Tag: Emotion

Daily Horoscopes for Friday, February 8th

Our words seem intense today, yet we may actually be a bit detached from our emotions. It’s easy to get all worked up and say things that provoke petty conflicts. Thankfully, the Moon’s shift into logical Aquarius at 2:16 pm EST helps us maintain a healthy perspective on our current circumstances. A cool, analytical approach tempers the combative conjunction between messenger Mercury and aggressive Mars, which can heat up our interactions.

Aries Horoscope

(Mar 21 – Apr 19)

It’s difficult to sit quietly in the back of the room because irrepressible Mars, your key planet, aligns with Mercury the Communicator. You know what you want to say and you think you can inspire others into action. Unfortunately, your message might be confusing unless you have all your facts in order. Avoid overreacting by counting to five before opening your mouth. But don’t worry; you will get the chance to share what’s needed when the time is right.

Taurus Horoscope

(Apr 20 – May 20)

You might be the one in the group who stands up and speaks your mind today. Fortunately, you’re able to draw on poetic images and creative visions that are normally beyond your reach. However, you may not feel comfortable with your forceful words, for they can offend your delicate sensibilities even as you say them. Nevertheless, don’t talk yourself out of sharing what’s on your mind. Your friends and associates will appreciate your honesty and your attempts to think outside of the box.

Gemini Horoscope

(May 21 – Jun 20)

You may be feeling upset at the way things have gone down at work, but there isn’t much you can do about it today, except talk about it. Expressing your concern with compassion wins you the support you seek as your key planet Mercury joins energetic Mars in your 10th House of Status. Use any means necessary to get your message out there, even if it means shouting it from the rooftop. You could be surprised with the positive response you receive if you are clear and direct in your delivery.

Cancer Horoscope

(Jun 21 – Jul 22)

You are inspired to fight for what you want today, and chances are that you may actually get it. If you ever considered writing a letter about a familiar gripe or going to your boss about a lingering issue, this is the day you’ve been waiting for. However, you could inadvertently offend someone with your uncharacteristically forceful approach. It’s easier to restrain your anger by softening your words than it is to deal with the mess you can make by being carried away with your emotions.

Leo Horoscope

(Jul 23 – Aug 22)

You may feel lighter on your feet today because there’s less responsibility weighing on your shoulders. Nevertheless, you’re not in the mood to play games, and someone who gets in your way might be surprised with the speed and fury of your response. However, defending yourself by going on the offense isn’t as effective now as revealing your true feelings. This time words speak louder than actions.

Virgo Horoscope

(Aug 23 – Sep 22)

Sparks may fly if someone oversteps your boundaries today. It really doesn’t matter who you are with now; you might feel as if others are trying to get your goat. You can respond to these situations with a display of anger if you feel the need to protect yourself against the apparent attack. However, the best strategy is to chill out and not take yourself so seriously. Allow a day or two for your perspective to evolve and then readdress the issue.

Libra Horoscope

(Sep 23 – Oct 22)

Although it’s always a good idea to stick with the facts, how you deliver the message is just as important today as what you say. When you put the data you’ve been working on into the report or email, make certain you don’t overstate your position. Even if you are giving a verbal presentation, you can get hotter and more fired up than intended. Naturally, you’re not looking to make any enemies, so keep reminding yourself to tone down your emotions. A subtle touch accomplishes more than a heavy hand.

Scorpio Horoscope

(Oct 23 – Nov 21)

You have the sweet power of persuasion at the tip of your tongue now. Messenger Mercury aligns with your key planet Mars, adding the strength of conviction to your words. Just don’t come on too strong or you could defeat your own purpose before you even have a chance. However, acknowledging your emotional intensity enables you to communicate your vision in a gentler and more compassionate manner.

Sagittarius Horoscope

(Nov 22 – Dec 21)

It may feel as if something isn’t quite right, but you can’t put your finger on the source of the problem. You might be afraid that you won’t get your needs met, even if satisfaction is within reach. Some event in the past comes back to haunt you today and you could become discouraged before you even ask for what you want. Remember that this is not history repeating itself. Push through your fears by staying in the here and now.

Capricorn Horoscope

(Dec 22 – Jan 19)

Quicksilver Mercury catches up with warrior Mars in your 3rd House of Communication today, making it difficult for you to hold your punches. If you have experienced an injustice or are angry with someone, you might be more aggressive than you intend. Pay attention to the tone of your words now because you will be more persuasive with a firm but gentle approach to drive home your point.

Aquarius Horoscope

(Jan 20 – Feb 18)

You may be more emotional than you prefer when the evocative Moon enters your sign today. Even if you try to avoid complicated feelings, you might be overwhelmed by your reactions now. Don’t resist your changing moods just because they make you uncomfortable; relax and take a ride on the water-slide of life. Things will lighten up after this weekend’s New Moon, enabling you to regain the clarity that comes from an objective perspective.

Pisces Horoscope

(Feb 19 – Mar 20)

You aren’t often this pushy, but you are ready to say what needs to be said now as chatty Mercury lines up with feisty Mars in your sign. However, you may not clearly know what you want to communicate because your thoughts are muddled by secret desires. Tone down your rhetoric until you decide your next move. In the meantime, do what you can to untangle your wild imagination from your rational intellect.

Your Daily Horoscopes for Saturday, February 2nd

Our intense emotions rise and fall with the tides today, making it tricky to manage our feelings. We can feel the shift into the indefinite watery realms as the Moon enters passionate Scorpio at 7:01 am EST. Additionally, today is the first full day of Mars’ six-week visit to imaginative Pisces. Magic is afoot as the oceanic waters of Pisces are heated by Mars. We each have the choice to transform our negativity and become a spiritual warrior.

Aries Horoscope

(Mar 21 – Apr 19)

You’re better off keeping your most intense feelings to yourself now that your key planet Mars is traveling through your 12th House of Secrets. Instead of creating a lot of fanfare about a new project or interest, quietly finish up old business because it may take longer than you expect. But don’t be hard on yourself if your progress is slower than you wish. Setting a steady pace and sticking to it is more important than reaching your goal today.

Taurus Horoscope

(Apr 20 – May 20)

Success seems within your reach now that enriching Venus is visiting your 10th House of Public Life. Exciting opportunities encourage you to believe that fame and fortune are just around the next corner. But be careful if your current life circumstances are not aligned with your goals. Complications make you nervous, tempting you to take a risk to place yourself back on a path that leads toward your desired destination. Don’t push too hard for change; let things unfold organically to incur the least amount of stress.

Gemini Horoscope

(May 21 – Jun 20)

You may feel as if you need to re-evaluate your career objectives and readjust your priorities. The current transit of energetic Mars traveling through your 10th House of Profession motivates you to stretch beyond your comfort zone to make something positive happen at work. If you let this chance slip by without trying to better your position in the world, you could regret it. On the other hand, you might see encouraging results very soon if you get started right away.

Cancer Horoscope

(Jun 21 – Jul 22)

The next few weeks can give you the emotional boost you need. It’s not that you are overflowing with energy; the effects of assertive Mars in your 9th House of Big Ideas are more subtle than that. You’re comfortable enough with yourself now to hold on to any position that demonstrates your integrity. Don’t let anyone sidetrack you while you’re following your heart.

Leo Horoscope

(Jul 23 – Aug 22)

Although you may not be in denial, a situation close to home could seem better than it actually is today. You might want to gloss over criticism that you receive from a good friend or family member. But don’t be cavalier; you cannot afford to screw this up. Listen carefully and take any feedback now as constructive guidance rather than as a sign of defeat. A simple change in attitude can be enough to turn things around.

Virgo Horoscope

(Aug 23 – Sep 22)

Concentrate on a project today that you recently let slip through the cracks. Remind yourself of your achievements as you re-establish new goals. But instead of trying to make big changes on your own, involve others in your process. There is not a moment to waste; it’s time to get in gear with or without the support of your friends. The good news is that you can accomplish nearly anything now if only you put your mind to it.

Libra Horoscope

(Sep 23 – Oct 22)

Your creative phase continues for a few more weeks, even if the energy is already beginning to shift. You may feel pressure to make money from your artistic pursuits, but you’re not quite ready to cash in your chips yet. In the meantime, explore ways to take what you already started and make it last longer. Establishing new routines in your daily life can help, but avoid the dullest ones that take the joy out of life.

Scorpio Horoscope

(Oct 23 – Nov 21)

You are brimming over with energy now that your planetary ruler Mars is marching through your 5th House of Self-Expression. You are highly creative in your thinking, though this isn’t necessarily apparent to anyone else today. Concentrate on your internal world rather than external circumstances. Inspiration is returning to your imagination and you could begin to feel more emotionally in touch with your dreams. Make time to play; relaxing a bit may be the catalyst you need to feel even more revitalized.

Sagittarius Horoscope

(Nov 22 – Dec 21)

Stress arises today from the judgments that others may make about your commitment to caring for those you love. Even if you act responsibly, your efforts might not be enough to satisfy everyone. Thankfully, somehow you can keep up with your busier-than-normal schedule and still have personal time for yourself. It’s just that you have some deep thinking to do that makes you want to escape. Before you sneak off on a one-way, late-night flight to the tropics, deal with the source of your discomfort first.

Capricorn Horoscope

(Dec 22 – Jan 19)

Spending extra time to fully prepare for the upcoming changes in your social life is a wise move now. Remember, no matter how ready you are, there still will be surprising obstacles to overcome. Unexpected twists and turns could surface in the coming weeks — as if reality is teaching you how to handle curve balls being thrown your way. Others will appreciate your efforts if you simply do the best you can at hitting it out of the park.

Aquarius Horoscope

(Jan 20 – Feb 18)

You’re relieved with the recent cosmic changing of the guard; pushy Mars has left your sign and is now heading for the open seas of softhearted Pisces. Meanwhile, friendly Venus is visiting social Aquarius for a three-week visit that brings a smile to your heart. Your problems won’t be solved overnight, but they may be much easier to handle now if you take a lighthearted approach. Open your heart to the love that is all around you.

Pisces Horoscope

(Feb 19 – Mar 20)

Your imagination is buzzing today, but you’re not content to just lose yourself in fantasies; you want to seize the day now that impulsive Mars is visiting your sign. Spend time exploring ways to turn your dreams into actions or you might end up feeling frustrated with your inability to communicate your amazing visions to others. Remember, developing your ideas is just the first step; you must execute your plan in order to be successful.

Your Daily Horoscopes for Thursday, January 31st

We want everyone to get along now because our attraction to peace and harmony is strong when the Moon visits diplomatic Libra. The Libra Moon also awakens our desire for beauty, prompting us to think about aesthetic perfection as an idea, rather than experiencing it directly. This sense of detachment is amplified by the conceptual Aquarius Sun. Meanwhile, the erratic brilliance of a Mercury-Uranus alignment zaps our minds with radical new ideas.

Aries Horoscope

(Mar 21 – Apr 19)

You are drawn into stressful relationship dynamics, both at home and at work, as the Moon visits your 7th House of Companions. However, your emotions may not be on the same page as those of your partner or coworker. Unfortunately, you might place roadblocks between yourself and intimacy because you’re afraid of losing your independence. Instead of resisting your fears, get them out into the open where their power dissipates once and for all.

Taurus Horoscope

(Apr 20 – May 20)

The Moon’s presence in your 6th House of Work reflects your need to know you are doing a valuable service. Nevertheless, there is a part of you that would prefer to skip out on your responsibilities and indulge in pleasurable activities instead. However, as a stubborn Bull, it takes a lot to pull you off course; even if you want to relax, your unwavering determination can help keep you on track to reach your destination on time.

Gemini Horoscope

(May 21 – Jun 20)

You may be motivated to express your creativity in original ways today, but it’s still hard to set practicality aside in the name of spontaneity. Nevertheless, your sense of responsibility won’t likely be strong enough to shut down your free-spirited behavior. It might be helpful to eliminate extraneous noise by minimizing your time online and postponing unnecessary meetings. You have a better chance of accomplishing your goals if you can hear yourself think.

Cancer Horoscope

(Jun 21 – Jul 22)

You might not feel very adventurous today as the Moon moves through your 4th House of Home and Family. But seclusion can be problematic, especially if you need to play a leadership role at work or in the community. Don’t waste time dreaming about your escape because you probably won’t go through with it, anyhow. Instead, demonstrate your maturity by doing the right thing now and fulfilling your obligations.

