libra (September 23 – October 22)
Today you will be struck by the notion that “Life is like one of those little cars that the Shriners get to drive”. You have a mind of great depth and profundity.
Scorpio (October 23 – November 21)
Despite your best efforts, you will be unable to get your book published. But all you really need to do is change the title! “A Comparative Study of Invertibrate Parasites” is not likely to be published. But “A Bucket Full Of Leeches”? Now that’s another story.
Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21)
Try being entirely honest for a week. That’s a fine way to develop a clear conscience. Personally, I prefer my method, though — a poor memory.
Capricorn (December 22 – January 20)
Excellent time to hum popular songs, just slightly off key. If you do that long enough, the people around you will change in appearance. You’ll be able to see the veins in their neck, for one thing.
Aquarius (January 21 – February 18)
Soon you will gain experience with the miracle of birth. It will be somehow associated with the miracle of elevators, and probably also to the miracle of screaming.
Pisces (February 19 – March 20)
Relationships are a lot like tables. One leg is love, one is trust, one is shared pleasures, and one is shared dreams. Lasting relationships need all four legs for balance, to hold up the burden of your troubles. In your case, though, you’ll never get rid of that irritating wobble.

T’was the night of Thanksgiving


Thanksgiving Comments & Graphics

T’was the night of Thanksgiving,
But I just couldn’t sleep.
I tried counting backwards,
I tried counting sheep.
The leftovers beckoned,
The dark meat and white.
But I fought the temptation,
With all of my might.
Tossing and turning,
with anticipation.
The thought of a snack
became infatuation.
So I raced to the kitchen,
Flung open the door,
And gazed at the fridge,
Full of goodies galore.
I gobbled up turkey,
And buttered potatoes,
Pickles and carrots,
Beans and tomatoes.
I felt myself swelling,
So plump and so round.
‘til all of a sudden,
I rose off the ground.
I crashed through the ceiling,
Floating into the sky,
With a mouthful of pudding,
And a handful of pie.
But I managed to yell
As I soared past the trees
Happy eating to all,
Pass the cranberries, please!!
May your stuffing be tasty
May your turkey be plump.
May your potatoes and gravy
Have nary a lump.
May your yams be delicious,
May your pies take the prize
And May your Thanksgiving dinner
Stay off of your thighs!
by Lauren

Thanksgiving Day Poems

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Happy Thanksgiving dear friends!

Thanksgiving Comments & Graphics

I wish each and everyone of you a very Happy & Blessed Thanksgiving! May you spend it with your loved ones whether they be family or friends. Let us not forget what today is all about, whether we are Pagan or Not! It doesn’t hurt Pagans, Wiccans, Witches and the like to stop and take time to be thankful. I know I very seldom get sentimental and most of all I don’t like to reveal to others that I do have a soft side. I guess I always like to seem in control of my emotions but there are even times when seasoned old witches let their emotions out. Ooops! I am not that old just emotional. It started this morning in the kitchen, with my wildcat Razzy. She put her paws up on my calf and I leaned down to rub her. I started talking to her telling her, she didn’t know how much she had to be thankful for this year. Then it hit me, I am the thankful one. I am so thankful that the Goddess brought her and her family to me. I am so grateful that I saved her and she will have a good home the rest of her life. I will love her and cherish her each year. I am also thankful for my older wildcat, Stinker, my little Pomeranian princess Kiki. Then I stopped to think about my family. I am so thankful for my two wonderful, beautiful and healthy children. I am thankful that my son has two healthy and beautiful daughters. I am thankful for my daughter and that the Goddess finally found a man to put up with her. I have a lot to be thankful for. 

