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When I have time (Oy), I will look up my ancestry. I really try to think about it, but my family has changed since my Dad Passed. May 5 , 2005 was the 11th anniversary of his death. I hardly hear from my sisters and my Mom anymore.
I am beginning to wonder if we are kinfolks, lol! My mother passed when I was very young. Then my dad remarried a *itch and all she married him for was his money. She threw me out of the house when I turned 18. After that my connection with my father was horrible. My sister was 22 years older than me. So it was like I was an only child. I didn’t have much contact with either of them. Something kept eating at me to go and make an attempt to see my father. I tried three times to see him and he was always gone. My stepmother told me she told him I was coming and he got up and left. Knowing her, she probably didn’t even tell him but instead sent him on an errand for her. But I tried and a month later he passed. Even though we weren’t on good terms, if I hadn’t tried, I would have blamed myself for the rest of my life. My sister knew she was dying for about six months, she had her mother-in-law call me about a week before she passed. Then her husband asked me at the funeral if we were having problems because she didn’t want me called till it was time for her to go. That cut like a knife. Family can be strange to deal with. I know how you feel and wish I had some advice to give you but I don’t. Just come to the realization that you haven’t done anything wrong and it is them. That is about all you can do, hun. I definitely feel for you.
Lady A
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When I have time (Oy), I will look up my ancestry. I really try to think about it, but my family has changed since my Dad Passed. May 5 , 2005 was the 11th anniversary of his death. I hardly hear from my sisters and my Mom anymore.
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I am beginning to wonder if we are kinfolks, lol! My mother passed when I was very young. Then my dad remarried a *itch and all she married him for was his money. She threw me out of the house when I turned 18. After that my connection with my father was horrible. My sister was 22 years older than me. So it was like I was an only child. I didn’t have much contact with either of them. Something kept eating at me to go and make an attempt to see my father. I tried three times to see him and he was always gone. My stepmother told me she told him I was coming and he got up and left. Knowing her, she probably didn’t even tell him but instead sent him on an errand for her. But I tried and a month later he passed. Even though we weren’t on good terms, if I hadn’t tried, I would have blamed myself for the rest of my life. My sister knew she was dying for about six months, she had her mother-in-law call me about a week before she passed. Then her husband asked me at the funeral if we were having problems because she didn’t want me called till it was time for her to go. That cut like a knife. Family can be strange to deal with. I know how you feel and wish I had some advice to give you but I don’t. Just come to the realization that you haven’t done anything wrong and it is them. That is about all you can do, hun. I definitely feel for you.
Lady A
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