The Witches Rune – The Rings

The Rings

Keywords: Love, relationships.

Meanings: The Rings is the rune of love and when it is the leading stone, it is a positive answer to your question. It is very much a rune of relationship and can indicate engagement, marriage or a new/renewed relationship. It can also indicate the need for a fresh approach to an existing relationship.

Your Daily Horoscopes for Friday, May 15th

 

 

Your Daily Horoscopes for Friday, May 15th

 

Aries 

Ideas can be especially powerful today, Aries, particularly related to creative projects, romance, and possibly children. You can feel a reinvigoration of motivation for pursuing certain projects, branching out, and expressing yourself creatively. This boosts your energy levels for taking on new challenges. Goals and dreams seem easier to reach with this new perception. Past negative, self-defeating attitudes can be left behind. You may be getting over an important “hump” psychologically, and there may be a breakthrough on a project this week. Enjoy the confidence boost!

Taurus

Particularly if you’ve handled recent slowdowns well, Taurus, this is a strong time for regaining momentum, especially related to a money or business matter. Even so, there is also good favor with you for real estate, family, and friendships. It’s a time for robust ideas that can serve you well for years to come if you follow through with them. There can be a breakthrough of sorts this week regarding a family matter, likely having to do with a friend’s recommendation or help. Your confidence will go a long way towards making things happen, so be sure to take the initiative and put your heart into a relationship or project now for best results.

Gemini

Your natural talents are on display today, Gemini. This is a hands-on time when you want to take action, and ideas are powerful, easy to access, and likely very successful. This is a good day for communications on the job or with the public. You have some rather magical qualities now, and you could be solving old problems or envisioning new horizons. There is a sense of being in tune, and you are feeling more confident than you have felt for a while. There can be new channels for expressing yourself or for satisfying your needs and wants now. Your approach is especially progressive.

Cancer

You are rebuilding confidence levels today, Cancer, particularly related to taking action on private or personal matters, or finishing up projects and things that you need to put behind you. Educational, travel, and financial problems can be released or resolved this week through new thinking and the action you take now. You are tuning in to your inner energy and courage, and you are especially interested in finding ways to heal, grow, and improve. Release of pent-up frustration and energy might be found through physical outlets. You can feel more vital and filled with spirit.

Leo

If you’re feeling at all stuck professionally or personally, Leo, look to friends, teams, groups, or networking for help getting doors to open for opportunities to advance your interests this week. Joining with others or pooling resources can indeed bring mutual benefits now. Enthusiasm for recent projects, and possibly life itself, is once again on the upswing after some possible stumbling blocks. Activities are increasing, and problem-solving skills are strong, but you also have some excellent ideas for future projects. There can be renewed confidence in life’s possibilities and future options.

Virgo

You can feel more on top of your work or in charge of your life now, Virgo. There can be fortunate turns in a partnership or the release of a burdensome problem now that has you feeling far freer and more powerful. You are less afraid of challenges and certainly ready to put in hard work. A situation that seemed impossible or too difficult can release itself this week, and this allows you greater freedom to pursue your interests. Those things or attitudes that kept you from taking important action are on their way out. The work you do now, particularly related to letting go of heavy karmic weight and getting your partnership situation smoothed out, will benefit you greatly when Jupiter transits your sign for over a year, beginning this August. You’ll want to have less emotional baggage for this fortunate influence.

Libra

Your energy and motivation levels are building, Libra, and you may be taking steps to improve your life through expanded knowledge, education, and experience. There can be a strong desire to implement a new health and wellness program that brings you more vitality and builds your spirit. Problems that you’ve been avoiding or areas in which you’ve been procrastinating don’t seem as daunting, and you could be taking big steps to get these things behind yo. It can be a good time for competing and for general success. You seem to have more initiative and natural courage today and this week.

Scorpio

This is a good time for acting on intuition, Scorpio, as you seem to sense the right next move. You are interested in making positive changes, and you instictively know that in order to do so, you need to switch up your methods. Fortunately, you’re quite unafraid of obstacles or challenges that previously seemed a little daunting, particularly related to relationships, career, major life plans, and creative projects. Enthusiasm for these things, and faith in yourself, are certainly building now. Ideas coming to you now are possibly quite marketable, so take note. If you need support, a loan, or other resources, this can be a good time for taking the necessary action.

Sagittarius 

Your ruler, Jupiter, is moving towards a very creative aspect with Chiron, dear Sagittarius, and today, Mars is involved, stirring up the desire for action. This might come through someone in your life as Mars is in your partnership sector, but whatever the motivation, you’re feeling inspired to grow, improve, and heal. You may find a solution to a problem related to travel or home life, educational plans, and finding a better balance between security and adventure. While you could easily feel that you are capable of taking on anything, and your energy levels increase with your motivation, try not to overdo things. Personal appeal is strong, and love relationships can be energized now.

Capricorn

This is a good day for bonding with a partner or for love in general, Capricorn. You are open to new ways of relating, and less likely to repeat the same overdone patterns. This is also a powerful time for finding productive solutions to work and health problems. Again, it’s about looking at things in new ways. There can be a breakthrough in research, conversations or news that stimulate original thinking, and a kind of fearlessness when it comes to tackling problem areas, both in relationships and on practical levels. You tend to ignore the more conservative side of your nature in favor of somewhat unorthodox methods. There can also be new hope for healing methods, and strong motivation to improve physically. You are naturally drawn to activities that make you feel good all over.

Aquarius

Motivation, particularly for a creative or pleasurable pursuit or a relationship, is improving and building today, Aquarius. In fact, you have a lot of courage to make positive changes and the talent to back it up. Creatively speaking, it’s a powerful time. You could also solve some relationship and financial problems today, largely due to a certain fearless confidence that may have been missing lately. You are drawn to things, situations, and people that/who make you feel good about yourself. You might even find a new outlet, game, or pastime that excites you or allows you the freedom to express yourself. People may be extra willing to back or support your efforts. Creative talents are on show now.

Pisces

This week is wonderful for feeling that you’re growing and gaining wisdom, Pisces, and today, you could have the courage to handle problems that you previously felt stumped by. This can be a good time for handling a health matter or for making lifestyle changes, and it’s also powerful for improving home and family life. There can be a sense that you’re recovering from recent challenges, and your spirit is stronger. You are far less concerned about outward “proof” of success and more fully in tune with what makes you happy regardless of what is expected of you. Inner healing and vitality are what count most to you at this time.

Your Love Horoscopes for the Week of May 11th

 

Your Weekly Love Horoscopes

May 11th, 2015

by Maria DeSimone

Are you ready for some high quality cerebral stimulation? Well, ready or not, here it comes! On Monday, Mars will enter Gemini where he remains until June 24. During these next few weeks the fastest way to turn you on will be through your MIND. That’s right, intellectual attraction will be of prime importance, so if your lover can’t keep your interest during a conversation, the last place you’ll want to be with him or her is in the bedroom. Then on Saturday, love planet Venus will be at a gorgeous angle to Neptune. This is a five star day for romance — one where you’ll be certain that fairy-tales do come true. Enjoy your happy ending!

 

Aries Horoscope
Aries Horoscope (Mar 21 – Apr 19)

You might feel an undeniable attraction to one of your neighbors. He or she might have only recently moved into your neighborhood and if so, you’ll have the perfect excuse to introduce yourself as the welcoming committee. Go ahead — there’s every indication that you’ll end up talking for hours. If you’re in a relationship, then you and your sweetie can expect an extra sweet day together on Saturday. You might do nothing special, but it won’t matter — you’ll feel especially spiritually connected.

 

Taurus Horoscope
Taurus Horoscope (Apr 20 – May 20)

A double date with one of your friends this week will go amazingly well. Or, if you are at a party or other social event, you could meet someone who literally puts you in a trance right from “Hello.” Venus, now in your message sector, will be at a gorgeous angle to dreamy Neptune on Saturday. This will affect all conversations with your lover in the most positive way — you’ll truly be on the same wavelength. A spiritual and mental connection — what more could you ask for?

 

Gemini Horoscope
Gemini Horoscope (May 21 – Jun 20)

Congratulations — you just became the sexiest sign in the zodiac! Mars, the planet of motivation and libido, will enter Gemini on Monday and remains in your sign until June 24. During this time, you’ll have an exceptional level of stamina and courage to go after anything you want. You won’t take “no” for an answer, and this will help you succeed wildly. Although you might feel a bit of opposition from your partner on Friday as you start something new, don’t be deterred … you’ve got this.

 

Cancer Horoscope
Cancer Horoscope (June 21 – Jul 22)

Don’t be too hard on yourself if you feel as though you’ve lost your sex drive. You might need to spend more time taking care of your emotional or physical health in order to get your sexy back. Consider that a low libido is often a symptom of something else that’s going on. It may be hormonal but it could just as easily be emotional. Talk to your doctor and figure out options together. After June 24, you’ll be raring to go again!

 

Leo Horoscope
Leo Horoscope (Jul 23 – Aug 22)

If you’re considering a “friends with benefits” situation, you might want to wait another couple of weeks before initiating it. Overall, with Mars moving into your friendship sector, there is a good indication that you and a pal will share extraordinary mutual chemistry. The problem however, is that on Friday, Mars will oppose Saturn and there will be circumstances beyond your control that may put the kibosh on any plans for a good time. Hang in there!

 

Virgo Horoscope
Virgo Horoscope (Aug 23 – Sep 22)

This weekend you will have serious romantic potential. Make plans as early as possible to enjoy a dreamy date night on Saturday with your mate. Attend a movie, art show or concert. Or, do something that arouses your spiritual and compassionate side together, such as attending a charitable event. There will be a feeling of unity that is simply unbreakable between the two of you. Together, you’ll be the personification of unconditional love.

 

Libra Horoscope
Libra Horoscope (Sep 23 – Oct 22)

Overall, this might be an uneventful week when it comes to romantic potential. You’ll derive much more pleasure if you focus on career prospects. That’s because a professional dream can materialize, much to your delight. If, however, your sweetheart is connected to your work, then you can expect matters of the heart to have more of a presence. In this instance, your soul mate will add incredible support as you pursue your aspiration.

 

Scorpio Horoscope
Scorpio Horoscope (Oct 23 – Nov 21)

Your erotic side will become even stronger than it usually is. The difference, however, is that you won’t be so caught up in keeping this part of you under wraps. In fact, until June 24, it will become a priority to get your relationship needs met — both physical and psychological. In other news, you might have a financial standoff with your partner on Friday, but things will get resolved by Saturday. You’ll be sure by then that love can conquer all.

 

Sagittarius Horoscope
Sagittarius Horoscope (Nov 22 – Dec 21)

You might become more argumentative with your partner than usual. In fact, there could be an ugly standoff between the two of you on Friday that results in a frustrated impasse. Your partner might react in a fiery way at your attempt to control a situation. In your eyes, you’re simply trying to contain things and make a plan, but in your partner’s eyes, you’re bursting his or her bubble. Talk it out.

 

Capricorn Horoscope
Capricorn Horoscope (Dec 22 – Jan 19)

You might be on a relationship high this weekend — and you should be. On Saturday, Venus, now in your relationship sector, will be at a perfect angle to Neptune, now in your 3rd House of Communication. A conversation with your partner about your dreams can make you feel extra hopeful about their coming true. That’s because your mate will make it clear that no matter what, he or she has your back. Yes!