Leo Horoscope

(Jul 23 – Aug 22)

It’s all about diplomatic communication today as five planets move through relationship-oriented Air signs, making what you say less important than how you say it. However, you have the capability to turn your dreams into reality now, so you must be careful when sharing your fantasies with anyone else. Take time to consider your audience and fine tune your delivery; concentrate on your goal and stay true to your heart.

Virgo Horoscope

(Aug 23 – Sep 22)

You may seem very determined to get whatever you want today, but you must first overcome your timidity and ask properly. The emotional Moon in your 2nd House of Self-Worth can give you a sense of firm resolve, but your actions might not back up your intentions. If you find your mind wandering throughout the day, just gently bring your focus back on point and try again.

Libra Horoscope

(Sep 23 – Oct 22)

Tender feelings rise up to the surface as the gracious Libra Moon travels through your 1st House of Personality today. You are highly sensitized to the subtle emotional energy spreading through your environment, and you’re aware of the impact that your reactions have on others. As helpful as you are, don’t forget to take care of yourself, too. You won’t be any good to anyone if you don’t pay attention to your needs first.

Scorpio Horoscope

(Oct 23 – Nov 21)

You might feel somewhat discouraged today as the Moon visits your 12th House of Escapism. It’s hard to get much done if you’re not motivated to interact with anyone else. You don’t want to be fully involved with the outer world and are tempted to withdraw into the hidden recesses of your imagination. Do what you must to get by, but don’t shut off your dreams now just because they don’t easily fit into reality. Remember, indulging your fantasies is a wonderful way to explore all the possibilities ahead.

Sagittarius Horoscope

(Nov 22 – Dec 21)

Everything seems to run smoothly today, helping to soothe any lingering tensions. Don’t worry about trying to resolve all the differences of opinion; just remember that being kind and considerate relieves the building pressure. Your current strength is reinforced by the fair-minded way in which you deal with others, even when you don’t agree with them. It’s more important to be a part of the community now than being on the winning side.

Capricorn Horoscope

(Dec 22 – Jan 19)

It’s challenging to shake off the stress these days, especially if someone is pushing your emotional buttons. Still, you appear to continue acting gracefully even in a difficult situation. Thankfully, you’re able to hide your tension for a while longer, enabling others to feel more at ease. Fortunately, your own anxiety is ameliorated when everyone else finally settles down.

Aquarius Horoscope

(Jan 20 – Feb 18)

Even if serious responsibilities continue to multiply, today’s peaceful Libra Moon lightens things up. Although the source of your concerns won’t likely disappear, taking a more spiritual approach to very real problems certainly helps. There’s no reason to upset the applecart; for now, just try to go with the flow. Be smart and save your energy for when you really need to take a stand.

Pisces Horoscope

(Feb 19 – Mar 20)

There are complex emotional waves washing through your mind now, challenging you to balance them with more practical issues. Unfortunately, it’s difficult to find your rhythm and maintain the pace long enough to accomplish your goals. Listen to your inner voices as you carry on with your normal routine. The discomfort will settle soon, leaving you enriched by the experience.

Your What Was Suppose To Happen Horoscopes for January 29th

We may feel overloaded with facts today as we sift through the incoming data. The intellectually discriminating Virgo Moon raises the bar of acceptability now as we dismiss information that doesn’t stand up to our highest standards. However, concentration is challenged this morning as the emotional Moon squares boundless Jupiter in scattered Gemini. Thankfully, it’s easier to focus when the Moon harmonizes with perceptive Pluto later in the day.

Aries Horoscope

(Mar 21 – Apr 19)

Even the unimportant things can be annoying today, especially if they are the result of careless thinking. Unfortunately, you may be in a hurry and judge others harshly if they can’t keep up with your pace. However, practicing patience helps your day flow smoothly and makes everything run more efficiently in the long run. Remember, not everyone is as fast as you.

Taurus Horoscope

(Apr 20 – May 20)

There isn’t a lot of room for frivolous activities today; however, a bit of fun isn’t out of the question. You are eager to temporarily set aside your responsibilities, especially if you believe that you can learn something from an extracurricular experience. Find out in advance how much time you need to allow for play so you can finish up your chores later. It will be easier to escape for a while if you already know that you have your bases covered.

Gemini Horoscope

(May 21 – Jun 20)

You might not be the most meticulous worker in the world, yet you can move very quickly once you start a job. However, you may put extra attention toward the details today if you are trying to impress someone, especially your boss. But your work could still fall short of other people’s expectations, even if your intentions are honorable. Nevertheless, don’t be too self-critical; just do the best you can and move on to what’s next.

Cancer Horoscope

(Jun 21 – Jul 22)

You may do better today if you schedule your activities in advance, rather than flying by the seat of your pants. Attend to your commitments early on so you can also make time to get in touch with your inner self through prayer, meditation, or meaningful conversations with friends. Meeting your obligations is important, but don’t be so focused on the clock that you miss a truly wonderful opportunity to connect with your heart.

Leo Horoscope

(Jul 23 – Aug 22)

Make time to catch up on financial matters today since your mental acuity is even sharper than usual. However, the best application of your skills isn’t just to pay bills or balance your accounts. The issues are currently bigger, so sit back and reassess what’s of most value to you. If you must make a choice about allocating funds now, use your resources in the most practical way possible.

Virgo Horoscope

(Aug 23 – Sep 22)

You might feel somewhat uncomfortable with your irrational mood swings today as the emotional Moon visits your analytical sign. Avoid any tasks that require high levels of concentration, for you may not be able to prevent your mind from wandering now. Even if you want to take the day off, you’re unwilling to disappoint those who depend on you. However, scheduling short breaks throughout the day improves your ability to focus on the work at hand.

Libra Horoscope

(Sep 23 – Oct 22)

It’s becoming harder every day to contain yourself, but you’re probably not quite ready to let others know your feelings yet. Ironically, keeping your emotions to yourself now can heighten your spiritual awareness — as long as you don’t slip into denial about what’s occurring. Try not to succumb to external pressures; you’ll know exactly when to act if you trust your own intuition more than anyone else’s advice.

Scorpio Horoscope

(Oct 23 – Nov 21)

Spending time with your friends and associates today offers the change of pace you seek, but don’t try to micromanage your social activities. Instead of wasting time by attempting to create a memorable event, stay flexible without assuming control of the situation. Ultimately, you have more fun and are more effective today when you are acting spontaneously, instead of working from a script.

Sagittarius Horoscope

(Nov 22 – Dec 21)

Attempts to accomplish too many things all at once today could lead to doing a poor job at all of them. Tread lightly in all of your interactions because understating your responses is the most efficient use of your energy now. Just take care of each problem as it pops up in a calm and collected manner. Your enthusiasm suddenly returns when others recognize how well you are handling a complicated situation.

Capricorn Horoscope

(Dec 22 – Jan 19)

There are powerful forces at work today, yet they may be hiding behind the scenes so you can’t see them directly. Your personal proverb du jour might be “out of sight, out of mind,” but, ultimately, this isn’t the smartest strategy. Your tendency is to overlook minor details now, but a small thing could be the catalyst that turns your day around. Instead of jumping from one task to another, stick with each one until you are sure that the energy has run its course.

Aquarius Horoscope

(Jan 20 – Feb 18)

Consider the potential benefits of working in close collaboration with a partner now, whether you’re starting a new endeavor or simply doing a project around the house. Another person can bring important information or an interesting perspective to your work. However, you may be so quick to criticize the contributions of others today that you shut them up before you hear what they have to say. Don’t be judgmental or you might miss out on a really great idea.

Pisces Horoscope

(Feb 19 – Mar 20)

You may feel as if everything you do today falls short of other people’s expectations. But if someone is highly critical of your actions, he or she might not understand you or your behavior. Rather than responding as an unappreciated victim, take time to carefully explain your intentions. Even if you’re going over familiar territory, it’s healthier to share your hurt feelings instead of hiding them. Starting an honest dialogue provides an opportunity to clear the air once and for all.

The Daily Horoscopes for Tuesday, January 15th

The truth is difficult to discern today because our fantasies are encouraged now that the diffusive Pisces Moon dissolves the hard edges between fact and fiction. Reality is altered by our imagination, prompting us to see what we believe. Even if we have regular work scheduled, this is also a fantastic time for artistic, poetic and musical creations. Nevertheless, it’s lovely to dream as long as we don’t totally forget about our responsibilities.

 

Aries Horoscope

(Mar 21 – Apr 19)

A stroke of genius is right up your alley today and you love it when you’re able to figure out totally new solutions to problems that have you and your associates stuck. But just because you suddenly see the light, don’t assume you can make everyone else see things from your point of view. Patience is not your strongest suit, but it’s still a sensible practice for now.

 

Taurus Horoscope

(Apr 20 – May 20)

You may get so lost in your own dreams today that you can’t find your way around in the real world. Nevertheless, you have very important tasks to complete and if you don’t meet these obligations now, life will quickly grow more complicated. Get your chores out of the way as fast as possible, and don’t forget to let others know that you need some time alone. After you are accountable for your actions, you can return to exploring your wild imagination with guilt-free abandon.

 

Gemini Horoscope

(May 21 – Jun 20)

You’re not nearly as scattered as others think because you have a plan in place, even if no one knows about it yet. Actually, you may have several options that you’re juggling now, but this complexity is not beyond your natural capability. You can perform with the best of them, but remember that your goal isn’t keeping lots of balls in the air; instead, it’s about being happy. Fortunately, walking away from the distractions might be easier than you realize if you simply make a commitment to do it.

 

Cancer Horoscope

(Jun 21 – Jul 22)

Favorable opportunities arise from the most unusual places now, but this doesn’t make them any less reliable. Emotional interactions with friends or a romantic partner could lead to a conceptual breakthrough in how you reach your goals. Remain open to new possibilities, since your path is about to widen if you just let it happen without worrying so much about the outcome.

 

Leo Horoscope

(Jul 23 – Aug 22)

Emotions that have you tied in knots may be suddenly released today, as if a magician planned your escape in advance. You could be breathing a sigh of relief from being set free, but you can’t avoid the long-term issues you still face. Instead of running away, accept your current circumstances graciously as you work with determination to transform your life.

 

Virgo Horoscope

(Aug 23 – Sep 22)

A shady character may let you down today by not following through on promises made, but don’t waste your energy getting too upset about it. You might not have as much control over the actions of others as you prefer and you’ll only make yourself unhappy if you allow your emotions to get the best of you. Manage your time effectively and concentrate on improving your own work instead of trying to change anyone else.

 

Libra Horoscope

(Sep 23 – Oct 22)

You may be unsure why your day is overtaken by tasks that don’t help you move any closer to your goals. You might be feeling less than ambitious now, so it’s advantageous to just do whatever is expected of you. Even if you have lots of transformational ideas, applying them at work could take more effort than you’re willing to invest. Entertaining fantasies about the future is enough to bring you satisfaction today.

 

Scorpio Horoscope

(Oct 23 – Nov 21)

An unexpected emotional encounter can shock your nervous system today and wake you up from a deep sleep. You may be in a bit of denial about where your life is heading and now you can begin to see things more clearly. Don’t make the big changes yet; just playfully consider each possibility as it floats into your awareness.

 

Sagittarius Horoscope

(Nov 22 – Dec 21)

If you are stressed out about making a financial decision, don’t just take the easy way out today. There is more going on now than meets the eye; you’ll be better off if you let the current situation take its course for a while longer, giving you additional time to discern what’s best. Rest assured that your thoughts will grow clearer in the days ahead. Once your confidence returns, you will feel empowered to make the right choice.

 

Capricorn Horoscope

(Dec 22 – Jan 19)

You may have to let go of control over your schedule today. One thing after another comes up and you might have to accept that you cannot handle so much chaos at once. Don’t judge yourself too harshly while responding to the demands of the day. Do the best you can and let some of the loose ends stay unraveled until tomorrow when you have sufficient time to handle them all.

 

Aquarius Horoscope

(Jan 20 – Feb 18)

Responsibilities at work may conflict with your personal goals, but try not to let that concern you too much at this time. You might not have as much clarity as you want now, so avoid making a decision based upon inaccurate facts or incomplete data. Use this time to explore all of your options, without eliminating any of them. Most of all, be patient with yourself; you’ll figure out what you want within a few days.

