This spell is particularly effective when the candle is burned in the presence of the target. (No need to explain why the candle is being burned, just have it blazing.)
Should someone resist your advances, write their name on a piece of brown paper.
Anoint it will a drop of Do As I Say Oil.
Carve a purple candle or a figure candle that represents the target of the spell, and then dress it with Do As I Say Oil.
Place the candle atop the paper and burn.