I have to stop and think back though. At one time, I loved another man besides my husband. My husband and I were separated and I had known this man for years. He asked me out and we started seeing each other. We started making plans for the future. He loved my two children and my son he was crazy about. He had made plans to take him hunting and fishing and do all the things his father never had time to do with him. We had talked about moving into together. How life would be. But for some strange twist of fate my husband came by to visit the kids one evening. That evening, my husband took me out to the patio and we sit and talked. We talked about how things weren’t really that bad between us. I should let you know at this time why we were separated, I had caught him having an affair on me. Why? I didn’t know I had always tried to be the perfect wife, mother, housekeeper, witch, heck I was even PTA President! I guess I got caught up in being too perfect. He had fallen for a woman totally my opposite. He came to the house one day to drop the kids off some money and he had told me, “I had better sit down.” I couldn’t imagine what it was but he told me I was right and he was living with another woman. He wanted to tell me before I found out about her from someone else. Everything I had thought was true, I cried and cried. I thought my world had ended. I got up and slapped the holy shit out of him and told him to get out of the house. That is when I fell right straight into the arms of this other man. I guess he was my crutch. He loved me and I knew it. The first night, we went out. He took me to his parents’ house and then to his grandmother’s house. All of them told me, that they were glad to finally meet me. They had heard so much about me. But back to the night my husband came over and fate took such a straight twist. We got to laughing and crying together. We had a deep love and I couldn’t deny that. I went back to my comfort zone. I took my husband back. My husband came right out and told me that he didn’t know how to tell the other woman he was coming back home. He said he had left her crying in a motel room. And that if there was anyway possible that he was going to try to work things out with me. He said he had to go back and tell her and get his stuff. He even asked me if I wanted to go. I told him that probably wouldn’t be a good idea. I didn’t talk to the man I was seeing for two or three days because hubby was back home. The man knew where I was working and what time I came in each day. So he decided he would surprise me one day and stop by with his new motorcycle for me and him to go for a ride. I didn’t know he was there I had taken a couple of days off and hubby and I stopped in for a minute to see how things where going. On the stool, waiting for me, was the other man. I could see the look in his eyes when we walked in. He got up and left. He tore out on the motorcycle so quick, my hubby asked me what his problem was. I said I didn’t know. Part of me was crushed when he left on that motorcycle. But I knew where I belonged with my family. The next night the other man was killed in a motorcycle wreck. He was at a bar drinking, left the bar doing about 100 mph and hit a parked van head on. When I found out what happened I nearly died myself. I can say I was starting to fall in love with him or perhaps it was just neediless. But I had never had to do anything more difficult in my life than grieve in silence. Everytime I was alone I would break down and cry. I still cry to this day about it. For the longest time, I blamed myself for his death. I had friends tell me, that I had to stop doing that. But I believe with the help of the Goddess, I know that didn’t actually cause his death and I shouldn’t blame myself anymore. I didn’t make him pick up those drinks. I am sure like I, he was feeling heart-broken. But he didn’t need to get drunk, there were other ways of coping. I found them and he should have too. I miss him and if I had known that was what he was going to do, I would have found a way to stop. Where is this all going?  He showed me a part of life that I only thought I wanted. My path wasn’t meant to be with him. He showed me how to love deeper, appreciate every moment we have in this life because the next might be our last. I have alot to be thankful for just by knowing this man. 

So this Thanksgiving when I look back on the years, I have a lot to be thankful for. My family, my friends, people who I have lost over the years. Some I wish who could be alive now and see me and her grandchildren. But I know that those who have gone on are with the Goddess waiting. I am thankful for the Goddess and all the good things in life she has given me. I am thankful for all the readers of this blog. I am thankful for the friends I have made through it.

All in all, I believe this is going to be the best Thanksgiving for me. I realize what I have and what I have lost, I realize I will never take a moment of life for granted and I will live each moment to the fullest. I am thankful for the life the Goddess has given me and the Path that She has shown me. 

Remember the Goddess in your Thanksgiving this year! Remember my family and I, as I will be thinking about each and everyone of you this year! 

Happy and Blessed Thanksgiving to each and everyone of you,
Love, 

Lady Abyss

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Top 5 Thanksgiving Treats for Pets

Top 5 Thanksgiving Treats for Pets

  • posted by Samantha, selected from Animal Planet

By Joy H. Montgomery, Animal Planet

As you gather around the table this Thanksgiving and give thanks for good food, good friends and even your cranky family members, don’t forget the furry or feathery member of the family — your pet. Of course, a pet doesn’t need a toast in its honor to feel appreciated, but a special treat would probably elicit an extra lick or cuddle from your best four-legged friend. Just remember that the holidays aren’t an excuse to break from tradition and serve your pet chocolate or other foods that might upset its sensitive stomach. However, there are some terrific Thanksgiving treats that are perfectly pet-safe and guaranteed to make your critter feel extra-thankful for such a thoughtful pet parent. Here are just five.

 

5. Fruits and Veggies

Not all pets can eat meat, including most pocket pets like gerbils, hamsters, rats and birds. Many people love these small pets, but often overlook them when it comes to holiday treats. Pocket pets can have small treats occasionally, but according to the educational staff at Drs. Foster and Smith, they tend to like treats better than real food, so it’s best to dish them out sparingly. In general, raw vegetables like carrots and broccoli are OK to give a small rodent, so when you’re preparing your Thanksgiving meal, save a few pieces for your pet. Pet birds also love fresh veggies and fruits, including cooked sweet potatoes and cranberries, which are both common staples on many Thanksgiving tables. Cooked vegetables like pumpkins, sweet potatoes, carrots, green beans, and peas are terrific options for cats and dogs, too.