 

Pisces Horoscope

(Feb 19 – Mar 20)

You are living in two distinct worlds today. On one hand, you’re quite comfortable floating around in the dreamy fuzziness of your own imagination. On the other hand, you are uncovering more factual information than you know how to manage. Find ways to integrate your feelings with your rational thoughts. When they magically merge, it’s time to swing into heroic action.

Daily Horoscopes for Monday, January 14th

We may grow weary of the high-strung mental energy that has us feeling on edge. Communicator Mercury forms disquieting aspects with judgmental Jupiter, stern Saturn and reckless Uranus, turning simple discussions into complicated battles for intellectual dominance. Fortunately, the Moon shifts into compassionate Pisces at 5:49 am EST to soften an otherwise anxious planetary landscape. Meanwhile, a Venus-Jupiter quincunx tempts us to overindulge.

 

Aries Horoscope

(Mar 21 – Apr 19)

You might not be willing to trust your feelings today, since you can’t follow your thoughts to their logical conclusion. You are all for telling the truth, but there’s so much on your mind now that every nuance cannot be communicated. Hidden realities widen your perspective and teach you a lot about the real world. The more open you are to the realms of fantasy, the more you can imagine new vistas ahead.

 

Taurus Horoscope

(Apr 20 – May 20)

You may be quite relaxed today for a back-to-work Monday since you have already given yourself permission to chill out with your friends. Although responsibilities still require your attention today, make time to restore your energy. Don’t be overly concerned if you leave a job unfinished for a while; treating yourself to a bit of pleasure now shifts your attitude in a positive direction.

 

Gemini Horoscope

(May 21 – Jun 20)

Although you might not be eager to meet your obligations today, others may be relying on you more than you realize. Temporarily putting aside your long-term dreams enables you to interact fully in the present moment, but could also contribute to your angst now. No matter how uncertain you are about your future, your heartfelt efforts to communicate with your friends are greatly appreciated and will lift your spirits, too.

 

Cancer Horoscope

(Jun 21 – Jul 22)

You may start the day feeling like an unhappy Crab that has been taken from its watery cave. However, as waves of familiar emotions wash through your life today, you’re reminded of how important it is to stay in touch with those you love. Don’t worry if you can’t explain your newly found confidence to anyone else; just continue about your business without trying to rationalize your behavior. Nevertheless, connecting with others is what matters most.

 

Leo Horoscope

(Jul 23 – Aug 22)

Your current dissatisfaction with a relationship may increase today, for you might realize what you are missing. But the real problem goes even deeper than what someone else has to offer; it’s about your need for total engagement. Focus on what you can give to others instead of simply thinking about what you’re not receiving in return. Everyone wins if no one is keeping score.

 

Virgo Horoscope

(Aug 23 – Sep 22)

Someone who puts you in closer touch with your feelings may enter your life today, even if you don’t know what to do about your reaction. Until now, you were in a very analytical frame of mind, leaving little room for the confusion of irrational emotions. However, you might need to accept that logic won’t always bring you the satisfaction you seek. Your stress will dissipate if you can get out of your head and into your heart.

 

Libra Horoscope

(Sep 23 – Oct 22)

You’re unsure of how to go about accomplishing your goals today, but don’t make excuses or procrastinate any longer. Instead of trying to create a plan, rely on your intuition to tell you what to do next. Although you may feel uncomfortable with this strategy, it just might produce the best results. However, don’t overreact; taking an extreme position won’t help you reach your destination any sooner.

 

Scorpio Horoscope

(Oct 23 – Nov 21)

You may create more stress by trying to resolve the conflict between your current desires and a more logical approach to your needs. Thankfully, the tension should begin to settle down today without any specific action on your part. There are subtle shifts in the present circumstances now that can give you a glimpse of the smoother sailing ahead. But don’t needlessly rock the boat; just stay on course until the discord dissipates.

 

Sagittarius Horoscope

(Nov 22 – Dec 21)

Your lack of commitment might present a problem for a family member or your partner today. It’s not that you’re avoiding an uncomfortable issue; it’s just that your priorities are different from everyone else’s and not based on their expectations. If you don’t want to be pinned down now, let others know how you’re feeling as soon as possible. A difficult situation can simply be avoided if you speak up right away.

 

Capricorn Horoscope

(Dec 22 – Jan 19)

You’re trying to do the responsible thing today, but one distraction after another may prevent you from fulfilling your current obligations. Ultimately, it’s less about what others think than it is about your own self-judgment. Be easy on yourself now, for there will be time later to return to unfinished business or to reconsider where to go from here

 

Aquarius Horoscope

(Jan 20 – Feb 18)

Instead of rushing into a new task, stop long enough to clarify your goals, assess your resources and make sure that traveling a different path is truly worth the effort. Even if you decide to build on what you have already started, don’t move ahead too fast. Fortunately, it will be much easier to succeed if you take the time to develop your strategy first.

 

Pisces Horoscope

(Feb 19 – Mar 20)

Although you might not feel fully prepared for what’s around the next corner, the Moon’s return to your sign indicates the beginning of a new emotional cycle. If you have left chores unfinished, unexpected events may force you to do what you should have already done. However, if your old business is completed, then opportunities may open up for you now. Just be sure that you honor your dreams when starting something new.

Your Daily Horoscopes for Sunday, January 13th

We may feel exhilarated today as we look toward the future and share our ideas with a wider range of people. Although the socially conscious Aquarius Moon draws us into a group, we tend to shy away from more intimate, one-on-one contacts. The Moon connects us to a matrix of feelings, yet we are currently more comfortable with emotional detachment. Aquarius is an intellectual Air sign that favors the good of everyone over individual satisfaction.

 

Aries Horoscope

(Mar 21 – Apr 19)

You may feel the electricity of the high-frequency Aquarius Moon that insists you move into the future. But you’re also listening to the beat of a not-so-distant drummer with a more traditional rhythm. Oddly enough, you might attempt to hold on to the past now, preventing you from freely running ahead. Thankfully, your stress dissipates if you share your dilemma with someone you trust; talking about your mixed feelings helps bring clarity to the situation.

 

Taurus Horoscope

(Apr 20 – May 20)

Interactions with others may lure you into uncomfortable places today, yet you don’t want anyone to know what’s going on behind your stoic appearance. You have good reason to maintain the status quo, even if you’re currently receiving information that tempts you to make immediate changes. Acting in a restrained manner is your most sensible strategy now. Acknowledging your emotional reactions is healthy, but you don’t need to share everything you feel.

 

Gemini Horoscope

(May 21 – Jun 20)

This isn’t an easy time because the planets continue to hold your feet to the fire and your words to the law. Although you might prefer a more lighthearted approach to life, you are being constrained in ways that may make you doubt your methods. Thankfully, the freethinking Aquarius Moon offers relief today, but the deepest issues won’t be blown away by a fresh breeze. If you stop and face the music, it won’t be nearly as difficult to handle as you think.

 

Cancer Horoscope

(Jun 21 – Jul 22)

Intimate communications with significant others are emphasized today. You may think that you have to be very precise in what you say because people are hanging on your every word. However, your message isn’t as important now as how you deliver it. You can do your part by simply sharing what is most real for you. Just don’t try to package all your emotions into a pretty box. Showing up with an open heart is your best gift.

 

Leo Horoscope

(Jul 23 – Aug 22)

An encounter with a close friend or family member can leave you confused, especially if others are relying on feelings more than intellect. It’s challenging because you might not have the words you need at your disposal today. Part of the problem comes from the inadequacy of language, making it tough to translate your ideas into coherent speech. Watch for non-verbal signals that tell you how you’re being received. Being subtle in your approach now may be more effective than making grand gestures.

 

Virgo Horoscope

(Aug 23 – Sep 22)

This is the start of a productive cycle of communication for you. Your thoughts are lighter and more speculative now. Fortunately, you’re given time to think about integrating more creativity into your daily routine. Begin now by making time to write in your journal — and then do it on a regular basis. You may be happily surprised by where this cathartic process leads you.

 

Libra Horoscope

(Sep 23 – Oct 22)

Your memories could drift back to your childhood today as you seek the original source of your current feelings. You may be certain that your emotional habits were formed at an earlier time in your life and now you want to dig up the root cause. Go ahead and begin this important research, but don’t expect fast and easy answers to your questions. Be thorough in your analysis yet allow the process to reveal the truth in good time.

 

Scorpio Horoscope

(Oct 23 – Nov 21)

Although you are being required to be more actively engaged in various forms of communication, you’re not inclined to simply fill the empty spaces with noise. You want serious interactions that have purpose and meaning. Without the reality factor fully involved, you might try to check out before the conversation is over. However, don’t judge too quickly; give things time to develop depth on their own.

 

Sagittarius Horoscope

(Nov 22 – Dec 21)

This is an odd day energetically because on one hand you’re growing excited about the future. You might even feel that your dreams are on the verge of becoming real. On the other hand, the clouds of illusion fall away as fast as you can create the lovely dreamscapes. Ultimately, you want to see things as they are now, not as you would like them to be. Keeping one foot on the ground helps you make the best of both worlds

 

Capricorn Horoscope

(Dec 22 – Jan 19)

Your biggest dilemma now is how to stay positive while you are exploring deep in the well of pragmatic thought. But endless analysis doesn’t lead you anywhere productive; it just takes you around in circles. One strategy is to keep your calendar peppered with fun activities with friends because they will make sure you don’t slip into a state of terminal seriousness. Cautious optimism creates the best chances for progress

 

Aquarius Horoscope

(Jan 20 – Feb 18)

You’re probably quite moody now that the evocative Moon is back in your sign. However, this monthly lunar visit isn’t just about your rapidly changing feelings; it’s about making contact with your soul’s purpose. Explore your imagination as four planets settle into your 12th House of Spirituality. Don’t be afraid to let go and fall into your own dreams. You’ll wake up stronger and happier if you take this metaphysical journey with an adventurous attitude.

 

Pisces Horoscope

(Feb 19 – Mar 20)

Although your energy is just beginning to settle back down, your imagination is still stirring up exciting new recipes for life. What is usually just a touch of escapism or an idle fantasy can now take you on a very real ride. In fact, it may be difficult for you to separate the fruits of your labors from the fruit loops of your irrational fears and longings. Rely on your most sensible friends to give you the reality check that you need.

Cutting the Knot: Handling a Pagan Divorce

Cutting the Knot: Handling a Pagan Divorce

by Freya Ray

Whether it’s three months past the handfasting or twelve years past the wedding, there comes a point in the lives of many pagan couples when it’s time to give it up already. You’ve tried everything you can think of to save the relationship, you’ve both been depressed for far too long, you’ve flailed around and dragged half your friends inside your mess and none of it has done any good.

Then a moment of clarity descends. This relationship is not going to be fixed by couples counseling, karmic clearing rituals, better feng shui or some new sexual interests. You’ve had it, or they’ve had it. Someone has made a simple, clear decision that it’s over.

Now what?

The absolute first thing you need to do is find some alone time to cry and rage and feel sorry for yourself. If you’re still in shock and it hasn’t hit you yet, you’ve got two options. One is to soldier on like an automaton, waiting for the freight train of your feelings to come around a corner and flatten you. The other is to create enough alone time with no distractions when you can invite your feelings to come up to the surface so you can deal with them. It’s a personal choice. Some people need to get things handled before they break down. Just make sure you create time to fall apart at some point.

The emotional basket-case period will vary in length, depending on the relationship, how long you were together, how shocking the end of it was to you, how much control you had in the decision, how badly you were done wrong or how guilty you feel for doing wrong and how much you still love your soon-to-be-ex-partner. However long it’s going to take you to get over it, you still need to find a clear moment in which to make some triage decisions.

When you get to a good break point in your weeping and wailing, dry your eyes, take a long walk and come back to get settled in a quiet, meditative place. What you need to do now is try to project yourself forward. Right at this moment, you’re feeling a whole host of conflicting things, or even worse, one overriding, immense emotion. These feelings are going to control the actions you take in the next few hours and weeks if you don’t make some higher-level decisions.

