July 23 – Daily Feast
Much is lost through misunderstanding – and often because we want someone to know we are angry. We choose to think they intentionally displease us, though we know nothing of their circumstance of what their thoughts really were. It must be an ego-building thing to believe that someone is trying to offend us. Somehow it gives an importance where there had been none. We have the uncanny knack of building a sad story with such realism that it makes us think we are more important than we are. It is not enjoyable to be the kind of person who wants to misunderstand – not only other people, but also life itself. It is painful to be unhappy and disagreeable, but some cannot resist the temptation.
~ It has come to me through the bushes that you are not united (agreeable); come to me when you are united. ~
‘A Cherokee Feast of Days’, by Joyce Sequichie Hifler