 

4. Bones and Chews

It might be tempting to toss a turkey bone your dog’s way during the holiday, but according to L.A. Animal Services, turkey bones can easily break, and the sharp splinters could cause damage to your dog’s intestines. If your pooch goes nuts for bones, look for store-bought bones or chews in special Thanksgiving flavors that will be a real treat without the risk. Pet trend expert Janet McCulley recommends turkey-flavored bones, or even organic dog chews made out of sweet potatoes or apples. Make no bones about it, you will be thankful your canine has a yummy Thanksgiving treat without the threat of a visit to the emergency animal hospital

 

3.Turkey Treats

If you like a traditional feast with a big turkey as the main dish, your pet is in luck. There are quite a few ways you can prepare some of your leftover turkey that will be paw-licking good. Be sure to remove any skin and bones and don’t serve your pet any turkey that’s been sitting out longer than two hours to avoid risk of salmonella poisoning. Skinless, boneless turkey is a great treat for most cats and dogs. Cut up a few pieces and add it to your dog’s regular food to give it its own Thanksgiving meal. For cats, try pureeing turkey with sweet potatoes or pumpkin and adding it to their regular food or letting them lick it straight from the spoon. And if you’ve ever wondered what to do with turkey giblets, try boiling them up for a yummy pet treat.

 

2.Biscuits and Other Treats

If you aren’t up for making your own treats or don’t have any leftovers, you can find a large variety of treats available at pet superstores or even your local market that will leave your pet feeling gracious. McCulley says ingredients like pomegranate, acai berry and quinoa, which have been fads in people food for the past few years, are now crossing over into pet treats. Look for items that are made with human-grade ingredients to ensure your furry friend is getting the very best. Many organic treats are made with natural ingredients such as pumpkin, sweet potato, and apple with ginger or cinnamon for a fun Thanksgiving twist.

 

1. Toys

If your pet is on a restricted diet or doesn’t usually handle new food well, pick out a toy that your animal will go gaga for. Consider a squeaky toy shaped like a turkey bone or a carrot. Some retailers carry “pampered pet” lines, in which you’ll find toys shaped like wine bottles or sushi (if turkey and all the fixings isn’t your thing). McCulley recommends interactive toys that dispense treats as a great way to keep your pet occupied while you’re entertaining human guests. By the time your furry friend has gotten all of the kibble out of the toy, you’ll be cleaning off the table and ready to spend the afternoon curled up in a turkey-induced coma with your pet.

Food to Avoid

  • Chocolate
  • Garlic
  • Onions
  • Raisins
  • Sage
  • Turkey skin and bones

Some one-on-one time like this is probably the best treat of all for your pet, but any of these five ideas can also help make sure your pet is a grateful gobbler this Thanksgiving.

Healthy Recipes for Your Thanksgiving Leftovers

Healthy Recipes for Your Thanksgiving Leftovers

  • posted by Brandi, selected from Diets in Review

The day after Thanksgiving, aka Black Friday, is practically a food holiday too considering refrigerators across the country are still bursting with leftover stuffing, mashed potatoes and plenty of turkey. If you’re trying to lose weight or maintain your size this holiday season, indulging in seconds and thirds of your favorite holiday dishes can really derail your efforts. As if one 3,000-calorie Thanksgiving meal wasn’t enough!

We don’t want that food to go to waste any more than you do, so here are some ideas to break up the monotony of that roasted turkey without turning a one-day calorie fest into a weekend smorgasbord.

Turkey Quesadillas: Typically we think of quesadillas being filled with cheese, which equates to fat and calories. Try putting a healthy spin on quesadillas and top them with fresh salsa, which has practically no calories.

Hot Turkey Club Sandwich: After an indulgent dinner like Thanksgiving, keeping your diet simple the next day is the easiest way to stay on track. Prepare a simple club sandwich by layering roasted turkey, tomato, spinach leaves or romaine lettuce, and a smear of guacamole or avocados (instead of mayo) on two slices of whole grain bread.

Turkey Waldorf Salad: Instead of a rich, turkey salad laden with mayonnaise and calories, opt for a lighter version of Waldorf salad. Add leftover apples, raisins, and walnuts for a satisfying crunch.

Turkey Apple Pita: Instead of grazing aimlessly during your Black Friday lunch, add roasted turkey to a whole wheat pita topped with apple slices and your favorite vegetables for a little savory and sweet flavor.

Red Beans and Rice: Let simmer all day and then serve a piping hot bowl of this New Orleans favorite while you watch football. Add any leftover roasted turkey for a leaner addition than the traditional andouille sausage.

Of course, turkey isn’t the only thing left in the fridge. Here are a few other ideas for cleaning out without pigging out.

  • Cranberries. Add a tablespoon of fresh cranberry salad to a plain, honey, or vanilla-flavored Greek yogurt for a sweet way to start your morning. If you have leftover pumpkin pie filling you can do the same with it.
  • Stuffing. Put leftover stuffing inside acorn squash or bell peppers and bake for a simple and healthy dinner.
  • Vegetables. Any leftover green beans, carrots, celery, onions, or other vegetables should be saved while you’re preparing the meal. Toss it all in a stock pot, cover with water, season with salt and pepper, and let simmer on low for several hours. Then strain the liquid off and you’ve got a homemade vegetarian broth.
  • Potatoes. Use any remaining roasted red or sweet potatoes to make a delicious side with an omelet. Heat a skillet, mist with cooking spray, and cook until warm and slightly browned.