Setting aside the emotional crap you’re going to be wading through for a while, ask yourself the question, “What kind of relationship do I truly want to have with this person a year from now?” Sit with that until it’s clear to you. Are you “doner than done,” and you’ll never want to see your ex’s face again once you get his or her crap out of your house? Are you going to want to have a caring friendship? Are you still hoping you can get back together and work things out?

Now you have a vision, a dream. The next question is even more important. “How likely is my soon-to-be-ex-partner going to be to participate in this vision of mine?”

Be honest with yourself. At this point, if you’re calling this a divorce, you’ve been together long enough to have seen this person’s shit. Let me tell you, in case you haven’t figured it out yet, he or she is not going to become a nicer or better person during the breakup. It’s never happened. Not once. So if you know he has a tendency to shut down emotionally, or she’s not in touch with any of her exes, or he lies sometimes, or whatever, that trait is going to be worse from here on out than it was when she was still trying to impress you on some level.

Worse.

This estimation of what’s possible reuqires taking this into account. You take your optimism, your spiritual idealism and then you temper it with a healthy dose of realistic pessimism. It’s okay to gamble on a long shot. Just know you’re doing it. If you want to be friends, and he’s never remained on speaking terms with anyone he’s ever dated, you’ve got a very slim chance of pulling it off. Any effort you expend that direction needs to be effort you can give freely, even if nothing comes back from it.

Actually, that’s a pretty good rule for wherever you want to end up. A breakup is about sorting out stuff, including energy, so that everyone walks away (hopefully!) with what is her own. Don’t keep giving him energy you’re going to need. Give her what you can spare, and let her carry herself the rest of the time.

But I jump ahead. Right now, you’re figuring out what your intent is, your goal. You might even write this down, because I guarantee you that your resolve will be tested.

Quite often, I decide that I am absolutely, given the slightest opening, going to have a nice, friendly, flirtatious, comfortable friendship with an ex. Unless he’s done me country-song wrong, in which case I pick another intention. But if the breakup was due to a more blameless sort of incompatibility, I really want to remain friends with someone I’m no longer dating or living with.

This requires stubbornness after I’ve ended the relationship. Ego is hurt, feelings are hurt, he doesn’t want to see me because he still wants me, he doesn’t want to be near me because he doesn’t still want me, whatever. I have to remain unruffled by attempts to push me away. If I get defensive and hurt, then we’re having drama, and it’s not bringing us closer to being friends. If I wait it out, processing my own hurt on my own time, and holding a friendly open space for him whenever he’s ready to step into it, I’ve got a shot at finding a friend in a few months.

In order to be patient, when he’s saying offensive things or seducing a twit in front of my face, I need to have a clear intention. This anchors me, so my efforts remain in line with the results I wish to produce.

No matter how hurt you are right now, there will be results you will wish to have produced, a few months or a couple years from now. Be clear about them so you don’t slash and burn while you’re upset.

Okay, so you know what you want, you know how likely you are to get it, and you’ve formulated a clear statement of intention. Now you need a plan that’s in line with your intention.

If your intent is to never speak to her again, well, start protecting yourself. I’m sure you have good reason not to want her as a friend, and that means you don’t trust her to make decisions in your best interest during the separation. Don’t be cruel or unfair, but don’t leave all your money in a joint checking account either. Make the material plane decisions as quickly as possible. And be prepared to chew off at least a few toes in order to get yourself free of the trap. Act decisively.

If your intent is to remain friends, start acting like it now. At least when you’re with the new ex. When you’re with your friends, vent all you like. But when together with your ex-partner, be friendly, work toward compromise and offer some peace-treaty gifts. Give her a shared item she enjoys, or even an item of yours she enjoys. Offer to help him move. Call mutual friends and let them know about the breakup, and ask them to provide emotional support to your ex-partner, who really needs it right now. Act like a friend.

If your intent is to get back together, work toward that. Suggest a separation rather than a final decision. Suggest counseling for the both of you. Start counseling yourself. Suggest you pay for him to go to Peru and hang out at a spa getting therapy every day until he feels better about life. If none of these overtures meet with a receptive welcome, consider revising your intention. Your partner might not be open at all to trying it again. But if you’re still intent on your long shot, keep treating this person with love. Wait patiently, periodically testing the waters, seeing if a door opens. Do your emotional work to process the separation and deal with your feelings, so that if that door does open you don’t walk through it saying, “And how dare you shut me out of our own home!” or words to that effect.

Now let’s talk about the energetic and spiritual work that needs to be done with each of our three breakup plans. Any couple is bound by a whole mess of connections, at various chakras and in various stages of health. During a breakup, you need to decide which ones you sever and which you leave in place.

The hostile divorce is the easiest one to handle. Energetically, you slash and burn. Visualize the cords between you and your partner. Visualize a pair of scissors or a knife. Midway between the two of you, cut through the cords. Let her energy go boinging back to her, while yours rebounds inside your own energy body. Do a vacuum maneuver, where you suck up any stray energy that belongs rightfully to you. Do an expulsion, where you send back to him any energy that rightfully belongs to him. Make it clean, decisive and karmically correct.

You might need to repeat this maneuver, as sometimes it will take several separation ceremonies to clear the crud between you and the ex. Enmeshment can go very deep, because of an intense or long relationship this life, past life entanglements, karmic obligations or perfectly matched-up psychological and emotional wounds.

You might discover you’re uncomfortable keeping all your energy for yourself, that your habits of taking care of this person extend to a constant energetic feed heading their direction. You might discover you’ve been receiving a constant energetic feed from your ex, and by cutting the ties you feel depleted, adrift. Either way, it’s better to wallow through the withdrawal period than it is to allow the messy connections to remain in place. Cut the cords.

You should also have some kind of ritual where you release this person from your life, and release each other from any further karmic obligations toward each other. Burn stuff that reminds you of the relationship, chant your intention to be finished, move, something. What you do doesn’t matter, as long as you do it with intent. Use some external event to symbolize the end. Past here, we are no longer partners. In the hostile divorce, you do this ritual by yourself, and she does whatever she does on her own, and you start learning not to care what’s going on with her.

Take some time to put up protection. Surround yourself with white light, get a restraining order, change the locks, put up a send-back spell, whatever feels appropriate for the situation.

Be decisive, get it over with. It is done, it is done, it is done.

A friendly divorce is handled a bit differently. Energetically, you don’t want to cut all the cords in an indiscriminate knife-slash. You wish to leave some of them in place, and cut or diminish others. Visualize the connections between you, and ask which ones are appropriate for the relationship you wish to have now. Leave those, and cut the others. You might leave a strong connection at the heart and decide to sever the rest at least temporarily, allowing the ones that need to be there for your friendship to grow back. You might suck all the sexual energy back into your root and navel, leaving the rest of it alone. You might figure your partner has done enough slashing of connections already in his anger, and not do any more separating, instead feeding energy into a strong, clear, loving line between you.

Trust your intuition to guide you. Remain true to your intent. If you wish to be friends, and you or she are not equipped for casual sexual relationships, than no matter how juicy and delicious the sexual energy is between you, you need to let it go. If the spiritual bond was what drew you together, and on the material plane you drove each other nuts, perhaps you will choose to snip the crown connection for a while, to find out what sorts of connections are possible for you as friends when you’re not blinded by white light.

If your ex is amenable, it can be nice to have a closing ritual together. Plan a symbolic way to officially release the partnership relationship between you. Plan it together, enact it together and then invoke your mutual intention for friendship. If you have a partner you can do this with, you are truly blessed. Treasure that friendship.

For the still-hanging-on divorce, well, the energetic work you’re going to want to do and the energetic work you should do are probably going to be two different things. Your instinctive urge will be to cling with all your might, leaving all connections in place, tugging on them as hard as you can and sending your ex tons of energy as you think about him all the time. Don’t do that.

Basically, you need to clean up whatever the mess was that caused you two to separate or divorce. This means letting go of the icky-sticky codependent connections and doing your own personal work so you’re ready for a healthier relationship. The good news is that whether you and your ex get back together or not, you need to do this work. The bad news is that you will have no guarantees of getting her back after your interior makeover, even if you’re still convinced she’s your soulmate.

Force yourself. Visualize the connections, and be very honest about which ones are healthy and which ones are enmeshed. Have a ritual where you release the karmic obligations between you, where you release the unhealthy habit patterns between you, where you release any connections that are no longer appropriate between you.

Do this right. Be open to the possibility that the two of you really are done. If you find Spirit is telling you to let it all go, let it all go. Sometimes the phoenix cannot rise until things have burned themselves fully down to ash. Whether the phoenix will be a relationship with the same person or a new one, you need to let go.

With any luck, whichever type of divorce you’re going through, cleaning up the energetic and spiritual connections will take you further along the path of healing from the loss. Be gentle with yourself as you get used to life on your own again. Do your own work, and then, when it’s time, believe in a new beginning.

Springtime always follows the winter. Always.

Your Daily Horoscopes for Saturday, January 12th

Rules aren’t strong enough to constrain our attractions today, so we should consider how much we’re willing to risk in order to get what we want. Our emotions are on edge as sensual Venus squares electric Uranus, buzzing our bodies with nervous energy. We are tempted to step beyond old limitations as unfulfilled desires pull on our dreams. Meanwhile, the Moon shifts into eclectic Aquarius at 4:01 am EST, reflecting our need for unique expression.

 

Aries Horoscope

(Mar 21 – Apr 19)

You are wired with the anticipation of doing something daring today, even if others think you’re the epitome of stability. You may feel wild and crazy since your impulsive reactions are even stronger than usual. Nevertheless, you cannot act on every whim. Maintain a sense of responsibility to compensate for your current unconventional desires. Holding an outer posture of reliability enables you to continue chasing your dreams.

 

Taurus Horoscope

(Apr 20 – May 20)

You might begin the day with simple goals, but complications mount as you head in one particular direction because of an irrepressible craving. You don’t want your satisfaction to be delayed as your key planet, Venus, is excited by unpredictable Uranus. Just be careful not to destabilize anything that has enduring importance on your rush toward temporary gratification.

 

Gemini Horoscope

(May 21 – Jun 20)

It seems as if everyone wants to have a good time today and you certainly don’t want to be left out of the fun. You might think you can get away with a clever scheme in your quest for the next thrill, but you may be surprised how fast your mistakes can catch up with you now. Attend to your responsibilities early in the day so you can be free to explore your options for play later on.

 

Cancer Horoscope

(Jun 21 – Jul 22)

Your obligations may feel overwhelming today, but you could still find a way to avoid too much drudgery. Your evasive behavior isn’t necessarily an act of irresponsibility, especially if you are just setting your own personal boundaries. Remember, you don’t always have to take on other people’s worries just because they expect you to do so. Sometimes saying no to someone else is the healthiest expression of self-love.

 

Leo Horoscope

(Jul 23 – Aug 22)

You may grow frustrated by thinking about how much fun you could have if you ditched your current obligations, jumped bail and declared yourself free. However, nearly anything you do today has immediate repercussions. Remember that it’s easier to contemplate the consequences of your actions before having to deal with a crisis of your own creation.

 

Virgo Horoscope

(Aug 23 – Sep 22)

If there are issues in your love life that need to be brought out into the open, today may be your lucky day. Just be considerate and express your desires in a rational way that demonstrates your compassionate spirit rather than a selfish attitude. Sparks might fly, but everything should work out as long as you speak from the heart, maintain integrity and act in a kindly matter. The outcome could be more pleasing than you expect.

 

Libra Horoscope

(Sep 23 – Oct 22)

Unconventional desires can land you in trouble today, but a bit of self-awareness helps you get through the day without too much drama. However, sidestepping an emotional scene proves difficult because unexpected circumstances might sneak up on you. Your attractions may fluctuate wildly before you understand what’s going on. Thankfully, it’s healthy to experience extreme feelings now as long as you avoid acting on any one of them as if it was the ultimate truth.

 

Scorpio Horoscope

(Oct 23 – Nov 21)

It’s hard to maintain your concentration on chores today because enticing social circumstances are very distracting. You don’t need to lose out on all the fun, but previous commitments prevent you from cutting loose as much as you wish. There’s no need to stress about the good times you might be missing since there will be chances for more frivolity soon enough. Instead, be happy wherever you are and with whatever you are doing while secretly planning your escape.