 

Aquarius Horoscope
Aquarius Horoscope (Jan 20 – Feb 18)

You’re about to become too hot to handle! On Monday, sexy Mars will enter your 5th House of Romance and Pleasure, where he’ll remain until June 24. During this once-in-two-year transit, you can expect to have more fun than you have in quite some time. You’ll prioritize sexual delights and might enjoy physical escapades to the hilt. The only exception to this will be on Friday, when a friend may try to sabotage your plans. He or she might be jealous.

 

Pisces Horoscope
Pisces Horoscope (Feb 19 – Mar 20)

You have every indication of a glittering romantic weekend, but first you may have to contend with a frustrating situation at home. You may become caught up in a fight between relatives and if so, you won’t enjoy being in the middle. Do your best to either remain neutral or help your family hash it out so everyone can clear the air and move on. By Saturday, it’s all about love and you don’t want anything to get in the way of your fairytale happy ending.

May 2015 Astro-Energy Report

May 2015 Astro-Energy Report

a message from Sarah Varcas

To read more of Sarah’s insight, please visit her site, Awakenings, Intuitive Astrology for Heart & Soul

 

Honesty is the Best Policy

May 2015 raises the issue of relationship: with ourselves, each other and our environment both near and far. We simply cannot go it alone, is the basic message of this month, nor can we expect others to do it for us. It is time to take full responsibility for ourselves whilst simultaneously recognising that we do nothing in isolation. Every thought, word and deed impacts and is impacted by everyone and everything around us. We act both as individuals and as a collective, standing alone and forever entwined. Within this central paradox of the human condition is found the mystery of the divine which expresses itself through us, as us and aside from us. Recognising ourselves as both instruments of creation and creators in our own right is necessary now, for we must, in coming months, be clear in our actions, knowing what is needed to further the common good rather than focusing only on what serves our personal gain. The two cannot be separated now, for if personal gain contravenes the common good we will reap only isolation. And if the common good appears as an obstacle to personal gain a realignment of priorities may be required.

The coming month brings a gradual shift in energy from the earthy physicality of April to a more changeable, cerebral energy as first Mercury (1st May), then Mars (12th May), then the Sun (21st May) enter airy Gemini. This contact-driven sign which seeks to communicate and connect, rarely settling anywhere for too long before attention is drawn to the next thing, reminds us to look up and around, to interact with those people, places and possibilities that co-exist all around us. The web of connectivity which binds us to each other and all beings, is as if illuminated now like never before. It needs our awareness and consideration: a wakeful response to the unavoidable truth that we are, indeed, one.

Whilst April saw us learning to live with an unknown future, in May we begin to seek answers and forge some plans. There is movement afoot and progress. The key issue, however, remains the direction and nature of progress made. ‘Don’t jump the gun’ is still good advice despite the gathering of planets in flexible Gemini. It is important to honour process now, not side-step it to more quickly reach our desired destination. We will get to where we’re going when we get there and we may not find out where it is until we do. In the meantime, May offers insight which will help optimise choices to be made in the coming months.

A Full Moon in Scorpio on 4th May demands much but offers more. It reminds us that what we refuse to acknowledge in ourselves does not fade away but instead seeps out here and there. The human psyche may be adept at avoidance when necessary, but we do not simply eradicate something from our energy field purely by wishing it away. Only by facing who and what we are can we change. We cannot complete a puzzle without looking at it, nor can we recreate ourselves without knowing the raw materials available for the task. This Moon shines her light on the darkest places within, reminding us that what we find in the shadows deserves our love and attention as much as anything we wilfully bring into the light. Revelations around the time of this Moon will inform the rest of the month, for what we see now is truth. It may not be palatable but we must acknowledge it nonetheless, refusing to turn away. In it are revealed the components for the next phase of our journey. Not nice and shiny newly polished personality parts that we happily place on display, but the tarnished, blackened artefacts we prefer to overlook or at least set aside for another day. That other day is now. Our future creativity relies upon our willingness to unleash the shadow and allow it expression in the light of awareness. This is how we truly come to know ourselves as whole.

Being whole, complete, integrated is a significant theme this month. It is not that we must be it, but that we must commit to the process of becoming it. This is something altogether different! It takes time and sometimes trouble, a willingness to be honest and open, vulnerable. A commitment to wholeness is a commitment to being unpopular at times, sometimes out of step, often challenged and challenging. It is not an easy ride but it is a liberating one and May places fuel in our spiritual tanks for the journey ahead. We may encounter a number of challenges, even crises, this month. Each, when lived fully with as much awareness as possible, has the capacity to take us ever deeper into the sacred space within, where dwells all the wisdom we could ever need. Each moment of this month is geared to bringing out of us what we already know, what already lives, hidden but vibrant, inside.

We may find ourselves covering familiar ground, encountering patterns we thought were left behind. But there’s no need for alarm. We haven’t slipped back into old ways and out of new possibilities. Instead we can demonstrate our willingness to change by responding to familiar dynamics in wholly new ways. There is something of an experimental air about this process, an opportunity to ‘act as if’ and see what happens. If you encounter old problems, familiar feelings, that same old argument with the same old person or a recurring obstacle you just can’t seem to surmount, resolve to try a different response, adopt a different attitude. If you always did ‘X’ try ‘Y’ for a change. Dare to be different, to stray from the script, ad lib for a while and see what happens. So little is set in stone right now that it would be a waste to stick with tried and tested methods, especially when they have gotten us nowhere fast before! Only by daring to be someone we haven’t yet been can we discover the full range of options available to us. Only in trying out the new can we discover what truly makes our heart sing in resonance and our spirit rise up to cry freedom.

From 10th May to the month end Asteroid Juno is conjunct Jupiter. In myth Juno and Jupiter were husband and wife, so this astrological alignment once again raises the issue of relationship and the spectre of the sacred marriage within and without. Juno speaks of commitment which endures and those areas of life in which a long term perspective is of most value. For some it may not be a love relationship but instead a dedication to work or family. There may be a cause that consumes us or a deep desire whose fulfilment has become the purpose of our life. In our hearts we each know where Juno calls us into long term commitment and why. We may resist at times, preferring a shorter and more expedient route, but she forever reminds us that some of the best results mature over time and develop in layers. They simply cannot be spun out of thin air on a whim and a prayer, for the process is as important as the outcome. In her conjunction with Jupiter, Juno invites reflection on where and why we commit. What do we seek by doing so and whose purpose do we serve? An alignment with Pluto in Capricorn reminds us that the most powerful commitments are those in which we are prepared to offer ourselves up to the process rather than seek the outcome, allowing the fusion of our energy with that of another person, place or cause, to work its magic deep within us.

Likewise, if we harbour misplaced commitments some cutting of ties may be necessary. Time and energy are too precious to waste in places parched of life-giving spirit. We are all called, this month, to cast-aside rose-tinted glasses and take a long, hard look at where we expend our energy and why. Doing so now will give us a head start when Saturn begins to square Neptune later this year and illusions without substance dissolve like melting snow. A New Moon in Taurus on 18th May offers pragmatism together with intuitive knowing about where true soul connections are found. It is these we must nurture in the coming months as we approach the Saturn/Neptune alignment which will take us through 2016. We are currently choosing our teams and finding our tribe. They may not turn out to be who we anticipated but as we’ve already seen, this is a time of doing things differently, not repeating old patterns whilst hoping for new results. The future is still unformed and up for grabs. We are creating it here and now as we speak, think, act and feel. This month we can reflect on who we want beside us in this next creative phase.

Mercury turns retrograde in Gemini on 19th May (until 11th June), supporting just such reflection. Rather than disrupting communication this Mercury enhances it if we truly seek for honest exchange rather than surface platitudes. It shows us where we align with others and where our paths diverge; where we need the lightest touch, moving on without so much as a backward glance, and where we need to connect and engage to establish deeper intimacy. If we find ourselves frustrated by communication breakdown or growing inter-personal distance, it may well be that the distance was always there but is simply more obvious now and can no longer be ignored.

Once the Sun enters Gemini on 21st May we can better access the flexibility needed to rapidly assess the world around us and make the best decisions accordingly. A square between Neptune and Mars from 21st to the month end, incorporating Mercury from 26th, requires careful handling. Honesty is called for, especially the risky kind. Whatever we try to hide or deny at this point will make itself doubly felt in a month’s time when Mercury travels direct across the same zodiac degrees. Far better that we deal with things now, no matter how difficult it may seem. Honesty is most definitely the best policy as May comes to an end, which is especially worth bearing in mind if it is someone else’s honesty we would rather avoid! Thoughts and feelings shared authentically now, even if tough to hear, lay the groundwork for deeper intimacy in due course. If there is much to be aired at this point it is because much has been avoided previously. How we proceed from here, especially in our most significant relationships, rests upon how well we embrace the current challenge to be straight, honest and true in all that we say and all that we do.

Honesty sounds simple but can be incredibly hard at times! We barely notice the petty deceptions and denials of our everyday consciousness, so familiar we become with their presence. But as May comes to a close they will become increasingly evident, as will the consequences of allowing them free reign. It is time to take ourselves in hand, express what we think, how we feel and invite others to do the same. If we can all do this with the courageous compassion fitting of a spiritual warrior who pursues deep truth above all else, we can emerge victorious together, honouring the priceless value of both sharing and receiving truth with an open heart and an expansive mind. Your truth, my truth, personal and ultimate truth. All need to be aired. In doing so we meet ourselves and each other, deepen our connections and foster the trust and intimacy necessary for the road ahead.

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Your Love Horoscopes for the Week of May 19th

Ahhh, this is the moment you’ve all been waiting for! On Monday, Mars will turn direct after traveling retrograde in partnership-oriented Libra since March 1. This has been a frustrating time for many of you because the energy to push ahead with dynamism in any relationship matter has simply not been available. Now, it’s time to take whatever it is you’ve re-evaluated in matters of the heart and put it into action. Plus, your libido will receive a most welcome jump start! On Tuesday, the Sun enters Gemini, shining a light on communication matters and intellectual stimulation as a prerequisite to physical stimulation. Then, on Saturday, Jupiter and Saturn connect in a way that promotes emotional fulfillment and stability.

 

Aries Horoscope
Aries Horoscope (Mar 21 – Apr 19)

You may begin to feel as if you’re gaining solid footing again in a partnership matter. The power to assert what you want in relationship or to even put up a fight about anything hasn’t been strong for you. Most likely, there has been any pent up resentment or “beating around the bush” when it comes to a sore spot in your love connection. Starting this week, however, you should be able to use a more direct approach with your mate to figure things out.

Taurus Horoscope
Taurus Horoscope (Apr 20 – May 20)

Communication with your partner will go exceptionally well this week. If there’s a long-term decision you need to make with your love, aim for as close to Saturday as possible to finalize your agreement or to sign a contract. Whatever it is you’re discussing, it’ll be clear that you both have each other’s best interests in mind. A conversation filled with emotional depth is likely. Don’t worry — it’s all good!

 

Gemini Horoscope
Gemini Horoscope (May 21 – Jun 20)

You might have been asleep at the wheel since March 1 when it comes to your love and sex life. The trouble is, no matter how much you may have wanted to direct your energy toward giving love and pleasure, it seems you experienced a frustrating block. Your love life might have suffered if your sweetheart perceived this as personal rejection. Now, you’ll be able to make things right. If single, there’s also good news: You’re back in the game!

 

Cancer Horoscope
Cancer Horoscope (June 21 – Jul 22)

If you’re dating someone, it looks like your love connection is heading toward a more substantial place. By Saturday, you and your lover may decide to go exclusive, or you might simply realize that your heart is full enough of love to know that you’re in it for the long haul. If married, you’ll notice a lot of noise on the home front this week. You and your mate need to clear the air about this domestic dispute once and for all.

