Honor Loved Ones: Make a Memory Candle

Adapted from By Candlelight, by Diana Rosen (Storey Books, 2002).

If you want to remember a departed human or animal loved one, the simple act of making a Memory Candle can bring great relief and healing. You can also do this to celebrate someone living, or to mark an important event like a graduation. Either way, the Memory Candle is a beautiful way to honor someone important to you.

1. Decide who you would like to honor in this way: it could be a deceased relative, friend, or companion animal, or someone with whom you have lost contact but still want to remember.

2. Choose a clear glass candle holder-a water tumbler or glass works well.

3. Find a photograph of the person you wish to honor in this way and make a photocopy of it, enlarging or reducing it to fit the height of the candle holder. If you don’t have a photo, you could do a simple drawing or make a photocopy of a memento you associate with that person or animal.

4. Wrap the photocopy around the glass and tape it securely. Place a nontoxic beeswax or soy wax candle in the glass. Place the Memory Candle in a special safe place and light the candle.

4. The soft glow of the candlelight will illuminate the photograph in a very beautiful and special way.

5. You can also pay homage to the living by naming this an “Honor Candle” and using a photograph to celebrate a graduation, marriage, birthday, retirement, anniversary, or other accomplishment of note.

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2 thoughts on “Honor Loved Ones: Make a Memory Candle

  1. nikki cartwright

    do i put the photo on the inside or outside of the candle holder?

    • Hello Nikki, it is good to hear from you. Take the photocopy and attach it to the outside of the holder. I know the ritual suggests that you make it cover the entire candleholder. But I wouldn’t do that. Make it smaller than the candleholder. I always make mine were the picture is right behind the candle on the outside. Doing it that way, makes a very beautiful candle. It is also pleasing to see your loved one illuminated by the candlelight. Just be sure to put your picture on the outside. Happy Samhain!

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