 

Sagittarius Horoscope

(Nov 22 – Dec 21)

You look like you have both feet planted on the ground, but your creative imagination may be soaring with the birds. Ironically, focusing on what’s happening in the present moment empowers you to let go and follow a stream of consciousness while still maintaining a solid connection with reality. Even if your work is a bit sloppy now, strive to be as original as possible. Thankfully, you will be able to tidy up the details later on.

 

Capricorn Horoscope

(Dec 22 – Jan 19)

You may not be able to resist your heart’s desire today. Although logical analysis leads you to the right answers, it might not be sufficient to keep you on the straight and narrow path now. It’s admirable to take the high road by transforming your physical needs into compassionate action. Perhaps self-restraint does lead to the most spiritual path, but keep in mind that you are human. Honoring your eccentricity is also an important part of your current path toward satisfaction.

 

Aquarius Horoscope

(Jan 20 – Feb 18)

Amorous Venus squares edgy Uranus today, encouraging you to risk more in your quest for emotional fulfillment and physical satisfaction. You might believe that pursuing a sudden attraction will bring you lasting happiness. However, reckless behavior, at best, only leads to temporary pleasure. Sacrifice a little excitement now for the security of long-term stability.

 

Pisces Horoscope

(Feb 19 – Mar 20)

Your mind is free to go anywhere today as your thoughts play out one possible scenario after another. But it may not be socially acceptable to express every whim. Nevertheless, it’s up to you to find the courage to bring your dreams into full consciousness. Fortunately, you don’t have to tell anyone about your fantasies, nor do you need to act them out now. Simply enjoy the movie in which you are the writer, the director and the star.

Daily OM for January 9th – Tending the Emotions

Tending the Emotions

Having a Breakdown

by Madisyn Taylor

 

Having a breakdown is often the catharsis that is needed to keep our emotional life in balance.

 

Most of us have had the experience of holding back our emotions for such a long period of time that when they finally come out, we have something resembling a breakdown. For a certain period of time, the overwhelming flood of feelings coursing through our bodies consumes us, and we stop functioning. Often, these outbursts take us by surprise, welling up within us as we drive to or from work, watch a movie, or engage in some otherwise mundane task. We may feel like we do not know what triggered us, or if we do know, it does not make sense of our overpowering emotional response. This is because we are releasing feelings that have accumulated over a long period of time, and whatever inspired the release was just a catalyst for a much larger, much needed catharsis.

When we find ourselves in the midst of such an experience, it is important that we allow it to happen, rather than fight it or try to shut down. Wherever we are, we can try to find a private, safe place in which to let our feelings out. If we can not access such a place immediately, we can promise to set aside some time for ourselves at our earliest possible convenience, perhaps taking a day off work. The important thing is that we need to give our emotional system some much-needed attention. It is essential that we allow ourselves to release the pent-up emotions inside ourselves so that they do not create imbalances in our bodies and minds.

When you are feeling better, make a plan to find a way to process your emotions more regularly. You can do this by employing a therapist or making a regular date to talk to a trusted friend. Journaling can also be a great way to acknowledge and release your emotions, as can certain forms of meditation. Making room in your life for tending your emotions on a regular basis will keep you healthy, balanced, and ready for life.

Your Daily Horoscopes for Monday, January 7th

Frustration can turn to anger today, unless we express our truth without blaming anyone. The emotionally intense Scorpio Moon dredges up powerful memories, but we struggle to put our feelings into action. We are afraid of losing control now as combative Mars stressfully squares cold Saturn. It seems as if we’re stuck in a holding pattern without being able to progress or retreat, yet a combination of caution and kindness gets us through the day.

 

Aries Horoscope

(Mar 21 – Apr 19)

It’s hard to get much started today, especially if you’re worried about the disapproval you might receive from your peers. You may think that you waited too long, but there isn’t anything to be gained by self-criticism now. Be satisfied with whatever you accomplish, even if it’s less than you expected. Thankfully, you should be able to pick up the pace in a day or two once your key planet Mars is free from restrictive Saturn. In the meantime, work off your excess energy with a bit of strenuous physical activity.

 

Taurus Horoscope

(Apr 20 – May 20)

Relationship responsibilities continue to slow you down and can consume a lot of your resources today. You want to live up to your obligations, but not necessarily at the expense of your own personal fulfillment. Don’t be overly concerned, even if you can’t see any progress in your current situation. Patience is required now because your goals may seem elusive for a few more days. Nevertheless, positive results are more likely if you channel your restless anxiety into hard work.

 

Gemini Horoscope

(May 21 – Jun 20)

You may need to re-evaluate your current objectives at work because your previous assumptions might prove to be wrong. Instead of being in a hurry to reach your goals, slow down and make sure that all loose ends are tied up before going on to the next step. It’s more important to strengthen your foundation now than it is to expand your reach. A cautious and methodical approach today will prevent unnecessary trouble down the road.

 

Cancer Horoscope

(Jun 21 – Jul 22)

You might feel a bit disheartened today by complications in a relationship, yet you’re hesitant to share what’s really on your mind. Even if someone is trying to exert control over your actions, they cannot change your emotions. Unfortunately, doing what’s expected of you while hiding your feelings could create an undertow of resentment. Honor your own heart now by facing your resistance and telling the truth.

 

Leo Horoscope

(Jul 23 – Aug 22)

Your efforts on the job may be thwarted now, no matter how hard you work. It’s as if you’re attempting to roll boulders up a steep hill and you wonder if it’s worth all the effort. However, regardless of your lack of results, it’s important that you keep trying since you are setting the stage for greater opportunities to come to fruition in the year ahead.

 

Virgo Horoscope

(Aug 23 – Sep 22)

If your time is stretched too thin, you may have to cut back on your schedule. But don’t waste energy complaining about how much you have to do or your co-workers might grow annoyed with you. Ironically, it seems like the more effort you put into making things happen now, the more work that’s in front of you. Your best strategy is to shift your focus to another task for a while. You can return to your previous endeavors in a day or two with a fresh perspective.

 

Libra Horoscope

(Sep 23 – Oct 22)

Your friends and family may not be as supportive now as you wish. Nevertheless, it’s important to realize they are on your side — even if it doesn’t feel that way in the present moment. Instead of trying to convince anyone to help you today, release him or her from your expectations. Then, if someone lends a hand, it will be a generous act of free will instead of originating from of a sense of obligation.

 

Scorpio Horoscope

(Oct 23 – Nov 21)

You might feel as if your best intentions are being stymied, and nothing you do fixes the situation today. The current circumstances are a test of your willpower; although you may be angry, losing your temper only makes matters worse. Even if you want to initiate more drastic action, kindly letting others know how you feel without blaming them is a more positive approach. Continue to take the high road instead of trying to even the score. You’ll have a chance to get everything out in the open sooner than you think.

 

Sagittarius Horoscope

(Nov 22 – Dec 21)

Pay extra careful attention to the clock today or your schedule could fall apart. It may be tempting to walk away from it all, but avoidance is not in your best interest. Plan ahead by first acknowledging that everything could take longer to finish than you expect. Adding extra time between activities allows you to work at a consistent pace without worrying that you’ll lose control of your day. Your determination to stay on point earns the respect you seek.

 

Capricorn Horoscope

(Dec 22 – Jan 19)

You might feel a bit lost today as reaching your goals slips out of your grasp. However, don’t write off anything too quickly because the game isn’t over yet. There’s no time to wallow in discouragement now, even if your efforts until now haven’t manifested the desired results. Prematurely admitting failure could stand between you and success. Be persistent and continue to work for what you want; monetary rewards and peer recognition may be just around the next corner.

 

Aquarius Horoscope

(Jan 20 – Feb 18)

You may feel as if you must set your needs aside to fulfill responsibilities at work now that expressive Mars in your individualistic sign squares taskmaster Saturn. But instead of reacting by shutting down emotionally, set priorities that honor both your personal and professional goals. Succeeding at work is not an all-or-nothing proposition today, so make a plan that includes some quality time for yourself.

 

Pisces Horoscope

(Feb 19 – Mar 20)

Your dreams may have grown so outrageous that achieving your goals seems unrealistic today. Something has to give because you might not be able to keep up with your own ambitious plans. Remember, if you are reaching too far, it’s smarter to scale back your hopes now than waiting until it’s too late. Establishing priorities based on reality, not fantasy, will help you create a healthy balance in your life.

Your Daily Horoscopes for Monday, December 31st

We may be eager to celebrate the New Year with fun and frivolity now that the Moon is visiting playful Leo. But expressing our holiday spirit at a party won’t tell the whole story today because rational Mercury enters serious Capricorn this morning. Meanwhile, assertive Mars forms an anxious alignment with sensual Venus, encouraging us to ask for what we want. However, we’re interested now in meaningful discussions about issues of substance.

Aries Horoscope

(Mar 21 – Apr 19)

Although you want everyone to see that you are doing the right thing these days, demonstrating your good intentions can be quite challenging at times. Part of the problem is that you would rather be enjoying yourself than fulfilling previous obligations. Accepting your current place in the world isn’t easy if it involves hard work; nevertheless, it’s what you must do now. Playtime might just have to wait until after you prove yourself worthy.

Taurus Horoscope

(Apr 20 – May 20)

You know what it takes to be practical today, but you don’t really feel like doing it. Ultimately, your most workable strategy now starts with being aware of the divergent forces that are pulling you in different directions. Your natural desire to simplify your life could win out over an unnecessary emotional display, even if you want everyone to know what’s on your mind. Remember, acting with maturity and patience will bring you more happiness than expecting others to cater to your needs.

Gemini Horoscope

(May 21 – Jun 20)

It seems like you are dramatically running from one task to the next, but you may not be as busy as you appear. Your hectic pace is part of a strategy that lets others know they shouldn’t ask more from you now. Unfortunately, they might not understand and make additional demands on your time, anyhow. Try a direct approach and just say you cannot take on anything else. Your true friends will appreciate your honesty and respect your limits.

Cancer Horoscope

(Jun 21 – Jul 22)

Even if you are usually fiscally cautious, it’s all too easy to forget budgetary restraints during the holiday season. Nevertheless, you might want to demonstrate that you are responsible with your money today, especially if someone has recently criticized your spending habits. Keep in mind that you don’t have to spend a lot of money to feel good about yourself. Bringing in the New Year with friends or family could be all you need to lift your spirits.

Leo Horoscope

(Jul 23 – Aug 22)

You may be quite moody now that the sensitive Moon is in your sign. You could even swing from being very upbeat to down and out in just a few minutes today. But don’t take decisive action based upon your emotions, for they will continue to shift throughout the day. Enjoy the buoyant feelings while they last, but give them time to come to rest before making any choices that have permanent consequences.

Virgo Horoscope

(Aug 23 – Sep 22)

You might choose to downplay your confidence now because you believe it’s out of place in the current situation. Although compensating for your hidden optimism by acting with cool restraint is one tactic, consider the positive impact you might have on others by offering them a ray of hope, instead. There’s no need to go over the top, but, at least, take a risk by spreading light instead of fear.

Libra Horoscope

(Sep 23 – Oct 22)

Your kindness might win over a previous enemy, yet you could make matters worse if you are insincere. Friendly Venus, your ruling planet, is currently caught in a web of words and the more you say, the farther away from the truth you get. Although a magnanimous gesture may have a positive effect if you are well intended, don’t attempt to explain your behavior. Verbalizing your feelings now only detracts from the clarity of your actions.

Scorpio Horoscope

(Oct 23 – Nov 21)

Coming to the aid of those who look up to you sounds like a good idea, but your actions may not be fully appreciated now. Instead of expecting to be admired in the spotlight, try helping someone today without even being noticed. It’s not about recognition, even if it’s well deserved; it’s about touching the hearts of those who need it most.

Sagittarius Horoscope

(Nov 22 – Dec 21)

It’s party time for you today, but at least you have the good sense to realize that the fun times won’t last forever. You’re eager to create a memorable event, whether on your own or in collaboration with others. But don’t be disappointed if everything doesn’t play out according to your best-case fantasy since there could be some unexpected last minute changes. There’s no need to exert too much control because the new scenario could be even better than your imagined one.

Capricorn Horoscope

(Dec 22 – Jan 19)

You have probably experienced your share of intense drama this holiday season with the willful Sun’s connection to shadowy Pluto. Thankfully, the energy begins to lighten up today, indicating that the tide is changing in your favor. But instead of looking back and analyzing what has happened, shift your attention toward the future. Utilize your current creativity to visualize the year ahead. Paint in broad strokes and fill in the rest of the details later.