 

Leo Horoscope
Leo Horoscope (Jul 23 – Aug 22)

After Monday, you might feel like you’ve got the courage to bring up that conversation you know you need to have with your partner. The last few weeks have been tricky in this regard because you may have felt as if you’ve lost your communication nerve altogether. Thankfully, now this problem will begin to disappear and the world — including your lover — will be able to hear your roar once more.

 

Virgo Horoscope
Virgo Horoscope (Aug 23 – Sep 22)

The confidence to display your natural talents out to others will return this week, allowing you to feel as if you can show someone you love just how much you have to offer. In addition, if single, plan on attending a group event on Saturday. A club or organization you belong to or have been invited to speak at may provide the perfect setting to meet someone special.

 

Libra Horoscope
Libra Horoscope (Sep 23 – Oct 22)

If you’ve felt as if all the energy has been sucked right out of you over the last few weeks, you weren’t imagining things. Mars, the planet of motivation, has been traveling retrograde in your sign since March 1. The effects on your personal vitality might have been quite draining, leaving little to no stamina to pursue your passion. Luckily, on Monday, Mars will turn direct once more, allowing you to seize the moment in love and any other area of your life.

 

Scorpio Horoscope
Scorpio Horoscope (Oct 23 – Nov 21)

You’ll feel extra motivated this week to head towards intimate territory with your mate. There might be a secret you’ve kept from your partner that you decide to reveal this week. Although this isn’t likely to be anything that would hurt your lover, it’s something you have had a difficult time reconciling. As a result, your approach has been to sweep it under the rug. Now, you may finally realize that by sharing this with your sweetheart you might actually free yourself of it once and for all. It will.

 

Sagittarius Horoscope
Sagittarius Horoscope (Nov 22 – Dec 21)

You might be overly eager to share the most intimate personal details about yourself this week with a new lover. Remember that intimacy is meant to unfold slowly, over time, after both of you have had a chance to feel comfortable. Instead of drawing your new sweetheart closer to you with these “true confessions,” you might actually push him or her farther away. Allow love to bloom naturally, you’ll cherish it more.

 

Capricorn Horoscope
Capricorn Horoscope (Dec 22 – Jan 19)

While you may focus more on career this week than matters of the heart, there is still room for you to carve out some quality time with your mate. On Saturday, you and your partner might attend a party or other social event with mutual friends and find that the time out on the town does wonders for your relationship. There is definitely potential these days for you and your partner to expand what is good between you. Take advantage of it.

 

Aquarius Horoscope
Aquarius Horoscope (Jan 20 – Feb 18)

After Tuesday you’ll have a significant focus on romance and pleasure. Wherever the Sun is traveling in your chart will indicate where you’re shining a light for that particular month. This week the Sun enters your true love sector, allowing you to make all the time in the world for dating pleasures. Even if you’re attached you’ll find a way to renew the sparks between you and your mate. Enjoy!

 

Pisces Horoscope
Pisces Horoscope (Feb 19 – Mar 20)

On Monday, Mars will turn direct in the area of your chart that rules shared resources. What you’ll notice immediately is that your motivation to pursue financial growth with your mate will increase — and so will your drive to achieve physical intimacy. If newly dating, on Saturday you might decide to expand your horizons with your lover by attending a spiritual workshop or making travel plans together. If single, you could meet someone who is from a background quite different than yours.

Your Love Horoscopes for the Week of May 12

Your love life certainly won’t be boring this week. On Sunday, Venus will oppose Mars, still traveling retrograde in partnership-oriented Libra. This will make it difficult, if not outright impossible, to get what you want in love or from a lover. Compromise doesn’t seem to be a word in either one of your vocabularies. The result? Frustration! Then, on Wednesday, Venus squares off with Pluto, promising angst and power struggles. You might fight for the upper hand in your relationship, but tactics that involve manipulation or coercion will only cause more trouble. The good news is that on Thursday you might make a sudden change altogether when it comes to love. Venus and Uranus will connect in fiery Aries. You’ll feel motivated to try something new in your love life. This might be the breath of fresh air you both need!
Aries Horoscope
Aries Horoscope (Mar 21 – Apr 19)

No matter how hard you try, it appears your love life will be filled with frustration this week. You might feel increasing disappointment in the state of your relationship, and yet you may have no idea how to make things right. It appears that the more you attempt to wield control over your lover, the more he or she pushes you away. Allow this to be a sign. Maybe you just need to let go.

Taurus Horoscope
Taurus Horoscope (Apr 20 – May 20)

If you’ve been caught up in a secret office romance lately, things might take an ugly turn this week. You might learn that a coworker has discovered the affair and attempts to manipulate you or your lover. It appears that he or she has deemed your relationship against office policy, and threatens to cause trouble by raising ethical considerations to higher ups. The interesting twist is that this person might actually have a crush on either you or your sweetheart and is simply acting out of jealousy. If married, an emotional turning point is likely.

Gemini Horoscope
Gemini Horoscope (May 21 – Jun 20)

Mounting sexual frustration between you and your lover might reach a pinnacle. You might consider ending the relationship altogether, because it appears neither one of you can figure out how to work this out. If you love each other enough, however, there is hope. Consider enlisting the help of a qualified sex therapist and attend couples counseling. Another possibility is that you’ve been trying in vain to have a child. Again, seek the counsel of an expert. A breakthrough is possible.

Cancer Horoscope
Cancer Horoscope (June 21 – Jul 22)

Your career pursuits might be taking your attention away from romance. On Wednesday, however, your partner might give you an ultimatum and force you to prioritize things. How important is your relationship? If you value it as much as your career, then it’s time to make a change. It won’t be easy, but it’s not impossible. Consider a discreet conversation with your boss on Thursday. Ask him or her for a couple of personal days and surprise your partner. You can use the time together.

Leo Horoscope
Leo Horoscope (Jul 23 – Aug 22)

You might not have an easy time communicating about private matters on Sunday. Keep important conversations with your lover on hold until Monday or Thursday, when there’s more cosmic support in this area for you. In addition, if you hope to initiate dialogue with a new acquaintance or a friend you have romantic interest in, wait until Thursday. You’re more likely to discover that the feeling is mutual.

Virgo Horoscope
Virgo Horoscope (Aug 23 – Sep 22)

Love, sex, money and power are major themes for you this week. However, none of these areas are likely to be comfortable. If attached, on Sunday you and your partner might be at odds when it comes to how you’d like to handle shared resources. Then, on Wednesday, you and a new sweetheart might wonder if you’re ready to become intimate on both a physical and emotional level. While you crave the connection, something about the timing may be off. On Thursday, you might discover an unexpected reason for why it’s worth the wait.

Libra Horoscope
Libra Horoscope (Sep 23 – Oct 22)

You’re not exactly cruising on easy street these days when it comes to relationships. Unfortunately, this week it appears it’s more of the same. On Sunday, you and your partner might reach an impasse over a situation that makes you wonder if it’s even possible to make one another happy any longer. On Wednesday, a domestic dispute between you and your mate is a lose/lose situation for everyone. On Thursday, however, there’s one glimmer of hope: You’re willing to give each other a bit of breathing room to figure things out. Hang in there!

Scorpio Horoscope
Scorpio Horoscope (Oct 23 – Nov 21)

There might be extra confusion early in the week if you try to talk to a lover about an intimate matter. You might even discover that your sweetheart is withholding information, and if so this will puzzle you even more. Before you jump to conclusions about any possible betrayal, however, realize that he or she might be doing this more out of self-protection. Revealing oneself is never easy. Allow your love to do so in his or her time.

Sagittarius Horoscope
Sagittarius Horoscope (Nov 22 – Dec 21)

Love might not come easy these days. It seems as if there’s a price to pay — and you might not like it. On Sunday, you and your sweetie might argue about how to spend your social time together. Then, on Wednesday, the phrase “love don’t cost a thing” doesn’t appear to ring true for you. You might be paying a lot more than you bargained for to be in this current relationship. Whether the currency is money or otherwise, ask yourself: Is he or she really worth it?

Capricorn Horoscope
Capricorn Horoscope (Dec 22 – Jan 19)

A revelation about your social life might lead you to make necessary changes that will help improve it. If single, this might be the key to meeting new people. Perhaps you’re spending too much time in the company of folks with a sober, pessimistic attitude. This grim social scene might be killing any potential for you to find someone appropriate to date. Change may not be easy, but one thing is certain: Love will not flourish in a suffocating environment. Change your atmosphere and open up romantic prospects.

Aquarius Horoscope
Aquarius Horoscope (Jan 20 – Feb 18)

You might put your foot in your mouth early this week when you talk to your lover. It seems like no matter what you say, your perspective won’t be appreciated. In fairness, the reverse will be true, as well, and this will make it nearly impossible to engage in productive dialogue with your partner. If there’s anything vital the two of you need to discuss, wait until Thursday, when the energy will be much kinder.

Pisces Horoscope
Pisces Horoscope (Feb 19 – Mar 20)

Your faith in your relationship might be tested if your lover reveals that he or she doesn’t agree with one of your most personal beliefs. Whether or not this is a deal-breaker can only be decided by you. Either way, this revelation will surely lead to a week of soul searching. By Thursday, communication will improve, and you might even reveal a sexy part of yourself to someone special that you previously kept to yourself.

Your Weekend Love Horoscopes For May 9 – 11

Weekend Love Horoscope

May 9-11: Star-Crossed Lovers

Maria DeSimoneMaria DeSimone on the topics of love, horoscopes, astrology

Friday evening’s discriminating Virgo Moon may put a damper on romance since you’ll focus more on the flaws circling around your relationship rather than the redeeming qualities. Unfortunately, when the Moon moves into partnership-oriented Libra by Saturday afternoon instead of getting better, it may actually get worse.

A harsh opposition between the Sun and Saturn will leave you feeling as if responsibilities take precedence over fun and may also have you dwelling on the not so pleasant attributes of your mate. Then, on Sunday love planet Venus will oppose Mars, still traveling retrograde in Libra. This set up, combined with the Libra Moon, will be frustrating! You want to pursue something exciting and new romantically but your lover isn’t playing the same game as you … or if he or she is the rules they’re playing by are completely different. You’ll both want a relationship and love but may go about it in totally different ways. The result? You’ll only be star-crossed lovers this weekend.

 

Your Love Horoscopes for the Week of May 5th

A sense of boundless optimism might permeate you and your partner near Tuesday, as the Sun makes a friendly sextile to expansive Jupiter. You might feel especially happy about domestic and real estate matters that connect to your relationship. On Wednesday, communication planet Mercury enters chatty Gemini, and you can expect conversations between you and your lover to be intellectually stimulating until May 29. Then, on Saturday, it’s time to get serious. The Sun will oppose Saturn taking the shine out of your relationship and putting the spotlight on the commitment behind it.

 

Aries Horoscope
Aries Horoscope (Mar 21 – Apr 19)

You and your partner might feel extra hopeful about a family or real estate expense early in the week. Perhaps you’re considering buying a home together for the first time, or you are thinking of taking out a second mortgage to free up cash. Unfortunately, by Saturday you’ll realize there is at least one very real obstacle in your way. You might not qualify for a loan, or you may discover that your credit rating isn’t up to par. Do what you can to make things right.

