The harsh reality of your relationship situation might come into glaring focus this weekend, despite your best efforts to ignore it. A square between Venus and Neptune on Friday will likely lead to some type of disappointment. You might realize you’ve been fooling yourself all along when it comes to your current romantic entanglement.

The trouble is that on the same day, the Sun and Venus also oppose Saturn, forcing you to pull yourself up from your boot straps. Instead of wallowing in what could have been, you’ll need to keep it real. Love is hard sometimes. This weekend, you’ll need to decide if you want to do the work in your relationship or not. Either way, you can’t keep pretending.

This Weekend’s Romantic Rating*

* Heart ratings are based on the lunar cycle. They range from low to full, with low indicating a rocky weekend for romance and full indicating plenty of passionate potential.