Aquarius Horoscope

(Jan 20 – Feb 18)

The fiery Leo Moon is traveling through your 7th House of Others, tugging on your relationship axis today. You may be lured into discussions about what you want, but your desires might not fit into someone else’s expectations. Luckily, you know how to detach yourself from an overly emotional conversation. Don’t waste energy trying to justify your actions; convoluted rationalizations will only further complicate your life. Let your actions speak for your heart.

Pisces Horoscope

(Feb 19 – Mar 20)

Trust your instincts when it comes to doing what makes the most sense today, even if it’s counter to your logical analysis. You’re receiving instructions directly from your subconscious now and it isn’t necessary to understand the reasons for your current decisions. Your intuition is your greatest ally; just follow your hunches and don’t forget to enjoy the journey along the way.

Your Daily Horoscopes for Saturday, December 29th

It’s difficult to make up our minds today because intense emotions are pulling us in different directions. On one hand, the nurturing Cancer Moon motivates us to draw our energy inward to focus on home and family. On the other hand, an exuberant Sun-Jupiter quincunx encourages us to question old assumptions that limit our expression. Meanwhile, we can feel the powerful rumblings of tomorrow’s Sun-Pluto conjunction. Love, not fear, will lead us to success.

Aries Horoscope

(Mar 21 – Apr 19)

Although you might try to convince yourself that you’re free from emotional attachments, there’s a problem with this approach today. Little events throughout the day remind you of how much you love your friends and family. Ultimately, it’s your choice; you could easily avoid upsetting your security by reining in your unrestrained behavior. However, you may alienate others if you hide your feelings. Sharing your uncertainty before you become annoyed can relieve the building tension.

Taurus Horoscope

(Apr 20 – May 20)

A clash with a good friend could be circumvented today, but it will take some serious restraint on your part. You might feel as if someone is baiting you, but it’s actually your own worries that create the biggest problems now. Rather than blaming anyone else for your lack of confidence, consider what you can do to boost your self-esteem. Remember, change won’t happen overnight but you have to start somewhere.

Gemini Horoscope

(May 21 – Jun 20)

You might have a challenging time explaining your feelings today because it’s easier to just keep them to yourself. Even if you know what you want to say, the words just don’t come out the way that you think them. Try not to jump around from one subject to another now or you will leave others in a state of confusion. However, telling your story succinctly and then following through with direct action gives the positive impression you wish to project.

Cancer Horoscope

(Jun 21 – Jul 22)

You may be hypersensitive today with the evocative Moon back in your sign. But being around too many people can be overwhelming now and you’re tempted to retreat in order to honor your own need for boundaries. Unfortunately, you might not be able to get out of a social obligation. Instead of focusing on your annoyance, just postpone your quiet time until things settle down. You could be pleasantly surprised at how good you end up feeling by the end of the day.

Leo Horoscope

(Jul 23 – Aug 22)

You realize the necessity of making changes to your daily routine, but you might not understand just yet how big this shift will be. Don’t expect everything to happen right away, since there are circumstances beyond your control that must play out before you can take your next step. Thankfully, you’re willing to do whatever needs to be done in order to get through this transition. Be patient; there’s a light at the end of the tunnel

Virgo Horoscope

(Aug 23 – Sep 22)

You want to break free at any cost, especially if you feel as if you’re stuck in an unchangeable situation. You are ready for action since you’ve already spent enough time contemplating all your options. Unfortunately, forcing progress today is not recommended because the security-conscious Cancer Moon is visiting your 11th House of Long-Term Goals. Be wise and maintain the status quo for a little while longer. Trust your intuition; you’ll know when the time is right to make your move.

Libra Horoscope

(Sep 23 – Oct 22)

You could be feeling a bit uneasy today without knowing why you can’t settle down. Your free-floating anxiety may not be connected to any one event; it might be related to a more complex set of emotions. Don’t look for a quick fix because that will only put off the inevitable for a few days. Instead, take your time to find healthy ways to relax even in times of stress. Practicing meditation, laughing with your friends, or just dancing around when no one is watching can help lighten your heart.

Scorpio Horoscope

(Oct 23 – Nov 21)

You’re tempted to dig in your heels and hold out for exactly what you want, but the end game of your current strategy isn’t dependent on your stubbornness. In fact, your lack of flexibility complicates things and moves you even farther away from your ultimate destination. Rather than being so sure of yourself, remain open to compromise now. Flowing with the give-and-take helps you feel good about the situation and increases your chances for success.

Sagittarius Horoscope

(Nov 22 – Dec 21)

Although you could be eager to embark on your next great journey, it may be discouraging to admit you haven’t even bought a ticket yet. Unfortunately, there are too many demands on your time now for you to think that you can leave on the spur of the moment. Be patient and don’t let go of your dreams; there’s still time to work out all the details before you have to choose your destination.

Capricorn Horoscope

(Dec 22 – Jan 19)

Your current uncertainty could put you in a more conservative frame of mind, prompting you to question your ability to reach your long-term goals. But don’t give up too soon because you might not have all the facts at your disposal. Although you may feel the pressure to make a serious career decision today, it’s smarter to delay your final choice until after the New Year, if possible.

Aquarius Horoscope

(Jan 20 – Feb 18)

You are thrilled about the possibilities ahead, but too much optimism may inspire you to act impulsively. This is no time for foolish obstinacy because it only amplifies the stress. It’s wiser to acknowledge your enthusiasm while practicing self-restraint. Instead of thinking you can simply overpower the obstacles you face, try to learn what valuable lessons they have to teach you now.

Pisces Horoscope

(Feb 19 – Mar 20)

You’re still processing a lot of information that recently came into your awareness, but it’s not easy to integrate so much data all at once. Nevertheless, you might feel as if a deadline is quickly approaching. Unfortunately, if you try to move too fast, you could end up hitting a wall. Ask a trusted friend for help today, so you have someone else to listen to your story. Any feedback you receive at this time can move you closer to your desired destination.

Daily Horoscopes for Friday, December 28th

Our dreams can overflow their boundaries like the sea at high tide because today’s Full Moon in emotional Cancer at 5:21 am EST activates the power of our subconscious minds. Our inner fears are pitted against our outer responsibilities as the ambitious Capricorn Sun drives us to overachieve without regard for the needs of others. The Moon’s anxious aspects to radical Uranus and relentless Pluto push deeply rooted tensions up to the surface.

Aries Horoscope

(Mar 21 – Apr 19)

Today’s Cancer Full Moon may stress your life with career issues that motivate you to rethink your overall life path. One of your important considerations is the sacrifice of emotional safety you need to make to reach your goals. Asking important questions now can propel you into action. Although others might see you as acting too aggressively, do whatever you must to get yourself back on track.

Taurus Horoscope

(Apr 20 – May 20)

If you are insecure about your communication abilities, today may be a great day to push through these self-limiting thoughts now that the Cancer Full Moon shines in your 3rd House of Information. It’s not important what others are saying; how you feel about yourself is more crucial. If you start from a place of low self-esteem, then nothing on the outside will make you feel OK. Fortunately, doing the necessary inner work gives you a confidence boost and a much-needed attitude adjustment.

Gemini Horoscope

(May 21 – Jun 20)

Your thoughts might be moving so fast today that you cannot even tell what you are thinking. You may have very sensible ideas, yet you can still ruin your chances of realizing a goal if you scatter your energy. The Cancer Full Moon in your 2nd House of Values is a reminder to focus on what is most important and allow the other activities to fall away. Don’t talk about anything until you are ready. Then, discuss your plan with passion so that others will take you seriously.

Cancer Horoscope

(Jun 21 – Jul 22)

The Full Moon in your sensitive sign might have you worrying that you are misunderstood. You want others to acknowledge and respect your desire for safety. Consider, however, that your needs may be based upon old insecurities — and no one can fix this if you fear rejection or change. You might not be able to solve this dilemma overnight, but sharing your concerns with someone you trust helps you feel better about what’s currently happening in your life.

Leo Horoscope

(Jul 23 – Aug 22)

You really want to hold up your end of the deal but the Cancer Full Moon in your 12th House of Secrets may have you struggling in ways that no one notices. You realize that there are things you can do to help others, but you’re already busy trying to fulfill your previous commitments. You can’t do everything, yet your high ideals make it difficult for you to let go. Nevertheless, everyone will appreciate it if you don’t promise more than you can deliver.

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Virgo Horoscope

(Aug 23 – Sep 22)

The nurturing Cancer Full Moon in your social 11th House encourages you to be a supportive part of a team. But this group orientation conflicts with your desire to take care of yourself first today. You intend to accomplish your goals in a very practical way until you realize that you might hurt someone else in the process of being selfish. Others will figure out what you are feeling because actions really do speak louder than words. Demonstrating your generosity of spirit is a good place to start.

Libra Horoscope

(Sep 23 – Oct 22)

It’s a real challenge to know what’s best, even if today’s issues seem vaguely familiar. You might not want to put up with the same level of job-related stress now that the evocative Full Moon is flooding your 10th House of Career. If you have been withholding your feelings, take a deep breath and release them out into the open. Just remember to be kind in your delivery process, even if you become engaged in a power struggle. Ultimately, others will appreciate you going out on a limb to clear the air.

Scorpio Horoscope

(Oct 23 – Nov 21)

The emotionally powerful Cancer Full Moon makes it difficult to walk away from a disagreement because it stimulates an internal frustration that just won’t go away. Just remember that endless fighting doesn’t lead to peace of mind. Instead, take your old wounds out of the picture and examine the situation from a fresh perspective. If you can find meaning in the midst of the current chaos, then everyone emerges as a winner.

Sagittarius Horoscope

(Nov 22 – Dec 21)

You might not run from your feelings as fast as usual today, even if you wish an unpleasant situation would just go away. However, your current intensity prevents you from just dropping an issue that’s important to you. Although rational Saturn helps you create realistic expectations now, the protective Cancer Full Moon floods your 8th House of Deep Sharing, cautioning you to hold back. Practicing patience and proceeding with determination prevents encountering disappointment in the days ahead.

Capricorn Horoscope

(Dec 22 – Jan 19)

Your sense of reality may be tested now as you confront one of your most basic fears. The needy Cancer Full Moon stimulates your 7th House of Others, raising concerns that a relationship will pull you into unknown emotional territory. More than anything today, you don’t want to fall victim to troublesome irrationality as you attempt to stay on the safe path of logic. However, it’s crucial to balance the objective and subjective realms in order to have a healthy perspective.

Aquarius Horoscope

(Jan 20 – Feb 18)

You may not be so self-assured today because the moody Cancer Full Moon lands in your 6th House of Employment, filling you with uncertainty about your job. Keeping your emotions to yourself could leave others wondering why you are more distant now. You might not want to tell them what’s going on, even if they ask. Temporarily shifting your attention away from your feelings is a good idea, for it will be easier to express them in a day or two. Focus on the needs of those you love as you wait for your heart to sort itself out.

Pisces Horoscope

(Feb 19 – Mar 20)

The nurturing Cancer Full Moon lights up your 5th House of Romance and Creativity today, helping you feel more positive even if you are a bit overwhelmed. You may grow concerned if the uncontrollable swirl of complex emotions is moving too quickly. However, these are well-traveled waters for you Fish and it helps to remind yourself that you are totally safe. The sooner you recognize your own feelings, the sooner you can re-establish your center.

Daily Horoscopes for Wednesday, December 26th

Although we might try to keep the energy light and easy, the breezy Gemini Moon is no match for the solid sextile between heavyweights Saturn and Pluto today. On one hand, we want to hold on to the holiday spirit in anticipation of the New Year; on the other hand, we’re sobered by real issues that seem to permeate our lives. Instead of being annoyed by the divergent cosmic messages, it’s wiser to practice moving back and forth between them.

Aries Horoscope

(Mar 21 – Apr 19)

You may initiate action so quickly today that you don’t even process your feelings. By the time your emotions have worked their way up into awareness, you have already moved on to the next wonderful thing. Instead of jumping from one experience to another, take extra time now to tune in to your heart. Although the message you receive could be inconvenient, it might just inform you of something important that you need to know.