 

Taurus Horoscope
Taurus Horoscope (Apr 20 – May 20)

You might not feel as if you have a lot of time to connect with your partner lately. This week, especially, it may feel as if pressures of “real life” are killing any romantic potential between you and your mate. One of you might be under extra stress due to career requirements or a family obligation. There might be circumstances out of your control keeping you apart, and if so try to keep it in perspective. It is temporary.

Gemini Horoscope
Gemini Horoscope (May 21 – Jun 20)

Talking yourself up will be easier than ever after Wednesday. If you plan on introducing yourself to someone special or meeting a new date for coffee and conversation, there won’t be any awkward moments of silence. You’ll find common ground immediately, and you might even discover that your date enjoys how much you talk — a surefire signal you’ve met someone special! If you’re already in a relationship, you’ll still benefit from the spectacular communication energy. In your case, it’ll be a snap to make decisions with your mate. He or she will be more easily persuaded towards your perspective.

Cancer Horoscope
Cancer Horoscope (June 21 – Jul 22)

There might be tightness around your heart this week, and if so you’ll need to explore the reason behind it. Are you preventing love from reaching you? Shutting down the very possibility out of intense fear of betrayal or other pain? If so, this will be a time to remember that most of us have had our hearts broken one time or another. What a terrible tragedy it would be if you decide to be overwhelmed by yours. Work through the sorrow. Dare to keep your broke heart open.

Leo Horoscope
Leo Horoscope (Jul 23 – Aug 22)

If you’re in the market for fun and romance then this week, you’ll have the ability to make sure everyone in your social circle knows it! On Wednesday, Mercury will enter your friendship sector, where he’ll remain until May 29. This will be an ideal time to set up a profile on an Internet dating website, or to initiate communication with a “friend of a friend” you have a crush on. Attend meetings for any groups you’re a part of. New romantic prospects will be everywhere.

Virgo Horoscope
Virgo Horoscope (Aug 23 – Sep 22)

Communicating with your sweetheart about religious, philosophical or even educational pursuits might prove difficult this week. You may feel that no matter how hard you try to shine your perspective, your lover isn’t open minded enough to listen. He or she may also offer disparaging remarks or non-constructive criticism if you’re in the publishing industry and ask him or her to review any work you’ve written. Do yourself a favor this week and keep the conversation light. It’ll save you both a headache.

Libra Horoscope
Libra Horoscope (Sep 23 – Oct 22)

Mars continues to move retrograde in your sign, challenging you to find the courage to fight fair for what you want in your relationship. This isn’t an easy process for you, because fighting in general is not your forte. Realize you don’t have to act in an explosive way to get what you want. Brute force is not the answer, and these days it’s not even possible. Win through mastering the art of passive resistance. That’s how you’ll tire out your partner and allow room for a real breakthrough.

Scorpio Horoscope
Scorpio Horoscope (Oct 23 – Nov 21)

Anticipate reaching new heights with your partner on Tuesday. You and your love may decide to take a learning adventure together by attending a workshop on a subject that interests you both. This will open your minds in a way that delights you both — and in a way that draws you closer together. After Wednesday, it’ll be easy to approach your partner and talk about a delicate matter. You might also find it easier to make a financial decision together.

Sagittarius Horoscope
Sagittarius Horoscope (Nov 22 – Dec 21)

Talking to your partner should become much easier this week. After Wednesday, Mercury will move into your relationship sector, opening the door for faster and easier communication between the two of you. You might notice you actually want to engage in more dialogue with your mate now. Running ideas past each other or enjoying friendly banter are ways that will strengthen your bond. You’ll also get a sense that your partner is not just hearing you, but truly listening.

Capricorn Horoscope
Capricorn Horoscope (Dec 22 – Jan 19)

Love is in the air early this week, so be sure to take advantage of the happy energy while you’ve got it working for you. On Tuesday, romance is indicated — whether you’re dating someone or married. Either way, it appears that the way to each other’s hearts is through the senses. Indulge in a couple’s massage or dine at your favorite restaurant together. You deserve the bliss. By Saturday, you might feel frustrated at a friend’s lack of support over your love life. Why are you giving this person’s opinion so much weight?

Aquarius Horoscope
Aquarius Horoscope (Jan 20 – Feb 18)

Your mind will focus on matters of the heart with a greater intensity after Wednesday. This will be a great time to consider writing your sweetheart a love letter or calling up your sweetheart for no other reason than to remind him or her how much you care. If you’re single and in the dating game, this will be an ideal time to set up one or more meetings with prospective partners. Coffee and conversation will prove to be the best aphrodisiac now. Go for it!

Pisces Horoscope
Pisces Horoscope (Feb 19 – Mar 20)

You and your sweetheart might work happily on a creative endeavor this Tuesday. If you have any children, you might enjoy extra special moments together with them early in the week, creating family memories that will last forever. After Wednesday, it’ll be clear that your mind is focused on domestic matters, and this will be primarily what you talk to your partner about. You might make a decision together that involves family, real estate or a move.

Daily OM for May 4th – Clearing Our System

Clearing Our System
Food Allergies

In this day and age we know so much more about our relationship to food than our predecessors, and the way we eat and think about food has become almost unrecognizable to our grandparents’ generation. One example of this is our awareness of food allergies, a condition that has recently entered the collective consciousness. Most of us know someone who is allergic to such commonplace foods as wheat and dairy, and we may even be prone to such an allergy. Understanding how our bodies react to food, and making the necessary adjustments in our diet, can have a profound effect on our whole energy system, and can be the key to shifting our mind into a state of greater clarity.

When we are continuously exposed to a food that gives us an allergic reaction, we feel lethargic, foggy-headed, or as if we always have a low-grade sinus infection. Other symptoms can include nausea, digestive difficulties, skin problems, and difficulty breathing. Many of us have been fighting these symptoms our whole lives without realizing that getting relief could be as simple as cutting a particular food out of our diet. When we do, we feel as if we are waking up out of a fog, and our whole system, cleared of substances that work against it, benefits. Many people see skin improvements, they sleep better, have more energy, and feel able to think more clearly. When we feel less than well, testing ourselves, or getting tested by someone else, for food allergies may be a good place to start.

If you know how to do kinesiology, or if you work with a pendulum or have access to clear signals from an inner guide, you can test yourself. If these modes of gaining information are unfamiliar or uncomfortable, you can get tested through a doctor of your choice. However we go about it, exploring our relationship to the foods we eat can be the first step to a more optimal state of health, well-being, and clarity of mind.

Source:
Daily OM

Your Animal Spirit for April 30th is the Loon

 Your Animal Spirit for Today
April 30, 2014

Loon

Loons mate for life, and their medicine is about loyalty, family, and deep caring for one another. If you’re experiencing a relationship fraught with power struggles, you are NOT practicing Loon medicine. If your relationship has BECOME a power struggle, Loon has appeared to remind you that this is a time of equal sharing and equal happiness. Something is amiss and Loon thinks you already know what it is.

 

Today’s I Ching Hexagram for April 15 is 44: Liaison

44: Liaison

Tuesday, Apr 15th, 2014

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The attraction is strong, but the relationship is not destined to last. So, be careful — the magnetism of polarized forces may not be what it seems. An apparently harmless, but potentially dangerous, energy has attracted attention to itself and is pulling on a stronger one. The ancient image is of a bold but immature girl who uses her charms to gain influence with a stable, powerful man. The man dallies with her, thinking that it can do him no harm. Ha, famous last thoughts! When power shifts into the hands of those unprepared for it, harm comes to all parties.

Still, you need not fear meetings with those whose positions are widely different from your own, as long as you can remain free of ulterior motives.

Be especially wary of temptations that arise because of your connections to important people. Generally, it is best to combat such temptations by snipping them in the bud before they can flower. Just as soon as a dangerous liaison presents itself is the time to take note and speak up. On the other hand, there are times when the meeting of the yielding and the strong turn out to be opportunities for truly positive and constructive relationships. The difference between careless connection and a relationship of depth lies in the motives of the heart. How sincere are you?

 

Your Love Horoscopes for the Week of April 14th

Tension fills the air this week, especially in the relationship department. On Tuesday, an angry Lunar Eclipse in partnership-oriented Libra will likely lead to a moment of reckoning for you and someone close. This might be in business or in your personal life, but one thing is certain — if there is an ending to a relationship, there will be no turning back. Romantic aspects will be much kinder on Thursday and Friday. Love planet Venus will link up to both Jupiter and Pluto, allowing an emotionally fulfilling union to thrive.

 

Aries Horoscope
Aries Horoscope (Mar 21 – Apr 19)

You might feel especially hard-hit in the relationship department. Tuesday’s Lunar Eclipse in your partnership sector might lead to a final decision between you and your mate about the status of your union. If you’ve felt as if your relationship has been symbolically dead for a long time, it’s likely this eclipse will bring the impetus for one of you to officially end things. Or, it’s possible your partner will be extra argumentative this week, making it impossible for you to work together as a team to solve a problem that affects you both.

Taurus Horoscope
Taurus Horoscope (Apr 20 – May 20)

While romance may prove challenging for most this week, you’ll be one of the lucky ones. On Thursday, your ruler, Venus, will be at a fine angle to benevolent Jupiter, now traveling through your communication sector. A group meeting or event may lead to enchanting conversation with one very special someone. Before you know it the two of you might go off into your own little corner of the room and decide to explore your incredible chemistry. On Friday, the power of love really will be able to conquer all. Trust it.

Gemini Horoscope
Gemini Horoscope (May 21 – Jun 20)

A testy Lunar Eclipse will fall right in your romance sector this week, aggravating any already frustrating conditions about your love life. In addition, Mars continues to move retrograde in this same area of your chart. Between these two energies, you might feel as if things between you and your sweetheart are in an irreparable state. If you’re unhappy in the relationship, it’ll be easier for you to come to terms with any separation. This might not even be about an ending for you and your sweetie, though. The two of you may be in a deadlock about an issue relating to a child in your life or the potential for the two of you to have children together.

Cancer Horoscope
Cancer Horoscope (June 21 – Jul 22)

You and your spouse or partner may have difficult discussions surrounding a domestic matter this week. This tension on the home front might make it impossible for the two of you to connect romantically, even if you want to. If your lives are filled with pressure and responsibility, the two of you may have grown so far away from intimacy that you’re not sure how to return to that place of couplehood. This week, you’ll be so busy putting out “fires” at home that you won’t even have time to work on nurturing your love life.

 

Leo Horoscope
Leo Horoscope (Jul 23 – Aug 22)

Communication with your love may not go as planned this week. Try to avoid making any vital decisions with your partner or having a significant conversation. Words will be heavy all around, and it’s also likely that one or both of you will take a defensive stance when it’s not really called for. In other news, you might hear something positive relating to money the two of you share. This could be joint income, a mutual investment or even an inheritance.

Virgo Horoscope
Virgo Horoscope (Aug 23 – Sep 22)

Your tendency to try to control every aspect of your love life isn’t likely to work well. If you recognize that you’re speaking to your sweetheart with a stronger, more manipulative tone, ask yourself why you’re doing this. If you believe this is the way to bind your lover closer to you, you’re actually doing the opposite. If you can let go of your need to control, you can start enjoying the love that you have instead of constantly fearing it will disappear. You might even have a breakthrough on Friday.

Libra Horoscope
Libra Horoscope (Sep 23 – Oct 22)

This might be an especially challenging week for you, personally and in terms of a close relationship. If so, know that the winds of change are blowing your way for a reason. One door must close so that you are able to open the next door — the one that is compatible to where your life is meant to go. On Tuesday, a Lunar Eclipse in your sign, accompanied by tense communication aspects, might put pressure on you in more than one way. Long-term resentment in a relationship may come to a head now. Be gentle with yourself.

