Invoking an imaginary lover, known as a tulpa, is one of the ways to explore tantra as a spiritual experience. The idea is to give honor and respect to the image, who gives his or her form to the tulpa. During sacred sex, you offer a prayer, blessing, or sacred gift to your tulpa as the expression of your divine love.
You will need your journal, a pen, a white candle, and three drops of neroli-scented oil.
Begin by writing out all the aspects of your imaginary lover or tulpa in your journal. Place the candle in its holder and light the candle while saying:
Goddess and God of divine love,
Let me know the way of sacred sex.
Look deep within the flame of the candle, and imagine the image of your tulpa shining deep within the flame. Merge and become One with your tulpa.
Apply the three drops of the oil to your first chakra (the base of your spine), fourth chakra (heart area), and seventh chakra (top of the head). Sense an energy beginning at your first chakra and moving slowly up to your seventh chakra. As it moves upward, the energy gradually builds, connecting all of your individual parts together into a whole.
Tonight as you drift to sleep, invite your tulpa to come in and visit you and heat up your dreams with heady passion.
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