Taurus Horoscope

(Apr 20 – May 20)

You may be a bit detached from your actions today, especially if something you must do doesn’t feel right. However, there’s really no need to be afraid of expressing your desires, even if they differ from other people’s expectations. But don’t assume that you will get what you need just by asking. Avoid disappointment by visualizing a variety of outcomes and finding satisfaction with whatever happens.

Gemini Horoscope

(May 21 – Jun 20)

Something strange occurs today that may catch you completely off guard. The wordy Gemini Moon prompts casual conversation while you avoid what’s really on your mind. However, if your dreams are out of touch with reality, others will likely see through your facade. Unfortunately, you can’t pretend that you’re OK when everyone seems to know more about you than you know about yourself. Shift your focus inward and consider how you can modify your goals to make them more attainable.

Cancer Horoscope

(Jun 21 – Jul 22)

It’s relatively easy to bury your feelings, especially if they don’t fit in with everything else that’s going on in your life. Thankfully, you have an opportunity to bring these emotions out into the open, no matter how much you usually protect your heart. Have faith in yourself and trust that others will honor what you have to say. But keep in mind that you have to do your part by speaking the truth.

Leo Horoscope

(Jul 23 – Aug 22)

Your anger feels uncomfortable as it lurks just beneath the surface, waiting for something to trigger it. Your emotions are like a radio station that creates a broadcast signal, yet you can’t hear the song it’s playing. Nevertheless, you know that a significant message is being communicated and you believe the voices are talking directly to you. Don’t worry about the exact words, for they don’t really matter. Release any negativity and let your intuition take charge.

Virgo Horoscope

(Aug 23 – Sep 22)

You are eager to consider what your friends need today, as if you can empathetically sense what they are feeling. However, the dilemma is that you might not want to tend to others, for you are on your own path — leaving little room to give anyone else what he or she wants. Think about the consequences of your actions before you refuse because there are more reasons to negotiate than you realize at this time.

Libra Horoscope

(Sep 23 – Oct 22)

Even with the current conflict between your head and your heart, you can still feel a deep sense of well-being that is most welcome in your life now. It really doesn’t matter what you should be doing today; self-indulgence might win out over your obligations in the end. So, why bother fighting the inevitable? Go ahead and make time to play since life is too short not to enjoy it.

Scorpio Horoscope

(Oct 23 – Nov 21)

Take some time away from your personal responsibilities to think about what you want and what you’re willing to do in order to get it. Fortunately, you’ll experience even more pleasure pursuing your goals now. But it’s tricky to see clearly when strong passions motivate your actions. Thankfully, the overall intensity in your life is settling back down. Wait a while longer and you’ll have a much clearer sense of how everything plays out in the long run.

Sagittarius Horoscope

(Nov 22 – Dec 21)

Your superhero powers are fully engaged this week as you attempt to express your needs. But it may be inappropriate to just put your feelings out there for all to see. It’s more important to find an acceptable way to get the energy moving. Don’t worry now if you can’t figure out what the future holds. Simply, let your highest ideals guide you through the process. Ultimately, honoring your integrity has the greatest positive impact on your happiness.

Capricorn Horoscope

(Dec 22 – Jan 19)

You’re mentally alert and crackling like a live electrical wire today. You could even try your hand at expressing yourself poetically now, yet your efforts might fall apart as soon as you attempt to be logical. Nevertheless, it’s still a wise idea to forget about the details for a while. Instead, be as creative as possible and fill in the rest of the story later on.

Aquarius Horoscope

(Jan 20 – Feb 18)

Unexpected changes continue to unfold as you attempt to integrate them into the basic structure of your life. Thankfully, you may be offered a second chance today to break out of a restrictive situation. Even if this opportunity stirs up stress, act right away and deal with the consequences later. But don’t try to sidestep the truth; being honest really is the best policy.

Pisces Horoscope

(Feb 19 – Mar 20)

Make the most of your current energy buzz while it lasts; just don’t assume you can have whatever you want. Your physical needs may be intense now, and you might be tempted to do something that you later regret. Remember that the fleeting enjoyment you receive from short-term pleasures will fade, but visualizing your long-term goals could be enough to pull you through with flying colors.

Your Daily Horoscopes for Tuesday, December 25th

General Horoscope

Spirits are high today and excitement permeates our lives, but plans may be turned upside down as the Sun dynamically squares wild Uranus. The Moon’s entry into whimsical Gemini at 2:13 am EST adds another layer of unpredictability to the current circumstances while energetic Mars’ shift into intellectual Aquarius further stimulates our nervous systems. We’re tempted to try risky solutions when more conventional ones might work just fine.

Aries Horoscope

(Mar 21 – Apr 19)

Common sense takes a back seat to enthusiasm because you want to let it all hang out. Oddly enough, exercising a little self-restraint can help you gain even more independence now that the willful Sun squares unconventional Uranus in your spontaneous sign today. Unfortunately, it may be easier to act first and then think through the consequences of your actions later. It won’t hurt to count slowly to ten before flying off the handle.

Taurus Horoscope

(Apr 20 – May 20)

You would like to demonstrate your dependability, but there could be a bit of a gambler in you now who wants to explore unusual possibilities. You are willing to go along with others, even if they encourage you to step out beyond your normal comfort zone. But it’s of no value trying to be more responsible than necessary today. Take a leap of faith; something wonderful might happen if you follow your heart

Gemini Horoscope

(May 21 – Jun 20)

Getting along with others may be more challenging now because you’re out to have a good time. Unfortunately, you could inadvertently offend an ally without even knowing what you did. Try not to overstep your bounds, even if someone eggs you on. Don’t get involved in an unimportant argument or you could end up regretting the whole thing. Your sense of urgency is not as real as it seems. Change the topic or just walk away for the sake of keeping peace.

Cancer Horoscope

(Jun 21 – Jul 22)

You have a strong need to partake in social festivities today, but too much irresponsible spontaneity could land you in big trouble. You’re better off tempering your crazy ideas by checking in with friends and family first. Even if you have your own agenda now, try to integrate your expectations with those who are part of your day. Everyone will benefit from your flexibility if you can compromise and still bring joy to the party.

Leo Horoscope

(Jul 23 – Aug 22)

You might think you know the best way to make things happen today, but being too rigid in your approach can precipitate an unpleasant conflict. Make sure that you’re being stubborn for the right reasons because your efforts could be thwarted if you’re on a power trip. Expressing your demands gently as preferences increases your chances of getting what you want.

Virgo Horoscope

(Aug 23 – Sep 22)

You want to be everything for everyone today, but spreading yourself too thin isn’t a smart strategy. You might become so overcommitted that you wish you could hide and just spend some time by yourself. If you discover an escape route, keep in mind that your solution won’t likely be a permanent one. Nevertheless, you still need to blow off some excess steam. Once you express your feelings, come back and join the festivities with a lighter heart.

Libra Horoscope

(Sep 23 – Oct 22)

Intense feelings continue to hold you in place today, even if you’re actively trying to change your day for the better. Your smartest strategy now is to keep reminding yourself of what’s most important. If you let your goals for the day become your guiding light, you’ll make the best choices. However, if you get sidetracked by negative emotions or unmet expectations, even the best intentions may still lead you astray. You cannot change everything in your environment, but you can choose how you respond to it.

Scorpio Horoscope

(Oct 23 – Nov 21)

The uncontrollable tides are swirling around you now, making it doubly important to maintain your emotional balance. If you are swept up in the moment, you might not be able to find a stable place to stand. Fortunately, someone close to you may unexpectedly come through, acting like the solid rock you seek. Let go of your fears and accept support when it is offered. Even temporary security can be the catalyst that allows you to completely relax and be yourself.

Sagittarius Horoscope

(Nov 22 – Dec 21)

You act as if you are having a wonderful time, but the truth is that your heart may not be in it today. You are projecting your optimism, yet you might feel detached from your friends and family. But instead of pushing your agenda forward, it’s more important now to pursue a spiritual solution to your dilemma. Your current happiness comes from letting your emotions flow and not from rationalizing everything in your head.

Capricorn Horoscope

(Dec 22 – Jan 19)

You can have all the thrills you want today and still fulfill your obligations to others. Nevertheless, your imagination might still stir up issues of low self-esteem, tricking you into thinking that you’re unprepared for what’s ahead. However, you’re probably in better shape than you realize. Keep your eyes on the big picture and let the details slip for now. Remain open to being surprised and kick up your heels while you can.

Aquarius Horoscope

(Jan 20 – Feb 18)

Adopting a grounded sense of your responsibilities at home and in the community today goes a long way toward stabilizing the rest of your life in the days ahead. Although you’re respected by your friends and family, you still must be practical to reap the rewards. Whatever distractions come your way now, lean on those you trust for the emotional support you need.

sces Horoscope

(Feb 19 – Mar 20)

You won’t be satisfied with anything less than a happy holiday today, but you don’t necessarily want to leave home to experience it. You may have a plan for creating lots of fun without needing to go to some exotic destination. Thankfully, your friends come to your rescue now, especially if they realize how important your dreams are to you. However, you must give up control and accept the gifts as they are offered, even if they differ from your initial expectations.

Today’s Magickal Spell for December 19th: Releasing Intense Emotions Spell

Releasing Intense Emotions Spell

Perform this easy spell to calm yourself when dealing with intense emotional family or other issues. By ridding yourself of this excess emotional energy, you will allow your mind and body to stay healthy during this stressful season.

Ingredients:  

a piece of unlined paper  

a pen  

a black candle  

a bowl of purified water  

sea salt

 

Spell:  

Light the candle. On the paper write down any fears, frustrations, or concerns   you may be feeling. Let the words come flowing from inside you, do not hold   back. If you feel like saying the words aloud as you write them do so. Once you are finished fold the paper up and burn it in the candle flame. After you   burn the paper, dip your fingers in the water and sprinkle yourself with it while saying:

“I release these words, I release this tension, I release this  

negativity from my life”

You’re done!

 

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Your Daily Horoscopes for Saturday, December 15th

We are motivated to finish our chores today with the Moon in ambitious Capricorn, yet her shift into futuristic Aquarius at 4:52 pm EST releases us from having to be so practical. We may still be feeling the intellectual buzz from yesterday’s innovative Mercury-Uranus trine, triggering impulsive outbursts even if we try to remain quiet. Unfortunately, suppression won’t work; it’s healthier to express our thoughts gradually throughout the day.

Aries Horoscope

(Mar 21 – Apr 19)

You may be feeling anxious today and ready to unload your building anger with just the slightest provocation. However, beneath the apparent aggression is an important message that could get lost in your intensity. Releasing the pent-up energy is a good idea. Just do it gracefully, so everyone can handle your unexpected emotional disclosure. Being bold and saying what’s on your mind might just lead to a brilliant breakthrough.

Taurus Horoscope

(Apr 20 – May 20)

You receive support from today’s pragmatic Capricorn Moon, but she still might challenge you to act sensibly. Keep your mind on business now, rather than getting lost in personal dramas that are beyond your control. Try not to let someone provoke you; steer clear of emotional conflicts that don’t concern you. This could turn out to be an exciting and productive day if you can simply concentrate on a positive message.

Gemini Horoscope

(May 21 – Jun 20)

Your clever tongue is especially sharp today, but you might be more inclined to take direct action instead of just talking about your intentions. If you’re in a rut, go ahead and create fireworks to change the mood. But once the light show is over, don’t return to the same old comfort zone. Instead, try new solutions that can set the tone for an exciting year ahead.

Cancer Horoscope

(Jun 21 – Jul 22)

Trusting your feelings is usually a sensible strategy, but now it’s a bit of a trickier process. Your emotions are operating at a higher frequency and you’re eager to spring into action. However, it may be too easy to get lured into a relationship drama that isn’t even yours — until you find yourself in the middle of a crisis. However, keeping your opinions to yourself today makes the day flow more smoothly. Minding your own business enables you to rise above the noise.

Leo Horoscope

(Jul 23 – Aug 22)

You may feel as if you’re being tested today as you attempt to do your job effectively. But even if you think you’re doing well, someone might not agree. It’s critical to listen to the feedback that others are giving you now. A situation could unravel quickly unless you tie up the loose ends. Take advantage of the present moment and be willing to compromise in order to move forward.