Scorpio Horoscope
Scorpio Horoscope (Oct 23 – Nov 21)

While romance might be most difficult for certain signs this week, you appear to be exempt from most of the drama. In fact, love prospects appear to be remarkable in your case! On Thursday Venus, now in your true love sector, will be at a gorgeous angle to Jupiter. You and your sweetheart might decide to explore new horizons together spiritually, culturally or intellectually. Then, on Friday, Venus will be at a gorgeous angle to Pluto, now in your communication sector. You’ll easily speak to your lover about how this relationship moves you.

Sagittarius Horoscope
Sagittarius Horoscope (Nov 22 – Dec 21)

Your love life might be a bit rough around the edges this week — especially if a friend decides to interfere. On Tuesday, a tense Lunar Eclipse in your social networking sector might, in fact, lead to the end of a friendship. Or, it’s possible your pal is going through a very difficult time emotionally and lashes out at you unintentionally by attacking your romantic choices. You’ll be hurt, but try to take the high road if at all possible.

Capricorn Horoscope
Capricorn Horoscope (Dec 22 – Jan 19)

Your attention might focus less on romance this week, as you’ll likely be consumed with a major shift in your life that connects to your career. Fortunately, while this is happening, you’ll be able to draw on the support of your partner. You’ll have an easy ability to communicate with your sweetheart, and you can use him or her as a sounding board to help you figure out how to handle whatever difficulty might come your way. You’ll be grateful for the guidance.

Aquarius Horoscope
Aquarius Horoscope (Jan 20 – Feb 18)

Someone special might make you feel loved and valued this week — but from behind closed doors. It’s possible the one you care about most truly is on your side and wants to support you as you try to build your confidence. The interesting thing, however, is that he or she will prefer to do so quietly in the background. Perhaps it’s because your lover knows you need to walk this journey bravely on your own. Still, it’s nice to know you’re believed in.

Pisces Horoscope
Pisces Horoscope (Feb 19 – Mar 20)

If you’re married or in a committed relationship with someone you share resources with, you might experience tension relating to joint finances this week. Your partner might lose a source of income or you might learn about an investment you both made together that has gone sour. If single, it’s another story entirely. On Thursday and Friday, cupid might be nearby, and it’s possible you’ll meet someone who captures your heart. Prepare for that arrow.

The Witch’s Magick for Friday, April 4th – To Become Open To A New Relationship

To Become Open To A New Relationship

 

Inscribe a pink candle with your name, then anoint it and a rose quartz crystal with sunflower oil. Light the candle. Hold the stone in your hand, and visualize friendships coming your way and new relationships forming. Chant this three times:

Open mind, and gain new life,

Gone from you, all stress and stifle.

Open heart, gain life anew,

Accept all love that’s offered you.

Positive thought and word and deed

Enter now – of bane I’m freed.

Ancients, hear me – grant my plea

To new relationships, open me.”

 

Place the stone by the candle and leave it there until the candle burns all the way down. Carry the stone with you.

 

Source:

Everyday Magic
Dorothy Morrison

Your Weekly Love Horoscopes for March 31st

Tension fills the air early in the week, making it impossible for relationships to go smoothly. On Wednesday, the Sun will conjunct Uranus, activating the urge for rebellion and independence. Then, on Thursday, the Sun will be at an angry square to Pluto. This energy may bring on conflict and power struggles in your personal life. If, for example, you feel like someone has the upper hand at the office, you may try to compensate by wielding power on your mate in an unfair way. Thankfully, Venus will enter Pisces on Saturday, and until May 2 we’ll feel more inspired to enjoy romance and spiritual connections in matters of the heart.

Aries Horoscope
Aries Horoscope (Mar 21 – Apr 19)

Your drive for autonomy may prove too difficult to pursue while you’re in a relationship. Even if you’re happy with your mate, it appears as if you’ll require a significant amount of breathing room this week. Consider taking a “time out” from love, whether you’re single or attached, and that way you can focus on your personal priorities without any added drama. If you’re in a relationship, your mate already knows how important independence is to you. Hopefully, he or she will understand. Otherwise, you might begin to feel suffocated.

 

Taurus Horoscope
Taurus Horoscope (Apr 20 – May 20)

With Venus moving into gentle Pisces this week, you’ll feel a distinct shift in your love nature. What will happen from Saturday until May 2 is that you’ll enjoy social encounters more, and this will usher in new and exciting romantic prospects. You might decide to accept a friend’s invitation to set you up on a blind date with someone he or she believes is a perfect soul mate for you. Or, you may consider that your feelings for a friend have blossomed into something more than just a platonic relationship.

 

Gemini Horoscope
Gemini Horoscope (May 21 – Jun 20)

You might meet someone special who shares your goals and ambitions. If so, there might be a potential romance in the making … but it will need to be one that you keep out of the bedroom for a bit. This is because, although Venus may provide an opportunity for you to fall in love, Mars — the planet that rules sex — is still traveling retrograde in your true love sector. This may put a wrinkle in your sex life if you initiate a sexual relationship with anyone new until after Mars turns direct. May 19 is not too far away. It’ll be worth the wait.

 

Cancer Horoscope
Cancer Horoscope (June 21 – Jul 22)

All of the career opportunity you’ve got going on might blow up an existing power struggle between you and your mate this week. On Tuesday, your partner will likely alternate between feeling optimistic about your prospects to feeling overwhelmed at the changes they imply regarding your relationship. Time will continue to be a scarce commodity as you move forward professionally, and balancing partnership, family and personal pursuits along with your career goals may be impossible. At least for a while. 

 

Leo Horoscope
Leo Horoscope (Jul 23 – Aug 22)

If you’re in the midst of a divorce, there may be legal tension ahead. Wednesday and Thursday in particular may prove to be rattling as there may be an unexpected development in the proceedings. Do your best to remain focused on cooperating with the process, and remember that the only way out of this situation is to go through it. Fortunately, after Saturday Venus will enter the area of your chart that rules shared resources. You may receive a favorable settlement after all. If attached, your mate could receive news of a raise.

 

Virgo Horoscope
Virgo Horoscope (Aug 23 – Sep 22)

If you’re tempted to use sex as a weapon this week, it’s a guarantee you’ll be hurt. On Thursday, a nasty square between the Sun and Pluto (now in your true love sector) might bring on a power play between you and your sweetheart. Instead of working through it, you may choose to act in a more passive-aggressive way, withholding affection instead. Don’t! Thankfully, love planet Venus will enter your partnership sector on Saturday. You and your mate will have much better bliss potential until May 2.

 

Libra Horoscope
Libra Horoscope (Sep 23 – Oct 22)

Unexpected changes in partnership will continue. A recent New Moon in your relationship sector this past Sunday guaranteed a fresh start, but because it’s filled with tension it might not be all that you bargained for. On Wednesday, the Sun will connect with Uranus in your house of commitment, making you question whether or not a traditional union works for you any longer. Then, on Thursday, this revelation may have consequences on the home front. If single, after Saturday and until May 2 you may have an office romance blossom.

 

Scorpio Horoscope
Scorpio Horoscope (Oct 23 – Nov 21)

Tension at the office may distract you from romance all week, but after Saturday you can count on a pleasant change of circumstances. By then Venus, the planet of love, will enter your romance sector, where she will remain until May 2. This annual transit of Venus in this part of your chart is one of the most supportive cycles to help you meet someone new. Be sure to go out and put yourself in a position to meet new and interesting people. Because Venus will be in Pisces, you’ll feel most attracted to artistic, musical or spiritual souls.

 

Sagittarius Horoscope
Sagittarius Horoscope (Nov 22 – Dec 21)

Love may be a battlefield for you this week. Although you’ll have an extraordinary level of excitement, all of those sparks may come at a heavy price. A recent New Moon in your true love sector on Sunday ushered in opportunity for you to meet someone new. The problem is that in addition to the lunation itself being a stressful one, this week there are difficult planetary aspects happening to amplify the tension. A love triangle is possible, or a jealous ex. Avoid a one-night stand because it’s something you’ll surely regret in the morning.

 

Capricorn Horoscope
Capricorn Horoscope (Dec 22 – Jan 19)

There is so much happening at home that it might put a dent in your relationship harmony this week. Unexpected developments in your domestic world might unnerve you, and you may expect your partner to make everything right. Don’t put that kind of pressure on your mate. It’s not only unfair, but it’ll be unrealistic. He or she is likely to feel just as affected by what’s happening as you are. The good news is that after Saturday you’ll have an easier time communicating harmoniously. Until then, avoid major decisions if possible.

 

Aquarius Horoscope
Aquarius Horoscope (Jan 20 – Feb 18)

You may shock your sweetheart this week with your words. Unexpected conversations, decisions or declarations may throw your relationship into a tailspin. At first, the impact may feel jarring, but on Wednesday you’re also likely to feel as if getting this information out into the open has the potential to revolutionize your love connection in the most invigorating way. Sometimes you have to shake things up to keep the blood flowing. That’s what may happen this week in your love life.

 

Pisces Horoscope
Pisces Horoscope (Feb 19 – Mar 20)

After a difficult and distracting week of putting out fires in your financial life, you’ll be glad to know a reward will arrive on Saturday. By then Venus, the planet of love, beauty and harmony, will enter your sign, where she’ll remain until May 2. During this phase your powers of attraction are enhanced, allowing romantic opportunities to flourish. If single, more than one person may express interest. If attached, your mate will fall in love with you all over again.

Daily OM for March 17th: Feeling Our Words

Feeling Our Words
Words Have Weight

by Madisyn Taylor

The more conscious we become, the more we deepen our relationship to the words we choose to use.

Words carry energy and this gives language its power and its potential to heal or hurt. Most of us can remember a time that someone sent a word our way, and it stuck with us. It may have been the first time we received a truly accurate compliment, or the time a friend or sibling called us a name, but either way it stuck. This experience reminds us that what we say has weight and power and that being conscious means being aware of how we use words.

The more conscious we become, the more we deepen our relationship to the words we use so that we speak from a place of actually feeling what we are saying. We begin to recognize that words are not abstract, disconnected entities used only to convey meaning; they are powerful transmitters of feeling. For the next few days, you might want to practice noticing how the words you say and hear affect your body and your emotional state. Notice how the different communication styles of the people in your life make you feel. Also, watch closely to see how your own words come out and what affect they have on the people around you.

You may notice that when we speak quickly, without thinking, or rush to get our ideas across, our words don’t carry the same power as when we speak slowly and confidently, allowing those receiving our words time and space to take them in. When we carefully listen to others before we speak, our words have more integrity, and when we take time to center ourselves before speaking, we truly begin to harness the power of speech. Then our words can be intelligent messengers of healing and light, transmitting deep and positive feelings to those who receive them.

Straight from

The Daily OM

Spring Love Horoscopes 2014

Spring Love Horoscopes 2014

Watch as your love life springs back into action!

Jeff Jawer  Jeff Jawer on the topics of spring, love, horoscope, astrology

The fiery passion of the heartwarming Sun’s entry into Aries gets the spring off to an enthusiastic start. We’re ready for action, and we are willing to take risks to make new connections or to rekindle the spark of an ongoing relationship.

Yet there may be some resistance to exposing our softer sides until amorous Venus shifts into dreamy Pisces on April 5, a transit that dissolves intellectual boundaries and a time when reason gives way to romantic urges that have no limits.

It’s easy to fall in love when defenses are down, especially as Venus joins Pisces’ imaginative planet Neptune on April 11. Although fantasy can overcome reality then, the love planet’s move into independent Aries on May 2 will break through emotional illusions.

After some crazy times on May 14-15, partnerships get a positive push when active Mars regains forward motion on May 19. Alliances that have been stuck on old issues and feelings of isolation will be easier to overcome in the weeks ahead.

Just remember to communicate carefully when Mercury the messenger is retrograde from June 7-30, increasing the chances for misunderstandings.

Aries (March 21 – April 19)

Sure, the Sun blasts into your energetic sign on March 20 this year, which is bound to turn up the heat in relationships. But the harder you push for what you want, the further you might feel from your goals. The cause is Mars, your primarily passionate ruling planet, whose jets have been cooled since entering accommodating Libra last December. It’s been nice to be nicer, but Mars slipped into reverse on March 1, which can put even more obstacles on the road to romance. This period, ending May 19, is useful for working out kinks with a current partner, but it can be more difficult for making progress with someone new.

Fortunately, you should become more appealing to others when alluring Venus enters Aries on May 2. A tendency to let your heart leap ahead of your mind, though, could put you in unsettling situations around May 14-15. But getting through any rough spots then will deepen understanding of your needs and set you up for a smoother ride (and maybe someone new) when Mars corrects its course a week later.

Taurus (April 20 – May 20)

Sweet Venus, your lovable ruling planet, enters magical Pisces and your 11th House of Groups on April 2. Shared interests and ideals are a great starting point for a potential relationship. Friendship could heat up with this transit, too, turning an intellectual attraction into an emotional one. The Sun’s entry into your sensual sign on April 19 should boost your confidence, especially if you’re physically active. Still, if you give too much away to make someone else happy or fail to express your needs, Venus’ shift into independent Aries on May 2 could rattle a relationship.

Steam starts rising with the Scorpio Full Moon in your 7th House of Partners on May 14, while Venus is entering volatile territory. These transits can be good for clearing the air if you have the will to address delicate issues. Hunkering down and resisting change is the least effective way to react, so be flexible and open-minded until the storm passes. You will be more appealing when Venus enters Taurus on May 28, although reality may force a tough romantic decision when the love planet opposes serious Saturn on June 12.

Gemini (May 21 – June 20)

Conversations flow easily from March 22-27, which can help you to connect with someone new or iron out kinks in a current relationship. Falling for someone in a position of authority at work is deliciously tempting when amorous Venus joins dreamy Neptune in your 10th House of Career on April 11. But if you lose sight of reality, it’s going to come back very intensely on April 14-16, when your key planet, Mercury, stirs up surprises and emotionally charged discussions.

Quiet time grows more appealing when the Sun and Mercury enter placid Taurus and your private 12th House on April 19 and April 23. Getting attention is more difficult, but what you do behind closed doors is more important to your love life. You can refresh yourself with a physical and mental makeover when the Sun enters your sign on May 20. It’s a great time to put yourself out there and take the initiative in relationships. Just communicate extra carefully, avoid major commitments, and tie up loose ends from June 7-30, while chatty Mercury is moving retrograde (backwards).

Cancer (June 21 – July 22)

Taking charge in personal matters is called for when the Sun blasts into your 10th House of Control on March 20. Be bolder in connecting with new people or initiating changes in a current relationship to build your confidence and increase your desirability. Caution is recommended on March 29, though, when lovable Venus runs into barriers and delays from stodgy Saturn. The rambunctious Aries New Moon the following day might put you in a less than cooperative mood, but chilling is wiser than forcing a potentially explosive issue.

There’s romance in the air when Venus joins inspiring Neptune on April 11. Travel, education and a person from a faraway place are possible sources of divine pleasure. Take a break from your usual routine to carve out some time and space to taste this emotional magic. Cuddling in the corners and meeting with people in out of the way places makes sense when the Sun enters your secretive 12th House on May 20.  Keeping things confidential and avoiding gossip are keys to earning and maintaining someone’s trust.

Leo (July 23 – Aug. 22)

The spring begins with the fiery Aries Sun lighting up your 9th House of Higher Mind and Faraway Places, which triggers romance when you get out of town or find intellectual stimulation. If you’re already in a relationship, exploring unfamiliar territory together is a way to restore passion. While you appreciate honesty, it’s wise to be discriminating about what you say when the Sun joins rebellious Uranus on April 2 and clashes with potent Pluto on April 3. Power struggles and impatience can trigger emotional explosions that unsettle partnerships.

Excitement rises again when amorous Venus enters Aries on May 2, motivating you to take more chances in pursuit of love. You may be restless and willing to engage in risky behavior. If you cross the threshold of safety and reason, the consequences are likely to appear around May 14-15. But you can regain your social sense of balance and your sense of humor on May 20. Friends and groups become sources of support and stimulation that help you find fun and pleasure in less stressful situations.

Virgo (Aug. 23 – Sept. 22)

Relationships are likely to heat up with the Sun blasting into fiery Aries and your 8th House of Intimacy on March 20. You could feel like you’re being pushed by an impatient person, but the point is for you to pick up the pace and push partnerships in a new direction. If you’re single and looking, you may have to take some chances and bring more passion to your pursuit of love. If you have a partner, turn the heat of conflict (or the irritation of boredom) into motivation to take this union in a fresh direction. Standing still is probably the least desirable way to act now.

You should feel more comfortable when the Sun shifts into stabilizing Taurus on April 19, followed there by your key planet Mercury on April 23. These grounding forces increase the confidence needed to seek more rewarding ways to be with someone. Travel is one activity to broaden your horizons and invite romance into your life. Mental Mercury’s retrograde period of June 7-30 complicates communications, requiring more sensitivity in what you say and how you listen and respond to others.

Libra (Sept. 23 – Oct. 22)

Your relationship life can be like a high-strung Ferrari that runs great when conditions are ideal, but breaks down with the slightest hiccup. The source of this image is passionate Mars, which has been in your sign since last December. On March 1, this tentative warrior turned retrograde and will continue to backpedal in Libra until May 19. The good news is that it keeps your relationship matters cooking. The bad news is that you may have difficulty getting new partnerships off the ground, or you can stay entangled in the old personal issues you’ve been struggling with for some time.

It’s helpful, then, to think of making a fresh start in how you pursue romance. There are old ideas and methods that could be holding you back, so think about altering your approach, attitude and expectations. On May 20, the Sun flits into sister Air sign Gemini, which will lighten the atmosphere, kick flirting up to a higher level, and — along with Mars getting back into gear — help you turn on the charm with even greater effectiveness.

Scorpio (Oct. 23 – Nov. 21)

You may have been biding your time, dealing with frustration or accepting less than full satisfaction in relationships since your passionate ruling planet Mars entered indecisive Libra and your out-of-the-way 12th House of Privacy last December. Your reasonability and patience, though, should finally be rewarded with a series of romantically favorable patterns that begin on April 19. The Sun enters sensual Taurus and your 7th House of Partners then, inviting greater ease in a current union or helping you to attract an undemanding individual.

If you feel boxed in with the emotionally intense Scorpio Full Moon on May 14, fireworks could explode in the days ahead. Mars finally shifts out of reverse on May 19, freeing up plenty of energy to start a partnership or take your current one in a new direction. Amorous Venus hits your 7th House of Partners on May 28, making you even more appealing to others. Then, sweet words and gentle thoughts come with communicative Mercury’s move into tender Cancer on June 17, allowing you to discuss delicate issues with care.

Sagittarius (Nov. 22 – Dec. 21)

Spring is a time to get sassy and playful as the fiery Aries Sun starts the season on March 20 in your 5th House of Romance, Fun and Games. Taking chances in matters of the heart is a way to express your restless emotions, but it could backfire between March 29 and April 2 if you don’t temper enthusiasm with a bit of caution. Amorous Venus’ move into super sensitive Pisces on April 5 is another signal that being gentle and patient could be your keys to relationship success. Fortunately, the love planet’s favorable alignment with your guy Jupiter on April 17 could make you extra lucky in love.

Another boost to your personal life comes when passionate Mars turns forward in your 11th House of Groups on May 19. Friends, colleagues and organizations increase your opportunities for making connections and having fun. The following day the Sun enters Gemini, casting love and light into your 7th House of Partners. This opens more chances for getting attention and attracting mentally stimulating people. Tempering your judgment about yourself and others is the secret on how to benefit from this month long transit.

Capricorn (Dec. 22 – Jan. 19)

You like to take charge of everything in your life, including relationships. Spring begins with the Aries Sun in your 10th House of Responsibility, which should increase your drive to run the show. But it’s wise to go easy and not be impatient at first. Amorous Venus runs into your planet Saturn on March 29, followed by tense solar connections with explosive Uranus on April 2 and provocative Pluto on April 3. These could turn your personal life upside down in a hurry, which might not be your intention.

Your personal life gets more pleasurable when the Sun enters sensual Taurus and your 5th House of Romance on April 20. This is a great time to express yourself in a down-to-earth way that will garner attention and affection. Keep things simple instead of trying too hard to make an impression. Pacing yourself in seeking love is meant to teach you how to enjoy every moment instead of stressing out in pursuit of a goal. Your life becomes more joyful and you become more desirable when you take it easy.

Aquarius (Jan. 20 – Feb. 18)

The Sun blasts into impulsive Aries and your 3rd House of Nearby Places on March 20, and joins your electrifying ruling planet Uranus there on April 2 to trigger spontaneous conversations and make connections close to home. But if there have been any secrets in relationships, they’re likely to be exposed during this potentially volatile period. On the other hand, if you feel stuck in your current situation, there’s a good chance of experiencing some romantic excitement when amorous Venus joins surprising Uranus on May 15.

You get a fresh wave of support for joyous relationships on May 20, when the Sun enters chatty Gemini and your 5th House of Romance. This yummy transit starts 30 days of delight and play, so avoid overloading yourself with work to take advantage of it. You will find it easier to get attention and to express your feelings in a light-hearted way. Don’t let heavy thinking or overly strong opinions take the fun out of connections that can warm your heart. Power struggles are possible around June 12-14, especially if you get locked into an inflexible position.

Pisces (Feb. 19 – March 20)

It’s appropriate to be a bit more assertive when spring begins on March 20. The Sun blasts into bold Aries then, rewarding you for standing up to yourself as long as you can do it while keeping your cool. You get the benefit of feeling more desirable and, in fact, becoming even more appealing to others when magnetic Venus enters your sign on April 5. Romantic fantasies start to flow, especially when Venus joins your dreamy ruling planet Neptune on April 11. Just be aware that what you’re seeing and sensing might be more of an illusion than reality. Take inspiration from it, but there’s work needed to solidify what you’re experiencing.

Passionate Mars has been slowed down by its retrograde period that finally ends on May 19. It slowly begins moving forward in your 8th House of Intimacy, which is excellent for renegotiating the terms in a current relationship or being more active in pursuing someone new. Verbal Mercury’s shift in watery Cancer on June 17 is another plus, offering tender conversations that lead to deeper emotional understanding.

Weekly Love Horoscopes for the Week of March 17th

Your mind will focus on achieving a sense of Nirvana with your partner thanks to Mercury’s ingress into dreamy Pisces on Monday. By Saturday, when Mercury connects to Neptune, you will surely be in a blissful mindset about love. The old saying, “Love is blind, deaf and dumb,” may apply here however — so don’t forget to temper your idealism with a reality check. Aside from this, there will be a sexy link between Venus and Uranus on Tuesday that should help you feel as if you’ve got at least a little slice of heaven in the romance department this week.