Virgo Horoscope

(Aug 23 – Sep 22)

You may be feeling down-to-earth, but your behavior reveals a less sensible side to your personality today. Unfortunately, you can be frustrated in your unsuccessful attempts to convey how well you could manage a rather sticky situation. Perhaps this is because others worry that your solution might not fix anything. Don’t be so sure of yourself that you miss what’s most important.

Libra Horoscope

(Sep 23 – Oct 22)

You are extremely busy this holiday season, and it won’t likely let up through the end of the year. Nevertheless, you still have pressing choices to make now, so don’t get completely sidetracked by the craziness, especially if you can avoid it. Keep your eyes on your goals and worry just a little less about everyone else. If you slip off track, just consciously refocus on your original plan.

Scorpio Horoscope

(Oct 23 – Nov 21)

The present situation seems familiar, but it’s highly possible that you only played through the scenario in your mind. Now it’s time to live it out in reality as the currents of change pick up speed. You could exhaust yourself trying to fight it, but it’s smarter to just go with the flow. Even if you’re not heading exactly where you want to go today, remember that the tides can reverse directions suddenly. Save your strength for later on when you’ll need it to reach your final destination.

Sagittarius Horoscope

(Nov 22 – Dec 21)

You’re ready to put your plans into action and probably feel confident that everything’s going to fall into place now. But instead of concentrating on reaching your goal, focus on your deepest core values that inspire you, instead. If you have too many things to do on your list, you might not know where to start. However, if you have your priorities in order, you can make decisions moment by moment and still accomplish what you set out to do.

Capricorn Horoscope

(Dec 22 – Jan 19)

You feel grounded with the evocative Moon still in your earthy sign, but there’s also a lingering anxiety that won’t let you relax as a complex situation grows even more complicated. Any negative energy you are withholding might erupt if you don’t vent it somehow. Take time to examine your buried feelings and then express them in a kind and loving manner. It may be stressful at first, but everyone will appreciate the chance to clear the air.

Aquarius Horoscope

(Jan 20 – Feb 18)

You can feel the excitement turn into tension today as the Moon moves into your high-strung sign. You want to be seen and heard now, and will work to overcome obstacles that stand in your way. But don’t do something rash unless you can rationalize it, because impulsive actions might create distracting situations. Sometimes it’s wise to just observe what’s happening without having to do anything about it.

Pisces Horoscope

(Feb 19 – Mar 20)

Although you may feel overwhelmed by the demands of life, it’s not just irrelevant noise that requires your attention today. You have obligations to fulfill and lessons to learn now from surrendering to the chaotic flow of events. Try slipping into the holiday spirit if you’re looking for ways to blow off some excess energy. However, don’t overdo it or you could sail by the treasure that’s right in front of you at this time.

Your Daily Horoscopes for Tuesday, December 11th

There is excitement in the air today, yet we might not know what to do with our enthusiasm. The more we try to share our optimism, the less clear our messages become as interactive Mercury forms a stressful square with surreal Neptune. Meanwhile, the Moon enters adventurous Sagittarius at 5:22 pm EST and joins Mercury to add emotional intensity to our words as we dream about distant goals, instead of focusing on what is right in front of us.

Aries Horoscope

(Mar 21 – Apr 19)

Although you’re very motivated now to charge ahead, it’s challenging to know what’s really going on around you. Don’t become distracted by the sideshows; although intriguing, they might draw your attention away from the real work at hand. Your words may touch others deeply today, so share a spirit of openness by talking about your heart’s desires. Your message can be inspiring, even if it’s not what someone expects to hear.

Taurus Horoscope

(Apr 20 – May 20)

Your thinking can land you in a heap of trouble today, unless you are clear about what you want. You might enjoy the mental exercise as your thoughts run around in circles like a hamster on a wheel. Unfortunately, your compulsive thinking could slip into unproductive fantasies, which may not be so bad, except that you have more important things to do now. Set your goals early in the day and be singularly focused as you head for your current destination.

Gemini Horoscope

(May 21 – Jun 20)

It is tempting to focus on external circumstances today because there are so many important interactions taking place. However, if you live only in the outer realms, you may find yourself in endless conversations that lead nowhere. On the other hand, you could discover an important truth that sheds clarity on a current relationship issue if you have the courage to look within. Remember the dance you do with anyone else is actually a reflection of your own issues.

Cancer Horoscope

(Jun 21 – Jul 22)

It is one thing to experience your feelings as strongly as you do. However, it’s an entirely different matter if you expect others to become as invested in your process as you are now. No matter how hard you try to keep an emotional discussion on a single track today, it will probably meander all over the place anyhow. You don’t always need to control the outcome and others don’t have to mirror your moods just to make you feel better. Exercising your subtle sense of humor is one way to lighten the energy for everyone involved.

Leo Horoscope

(Jul 23 – Aug 22)

No matter how intense a situation grows today, staying calm helps you successfully get through it. Someone may be playing power games and you might be in on the action now without even knowing it. Although you just continue to run on an energetic high, pushing your own needs ahead of the pack, you might be barking up the wrong tree. Whatever you think you see isn’t real; the ultimate meaning is in your heart and not in your head.

Virgo Horoscope

(Aug 23 – Sep 22)

Your key planet Mercury receives fuzzy signals from nebulous Neptune today, and your typically logical mind might lose track of your purpose. At worst, you may be distracted by unimportant events. At best, you’re eager to explore new meaning in your life that arises from your own personal mythic journey. Even if you are uncomfortable, keep in mind that the psychic nutrients being stirred now can nourish your soul.

Libra Horoscope

(Sep 23 – Oct 22)

You’re moving through a confusing intersection now as you’re driven by your own impractical desires. Although you may silently luxuriate in the sweet fruits of your fantasies, sharing them with others adds higher levels of enjoyment today. Don’t keep your thoughts secret since your enlightening dreams can also bring new awareness to your friends.

Scorpio Horoscope

(Oct 23 – Nov 21)

Your confidence continues to grow now because you can see the value you bring to the table. Since you’re often motivated by non-material goals, it’s challenging to appraise your real worth. Nevertheless, it’s also time to reap rewards from the seeds that you have sown. Don’t worry about the significance of what’s happening today; just gratefully accept the dividends with a receptive spirit and a humble heart.

Sagittarius Horoscope

(Nov 22 – Dec 21)

You might feel pressure to say what is true versus what is effective today. You could find yourself in a situation where you’re better off keeping your opinion to yourself. However, your words reveal what you’re thinking as soon as you open your mouth. Talk softly because you can come on so strong now that others miss your point. If you let your thoughts wander without purpose, they will probably get you into trouble. Listen more than you speak for the best results.

Capricorn Horoscope

(Dec 22 – Jan 19)

You need to take a leap of faith today. Even if the odds don’t seem to be in your favor, you still might have to jump. Thankfully, your chances for success are better than they appear, for you may be basing a negative assessment on your fears of the unknown. Let go of your expectations and concentrate on what you can learn from this challenging situation. Breaking through the rational restraints that normally limit your progress could turn out to be an exhilarating process.

Aquarius Horoscope

(Jan 20 – Feb 18)

A host of strange events is coming your way, yet your attachment to the possibility of what may happen could have you secretly smiling. Although you’ve embarked on your own private magical mystery tour, you might not want your friends to perceive just how weird you are now. Don’t waste energy hiding your true self from others. They probably already know about your eccentricities and accept you for the wonderful person you are.

Pisces Horoscope

(Feb 19 – Mar 20)

Although your imaginative thoughts could be too much to share with your boss today, your spiritual and emotional dimensions are opening wider than ever — and you’re enjoying the experience. Your intuitive radar is picking up faint signals from the cosmos, filling your world with vivid dreams. Even if someone misunderstands you, don’t waste time wondering what to do next. For now, just pay attention to the signs that appear and be receptive to the messages they bring.

Your Daily Horoscopes for Monday, December 10th

We want to put our feet back on the ground today, especially if last night’s dreams linger after we wake up. The Sun’s magical quintile to imaginative Neptune this morning tempts us to believe in our fantasies. But the intense Scorpio Moon has us seeking the truth, whatever the cost. Clever Mercury enters uplifting Sagittarius at 8:40 pm EST, giving us a second wind and encouraging us to begin something that we’ve put off throughout the day.

Aries Horoscope

(Mar 21 – Apr 19)

You might pursue the path that appears to engage less conflict, even if you’re willing to handle the intensity of your feelings. Although you are tempted to choose the easy way out, you probably won’t be able to enjoy yourself until you address an unresolved emotional issue. Just don’t expect an immediate solution; this one could take some patience and persistence to unravel.

Taurus Horoscope

(Apr 20 – May 20)

A coworker or friend may react strongly to your stubbornness today, but an unexpected confrontation might not make much of a difference. Keeping your emotional turmoil to yourself makes the situation easier to manage. However, floating through the day without getting involved won’t likely be an option. Stop fighting the inevitable; the sooner you face your own resistance and share what’s on your mind, the easier it will be for everyone to accept your truth.

Gemini Horoscope

(May 21 – Jun 20)

You don’t need to wait until the end of the year to make a resolution. In fact, an important decision today could set you on a positive course that significantly improves your lifestyle. But instead of dreaming about distant goals, pick something manageable you can do right now and then get started. Living in a healthier manner begins in the present moment.

Cancer Horoscope

(Jun 21 – Jul 22)

Your tenacity is one of your greatest strengths, so don’t be afraid to hold on to a feeling that’s important to you now. This need for emotional security can be the basis for enduring love, especially if you tend to worry about changes you cannot control. But don’t waste energy being too judgmental of your cautious nature; your persistence will bring success in due time.

Leo Horoscope

(Jul 23 – Aug 22)

If it feels like you’re running into an immovable wall of emotion, don’t think that you can crash your way through the resistance today. Navigating relationships isn’t about getting your way; it’s about recognizing someone else’s desire to participate in controlling the course of events. Instead of automatically fighting for something you don’t need, show your strength and just let it go. Think cooperation instead of competition.

Virgo Horoscope

(Aug 23 – Sep 22)

Your highly focused passion can be a real lifesaver today because you don’t have a lot of time to waste. You know exactly what you want and are ready to do whatever is necessary to get it. This no-nonsense approach may scare away others, but that’s not your main concern now. Your current primary directive is to stay true to yourself and follow your bliss.

Libra Horoscope

(Sep 23 – Oct 22)

You may feel as if you’re caught between your desire to be real now and your natural tendency to put others at ease. However, your emotions continue to deepen today, even if you try to gloss over any unexpressed negativity. A wave of enthusiasm later in the day can raise your hopes, but you’ll be happier in the long run if you are honest about your needs instead of attempting to please everyone else.

Scorpio Horoscope

(Oct 23 – Nov 21)

Be as natural as you can today, rather than trying to fit yourself into someone else’s expectations. With so many planets currently in your emotional sign, it’s crucial to express yourself as clearly as possible. If you worry about what others might think now, you could lose touch with your own integrity. Don’t forget that your guiding star shines from within.

Sagittarius Horoscope

(Nov 22 – Dec 21)

You may be on the edge of spiritual renewal as rational Mercury enters your philosophical sign today, followed by the Moon tomorrow. But this metaphysical reawakening doesn’t require you to go to church or practice specific rituals. Just acknowledge the magic of your inner world now. Take time for contemplation while you can since you might be pushed into the spotlight sooner than you think.

Capricorn Horoscope

(Dec 22 – Jan 19)

You may start off fairly certain about what’s happening, but grow less sure of yourself as the day continues. Even a little dance with doubt can make it progressively more difficult to separate your fantasies from your perceptions. Instead of announcing any significant decisions now, try to let the day slide by without changing your direction or surrendering your position. There’s no need to make a move until your clarity returns.

Aquarius Horoscope

(Jan 20 – Feb 18)

You should be able to maintain a clear perspective on your current reality now as long as you concentrate on outer events. It’s always wise to set goals and focus on accomplishing them. Unfortunately, it becomes more challenging to follow through on your projects if you start to daydream. Keep in mind that staying on track and getting things done today will give you more time to relax tomorrow.

Pisces Horoscope

(Feb 19 – Mar 20)

The thought of embarking on a trip is quite enticing now and you may be intent on finding a way to escape your responsibilities. However, you’re less concerned about actually going anywhere in the present moment; you are happy just planning for the future. Keep in mind that it’s not even necessary to follow through with your current dreams. The very act of imagining all the possible adventures today is like taking a mini-vacation in its own way.