 

Aries Horoscope
Aries Horoscope (Mar 21 – Apr 19)

Romantic fantasies may be all consuming this week. You may enjoy dreaming up stories in your mind about the perfect love or about a relationship that you know will remain only in your dreams. There’s nothing wrong with a little reverie every now and then, but don’t forget to pay attention to the love potential that’s right in front of you. In fact, on Tuesday you may have a close encounter with someone who takes your breath away. Someone who is real!

Taurus Horoscope
Taurus Horoscope (Apr 20 – May 20)

If you’ve been feeling a subtle vibe that your boss (or someone you respect connected to your career) is attracted to you, it may not be your imagination. In fact, on Tuesday it’s possible that this person will come out openly about his or her feelings. Interestingly enough, you may reciprocate the affinity, and if so, you’ll have an interesting dilemma on your hands. Dare you entertain the thought of a love connection with a person who has this much influence over your professional life? Only you can answer that question.

Gemini Horoscope
Gemini Horoscope (May 21 – Jun 20)

Don’t be surprised if you experience a sexy romantic encounter with someone with a background quite different than your own. In fact, it will be this person’s exotic nature that stimulates you most! On Tuesday, the love planet Venus, now in quirky Aquarius, will be at a sizzling angle to Uranus, the planet of surprises. You will be most attracted to someone who marches to the beat of his own drummer. This week, you might even have an opportunity to make beautiful music together.

Cancer Horoscope
Cancer Horoscope (June 21 – Jul 22)

Your sex appeal will be at an all-time high this week and the best part is that everyone around you will notice! Your most attractive quality, by far, will be that you’re not afraid to explore deep emotions. On Tuesday you might even discover that someone you respect approaches you for advice about his or her intimate problems. If this happens, you’ll provide inspirational and original advice. Regardless, Venus continues to move through your erotic 8th house until April 5. You’re sexy and you know it!

Leo Horoscope
Leo Horoscope (Jul 23 – Aug 22)

You may want to explore a sexual fantasy or two with your partner this week — or at least strike up an open conversation with them! On Monday Mercury will enter the area of your chart that rules intimacy, creating a mental climate for you to think and speak more about your most private desires. On Tuesday, Venus will receive a shock wave from Uranus. Your partner may surprise you with an open invitation to explore new romantic territory that you previously thought was “off limits.” Enjoy the magic carpet ride!

Virgo Horoscope
Virgo Horoscope (Aug 23 – Sep 22)

Expect communication between you and your partner to improve dramatically this week. In fact, after Monday (and until April 7) you and your mate will enjoy a phase where you’re not only hearing one another … but you are truly listening as well. On Saturday you might share hopes and dreams for your future that you have previously held back from expressing. Much to your delight, you’re likely to discover that your lover holds the very same sentiments.

Libra Horoscope
Libra Horoscope (Sep 23 – Oct 22)

Your love life has been anything but boring. With Uranus moving through your partnership sector, rubbing elbows with Pluto, the agent of transformation, you’re in an ongoing process of relationship revolution. If you and your mate are doing well, then this will stimulate you to get out of any relationship rut and put the spice back into your lives. If, however, you’re feeling repressed, this might stimulate you enough to make a change. On Tuesday there may be tempting and sexy affair potential. For better or worse.

Scorpio Horoscope
Scorpio Horoscope (Oct 23 – Nov 21)

You and a sweetheart may decide to embark on a creative project together this week. Indeed, your imagination will reach new heights after Monday and lasting until April 7. Consider working on an artistic endeavor with your lover that you both find pleasurable. This hobby may consume both of you for weeks to come. On Saturday you might enjoy a very special conversation that leaves you each convinced that the other is a perfect soul mate. This week, relationship bliss can be yours!

Sagittarius Horoscope
Sagittarius Horoscope (Nov 22 – Dec 21)

Salacious affair potential is all over your chart these days! If you’re single or in an open relationship, this energy may feel quite stimulating. But if you’re in a committed relationship, you may find yourself in a quandary. Sudden attractions may boost your ego but acting on them may destroy an otherwise solid partnership. If you’re feeling bored with your mate this week try spicing things up by leaving sexy text messages or a seductive note. Phone sex might really amp up the fun as well!

Capricorn Horoscope
Capricorn Horoscope (Dec 22 – Jan 19)

No matter where you stand in a relationship, this week you will focus on the positive. An optimistic outlook can make all the difference and your ability to cancel out negative thinking after Monday will be incredible. On Saturday you may be especially wistful about romantic matters, and might be inspired to write a love letter or poem to a special someone. At the very least, it’ll be easy for you to express your true feelings.

Aquarius Horoscope
Aquarius Horoscope (Jan 20 – Feb 18)

You’re on fire when it comes to romantic potential these days. With Venus, the planet of love, moving through your sign until April 5, you’re essentially the “Belle of the Ball.” On Tuesday Venus will make a scintillating link to Uranus, now in your communication sector. You may suddenly profess your feelings for someone special, or hear a declaration of love from a sweetheart. If single, your neighbor might surprise you with an invitation to go out on a date. Go for it!

Pisces Horoscope
Pisces Horoscope (Feb 19 – Mar 20)

Your mind will fill with romantic fantasies this week. It’s possible, however, that your partner will think you’re too caught up in fairytale antics. It appears that you will communicate more about perfect love and happy endings, but this might not be the reality behind your current relationship status. If you pretend that everything is enchanting while there are problems brewing, this will only hurt your union even more. If you’re really in love, then you’d better keep it real.

Spirit and Character

Spirit and Character

Author:   Rhys Chisnall 

There is a growing belief in modern paganism in literal spirits. A casual look through of Pagan magazines such as Pagan Dawn or looking at pagan websites such as that of the Association of Polytheistic Traditions reveals that more and more pagans believe that spirits are literal entities in their own right. However to someone blessed with a modern mind and an admittedly incomplete understanding of the universe as revealed through evidence and scientific method it is impossible to believe in invisible entities (with agency) made of a different kind of stuff floating around us or existing on some other kind of literal plane of existence. Surely such a thing would then be a fact, an objective thing that would be subject to evidence and proof empirical rather than a matter of interpretation. If there were such a thing as literal spirits then it would be possible to prove their existence through evidence.

I hope to show that even though I believe there is no such thing as literal spirit (or spirits) it is still possible to relate to and have a relationship with it (or them) and that such a relationship is a natural outcome of having the kind of minds we have evolved with. This essay also argues that if we don’t take the existence of such beings literally, then what we mean by spirits is the same thing as characters. However of course, as always, it is up to the individual reader to make up their own minds on the literal existence of spirits but this essay serves to provide us non believers with a use for the concept of spirit, which is inferred rather than stated.

To avoid equivocation by spirit I mean the idea of an immaterial entity with agency that are seen as once being human such as the ancestors of traditional people or ghost, or those things thought never to have been human such as God, Gods, angels and demons. I am also using the term to describe the subjective experience of a particular place or time, such as the spirit of Christmas of the spirit of a place. I am also extending the term spirit to describe the animistic experience of spirits as the characters of tree and plants. People often describe their experiences of spirituality in the relationship that they have with such spiritual beings. For example they may talk about their relationship with God, their ancestors or the spirit of the land around them. It is what these people are having these spiritual relationships with which interests us.

There is no doubt that people have genuine experiences of spirits and it seems to me a little bit intellectually dishonest to dismiss them as just delusion or wishful thinking. I have spoken to people at pagan conventions who have the genuine belief that they have a personal relationship with some god or other that they often see as powerful spirit. Like George W Bush being told by the Christian God to invade Iraq, they too feel they get messages from their gods. While it should be noted that they never seem to get useful strategic information like this week’s lottery numbers or where the nearest Anglo Saxon treasure hoard is buried, they do claim to get instruction on behaviour and action. They feel that they are in a genuine two-way relationship with the deity. Therefore there need to be adequate explanations for these genuine experiences.

Anthropologists and cognitive and evolutionary psychologists suggest that the explanation has to do with our evolutionary heritage and the way our cognitive systems work. The French psychologist and anthropologist, Pascal Boyer, agrees that for many people the existence of spirits is a non controversial and unquestioned part of everyday life just as the existence of cars, plates and spoon are for us. He argues that this is due to complex reasons associated with the marvellous way that the human mind processes strategic social information, none of which is a clincher in itself but they all add up to create the kind of mind that forms relationships with what people perceive as spirits. Like most cognitive systems in the mind this occurs below the level of conscious awareness. We are unaware of the doings of most of the machinery of our minds.

Boyer argues that people have an overdeveloped sense of agency inference. By this I mean that we sometimes see or infer purpose in things where there is none. Think about it like this; imagine that you are in the forests of Africa deep in Paleolithic times. You are busy gathering your fruits when out of the corner of your eye you notice a branch move in the trees above. Evolution has programmed us in such a way that we are likely to infer the presence of some predator, a leopard perhaps, and infer that its purpose is to eat us for its supper. This is because those individuals who did infer a predator took evasive action and went on to survive and have more children who also had these predator inference capabilities thus avoiding getting eaten themselves.

In evolutionary terms, the cost of running away when we infer a predator where there is none is much lower than not inferring and not running away where there was one ready to pounce. In other words it is better to run from nine tigers that are not there, than not run from one tiger that is. The upshot of this is that evolution has given us an overdeveloped tendency to infer agency, a purpose, even when there is none. Perhaps this accounts for some of the people who claim to be psychics claiming they can sense a presence in dark spooky places.

We have evolved as a social species. Our individual survival depends on representing the minds of other people in our own minds; what the anthropologist and philosopher Dan Sperber calls meta-representation. As with theory of mind we are able to have some idea of what is going on in other people’s minds and infer from it their beliefs, emotions, intentions and motivations. If you think about it, theory of mind is a huge advantage, if we never had it, as the evolutionary psychologist Simon Baron-Cohen suggests, we would not be able to lie or cheat, or detect liars and cheaters, we would not be able to co-operate or predict other people’s actions, nor empathise, nor teach people as we would have no idea of what they already knew. In other words, we can hold an idea of another person’s mind, beliefs, emotions etc. within our own mind and from this we make inferences about them. Though I should add that this does not mean that the representation we have of another person’s mind need be correct.

We are even able to do this with the mind of people who are not really there, like distant cousins, dead ancestors or spirits, and infer what we think they are likely to believe, remember, perceive, communicate or approve of. We reason that despite being invisible spirits can act, think and believe as humans do, with purposes, interests and specialist knowledge. We hold a representation of the mind of the spirit within our own minds and from this, we infer the entities motivations, intentions, personality, behaviours, etc. From these inferences people can form relationships with them despite them not being real. It is even possible to have relationship with spirits without believing that they literally exist, which explains some of the experiences of modern mystics.

My argument is based on the idea that spirit is the same thing as character. For example Boyer suggests that we don’t need to be to be told much about a spirit’s character before we can infer things about it. If we are told simply that dearly departed Aunt Agatha was a miserable old battle-axe, we can imply all sorts of things about her character. We would be able to infer that she is bad tempered, that she has a dogmatic puritanical view of morality, that she would be a busy body, somewhat scary, liked writing letters of complaint etc., etc. It would not be hard to infer what her opinions and beliefs are. From this scant information we would be able to infer what dear Aunt Agatha would think of our actions and opinions and I dare say that she would not approve.

This would be reinforced further if you actually knew her, bringing memory of her character into the equation making inferences more accurate to how she was perceived. Just because she is dead it does not mean that her character is not represented in your mind and it can still influence your actions. For example, you may be about to head off to the pub for a quick pint, but then remember that dear Aunt Agatha disapproves of all alcohol with the exception of large sherry at Christmas. You may think again about that pint or you may go anyway to spite the old dragon. We represent her as still having a character.

This is reflected in societies that practise ancestor worship. Boyer again claims when a person dies their opinions and character are only remembered and acted upon while that person remains within the living memory of the survivors. After the last survivors who remembered them have passed into ancestor-hood themselves, that original person becomes part of the generic dead; they become one of the faceless ancestors and believed to act in a general ‘ancestorish’ way. It can be the same for Gods; we can take what the American philosopher Daniel Dennett calls an intentional stance about them. If you are told that Odin is the king of the Gods it is easy to make inferences about his character and what he approves and disapproves of and the cultural forces in which the god is situated in turn influence these.

For example knowing the Odin came from a Nordic Viking society means that we can imply all sorts of things about his character. We may see him as a warrior ready to fight, as a wise but not always trustworthy king, a political and somewhat Machiavellian intriguer. The Vikings themselves would have made inferences about him based on their cultural schemas and the experiences of their own lives. Living in harsh environments where death and hardship are common tends to produce harsh and pragmatic gods. This is perhaps why Californian New Age spirituality and myth has little to say about the ‘inevitabilities’ of life

There is a two way process between these personal experiences of spirits and the mythology that informs their characters. Mythologies are archetypal stories whose function according to the mythologist Joseph Campbell is to inspire a sense of the wonder at the mystical, to explain the shape of the universe, justify social systems and teach people about life. Ian Stewart and Jack Cohen, authors of several popular books on science, have suggested that Human beings are the story telling ape, a view shared by social-constructionists and discursive psychologists. We tend to see the world in terms of stories and we make up stories all the time about the world, other people and ourselves.

If you are talking about your boss you will tell it as a story, when you think about your last holiday, any event that occurred will be seen in the context of the story of you holiday. When we think about the origins of the universe we communicate this in the story of the big bang, when children tell their parents what they did at school, this will be told as a story. Stories are fundamental to how we see the world and mythology are in essence stories. They are stories about the way the world is and explanations for natural events, they support the status quo of society and they teach us how to live a fulfilling human life and how to face up to adversity.

Like all good stories, myths require characters and these are often in the form of gods and spirits. They fulfill archetypal roles within the narrative. Archetypes are originating patterns found according to the Swiss psychologist Carl Jung within the collective unconscious. This is the unconscious part of every person that contains universal themes common to us all. For example we all have the experience of mother and father, although how we view these concepts will be different to us all. It is these archetypes that underpin the characters within stories, including mythology. You can go anywhere in the world, to the remotest un-contacted tribe in the Amazon basin and they will still have the concept of mother and father, wise man, hero etc.

The movie producer Chris Vogler in his book, The Writers journey: Mythic Structures for Writers suggest that archetypal characters perform certain narrative functions within myths and stories. For example stories and myths contain heroes, villains, tricksters, henchman, allies, mentors, love interests (what Jung would call the anima/animus- the contra sexual archetype) etc. These functions are performed in the sacred stories of mythology by god, spirits, monsters and heroes and while their characters inform these stories their characters are also informed by the stories and the roles they play; a two way process.

This interplay between personal experience (through inference) and myth builds up the representation of the god or spirit in the mind. We can form a relationship with an entity that does not literally exist; it is metaphorical yet we can represent its character. Within especially religious or spiritual people this can be enhanced through altered states of consciousness. In such cases internal speech, which is generated in Brocca’s and Wernicke’s area within the brain, can be mistaken for the voice of the Gods while within deep prayer, meditation or the speaking of speaking in tongues. Something similar occurs when people are under the possession of Loa’s in Voodoo.

Therefore despite there being no literal spirits or gods inferences made about them are perfectly natural functions of the type of mind that we have. This also implies as we have seen that they can have a definite influence on our behaviour. As such it makes them a social force to be reckoned with.

So when we are talking about spirit we are talking about the same thing as character. In a sense Odin is a character, the various Loas of Voodoo are characters, Satan is a character as is Jesus and good old dearly departed Aunt Agatha. All of these through Sperber’s meta-representation can be represented in our minds and we can make inferences about them.

Therefore it seems to me that spirits are the same things as character, when we talk of spirits we are talking about characters and these can be represented in the human mind. From a personal perspective it is difficult for me based on the evidence of modern science and philosophy to accept the literal existence of spirits. However, science and philosophy do offer explanations into why people do believe in and experience spirits.

This article has shown that spirits are inferred characters with whom people enter into relationships. In other words when we talk of spirits we mean the same thing as character. These relationships have profound influences on people’s lives as people infer how to behave from what they believe are the wishes of the spirits (behave against or in accordance with) based on the cognitive processes of how their minds work. The relationships can be deepened and made even more real by the belief structures of people, their mythologies and their schemas that they use to interpret the experiences in their lives as the results of the activities of spirits. This in turn makes spirits a force to be reckoned with.

We have the kind of mind that believes in spirits and makes spirits a fundamental part of many people’s lives, but when looking at the evidence it is up to you decide whether they have literal reality or not. For those who have had experience of spirits, it is not about dismissing those genuine and precious experiences; rather it is about offering an alternative explanation.

Your Love Horoscopes for the Week of March 10th

If there’s an important conversation you need to have with your sweetheart, you may want to hold off until later in the week. On Monday, Mercury will square off with Saturn and this could leave you feeling extra insecure when it comes to speaking your mind. Fortunately, by Friday Mercury will be at a friendly angle to Mars allowing you to “walk your talk” in a way that your mate will respond positively to. Then, a Full Moon on Sunday in Virgo will leave you considering what is most important and useful to you in all areas of your life … including matters of the heart.
Aries Horoscope
Aries Horoscope (Mar 21 – Apr 19)

A difficult conversation about an intimate situation between you and a pal may be unavoidable on Tuesday. Are you feeling conflicted about growing romantic feelings for a friend? Insecure about whether or not he or she reciprocates them? If possible wait until Friday to broach the topic since by then you’ll have more confidence. If you’re already in a relationship, however, and your sweetheart isn’t happy about one of your friendships, he or she may become quite vocal about it this week. Your reaction may surprise you.

Taurus Horoscope
Taurus Horoscope (Apr 20 – May 20)

Try not to allow your partner to distract you from pursuing a fabulous career opportunity this week. He or she may feel insecure about you spending so much energy focusing on your professional life. If so, reassure your mate that you’re committed to your relationship but can also be committed to pursuing other goals as well. If you’ve been involved in a casual affair or dating someone you know you shouldn’t, Sunday’s Full Moon may prompt you to end the relationship altogether.

Gemini Horoscope
Gemini Horoscope (May 21 – Jun 20)

You’ll have the gift of gab later this week to help you out in a romantic situation. These days, with Mars still retrograde in your true love sector, it’s difficult to get a new relationship off the ground. Still, on Friday a gorgeous link between Mercury and Mars will help you to at least open up a dialogue with someone special that may prove to be promising down the road. Don’t worry too much if a relationship isn’t progressing as quickly as you’d like. Consider this a time to remember the old adage: “All good things come to those who wait.” For now, you’ll have a great mental connection with someone you’re attracted to. That’s a start.

Cancer Horoscope
Cancer Horoscope (June 21 – Jul 22)

A serious, but necessary, discussion with your sweetheart may need to happen on Tuesday. It’s possible that you’re not in agreement about how shared resources are being used, or that you are in the midst of a cold war regarding your sex life. Whatever the details, not talking it through will only make things worse. Yes, it will be uncomfortable, but it’s also a necessary step to restore hope to your relationship. You’ll feel more optimistic by Thursday.

Leo Horoscope
Leo Horoscope (Jul 23 – Aug 22)

There may not be much you can do early in the week to convince your partner to see things your way. You may be engaged in a deadlock over a family matter. It’s also possible that you cannot agree on a decision about a potential move, or work that needs to get done around the house. Try to hold off on giving any ultimatums since that will only frustrate both of you. Wait until Friday and you’ll see a swift change in energy. You can talk to your mate and actually get somewhere with the conversation by then.

Virgo Horoscope
Virgo Horoscope (Aug 23 – Sep 22)

While others may be in a difficult spot this week concerning relationships, you seem to be one of the lucky few who can enjoy smooth sailing. Your most significant partnership energy will be felt on Thursday when the Sun in your relationship sector will be at a fine angle to Saturn, now in your communication sector. You and your mate will agree on a vital matter that will affect each of you for the long haul. Enjoy the simpatico!

Libra Horoscope
Libra Horoscope (Sep 23 – Oct 22)

Communicating about romantic matters is likely to remain a central focus. This week however, you may experience a certain amount of frustration. If you’re not feeling appreciated by your lover you might begin to take it personally. Perhaps he or she isn’t offering you encouragement as you express your ideas or share your plans. If this happens, rather than quietly licking your wounds, consider sharing your insecurity. By Friday you may be surprised at how important it is for your sweetheart to make things right.

Scorpio Horoscope
Scorpio Horoscope (Oct 23 – Nov 21)

You’re one of the lucky few this week who can expect a relatively stress free time of it when it comes to romance. On Thursday, the Sun, now in your true love sector, will be at a fine angle to Saturn, now in your sign. Your ability to size up a relationship’s potential (to determine whether or not it has the capacity to endure) will be uncannily accurate. In addition, you’re likely to feel a certain assuredness that you’ve found that special someone with whom your love can stand the test of time.

Sagittarius Horoscope
Sagittarius Horoscope (Nov 22 – Dec 21)

Your social life may feel an extra slump these days. While you may not have an abundance of social invitations, this doesn’t have to completely annihilate your potential to meet someone special. On Friday, consider attending an event that one of your neighbors or a sibling hosts. You may even decide to take a weekend trip with a group of friends, and during the excursion make a potential love connection. Even if you don’t, there’s every indication you’ll enjoy the company you keep nonetheless.

Capricorn Horoscope
Capricorn Horoscope (Dec 22 – Jan 19)

Your thirst for knowledge may be renewed as you and your mate decide to focus on learning more about an area of philosophy, metaphysics or spirituality that fascinates both of you. What you believe in (and whether or not you’re on the same wavelength) will become increasingly important. Sometimes it’s ok to agree to disagree on a certain matter, but this week you’ll feel that it’s essential for you and your mate to be on the same page.

Aquarius Horoscope
Aquarius Horoscope (Jan 20 – Feb 18)

This week, you might rely on your sweetheart to be a sounding board as you work past any insecurity relating to speaking your mind to your boss. Run a mock dialogue past your partner before you approach any VIP since this will help to build your confidence. In other news, on Wednesday and Thursday the Moon will be in your partnership sector offering even greater assistance to your capacity to remain emotionally available to your mate.

Pisces Horoscope
Pisces Horoscope (Feb 19 – Mar 20)

If you’re dating someone new, your romantic prospects might turn into something more substantial than you imagine. If you’re already attached, however, an emotionally charged situation may test the veracity of your relationship. When you pare down the bare essentials, do you and your lover have what it takes to last? This is a question that Sunday’s Full Moon in your partnership sector will ask. A strong relationship will deepen under this influence, but a nonfunctional one will have to go.